mere bhabhi ki ex is going to be my ex in future.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Every one in shekars family and singhs family know that saachi is not right for jagiya and haveli ki bahu. i know saachi or shekar's does not want jagiya's past, but what about his present can saachi adjust to this culture. Shekar's should know by now saachi cannot adjust and be a good bahu or wife to any one with her temper, with jagiya she would definitely get divorced soon after marriage...Shekars look like typical families now a days where whole family cannot control their daughter, but get her married to best family and try to find faults in her husbands family members and support their daughter.


don't want to even think or write anything about BV rubbish track no one is fool to watch same Anandi and Gauri track with ganga and saachi... what happened to singhs when they can accept saachi then why not go and talk to gauri parents and try to unite jagiya and gauri.

dadisa and sumitra are trying to force jagiya or black male him with anandi life so they are going to make same mistake balya vivah with anandi and saachi whome he don't like so even as a child jagiya has no choice and now he don't have any choice, sumitra don't give any importance to her son feelings, but hate ganga for jagiya life...i feel very bad for watching this serial for so long.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is clear CvS have run out of ideas.
Ganga story started well but soon they turned her onto another Anandi. Th character showed promise of being fiercely independent and with clarity. But now she has fallen in love with the doctor and is upset about his impending marriage.
Sanchi is turning into a vamp or is it another Gauri in the making.this whole track is silly and not worth watching.
Ansh have become non existent after honeymoon. There was so much this power couple could do together for the society instead of mutely watching the Ex husband and sister/ SIL drama.

There are many tracks left unfinished like the Gauri one , Ganga's divorce, Ratan Singh's punishment,
Ashima , land mafia, Vikram etc yet they shw this sickening Sanchi and her infatuation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shekhars are being foolish.

They are jeopardising Sanchi's future by failing to control her.

This alliance can't work. And Sanchi will be left out cold.

Already there were rumours about her floated by jealous college boys, about her relationship with "doctor". Then she's been through a sexual harassment also. Her rude nature is known to all and sundry, and can be validated by the rishta of Alok's friend's son which she had rejected, by shouting in front of everyone.

What will she do when her marriage doesn't happen with Jagya or falls apart for some reason?

She'll be subjected to worse stereotyping, rumours, assumptions, doubts and insults in society! The society is already sick and is ready to dismiss girls even without their fault. So how will Sanchi and Shekhars handle it?

Sanchi barks at Anandi for being a divorcee. Will she be able to handle this tag herself?

Or are the Shekhars and Sanchi ji herself taking it for granted that Jagya is BOUND TO ACCEPT and CARRY FORWARD this relationship no matter what? Using their "position" as Anandi's in-laws eh? 😲

Sanchi is foolish and short-sighted. But why are Shekhars still continuing to be irresponsible in her case? Already their reckless pampering and lack of guidance led to this state of things. Instead of being wiser and more careful now, they are giving in to her demands? It's not a matter one can brush asidel so easily! 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi can't understand one thing ..

Shekers family which is filled with total educated balanced people lost their brains just because their daughter's Mindless happiness 😆...she is acting like a child asking for a doll and this people went to bargain to show her that the bargain is not success so forget about the doll 🤢..

how crappy is that ...god its life long marriage talks ..that to you are not talking to stranger have a dice on the luck of jagiya not accepting ..their should be other way round if he accepts than what ??

on the other side

The singhs family which has see so many things ..DS like experience who can handle things very well ...today Anandi's in laws are more important than her ladesar happiness ...when did dadisa became so blind who can't get saachi childishness 🥱...

Are they that desperate to finish the matter of jagiya's marriage just becase anadi shouldn't get suffered at in laws house ...what will happen if they reject saying that they don't think saachi can adjust here as she born and brought up at different atmosphere ..

what kind of bond their build up between these families except get together at functions and talk sweet 😲...oh please these are life long decisions can't be done just saying yes with out thinking

the biggest mistake on shekers ..they know jagiya's past life is not that good ..he is not a suitable to saaci in any angle ..being relatives from girls side .knowing everything about jagiya's past ...even then they bought match for jagiya of their beloved daughter ..how can singhs deny the match ... they will be in total pressure even to think no for the match...

Totally totally wrong step from Sheker's 🤢

Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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completely agree, this is really a pathetic track, after reading that update on jagya accepting sanchi's proposal, i have lost whatever interest i had in this serial. i am really mad at sanchi'ss parents, they are giving in to her tantrums...and ruining her life...its a pity that parents like shekars, a brother like shiv, and a daddu with an army background couldn't put some sense into their useless, stubborn and arrogant daughter..instead went running to singhs and creating problems for everyone...so much for their modern thinking...😡.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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More than Sanchi it is the senior Shekhars who need to be blamed for all this.
Sanchi may have taken a liking for Jagya whih is more to do with her young age.She has seen the side of Jagya which was very attractive and sensible and dashing so one cannot really blame her for falling for him.
But if she had been taught to think about the consequences of her acts she would have never behaved the way she did throwing herself at Jagya and insisted on marrying only him behaving rudely in front of the people who came to her house with a marriage proposal.This is all because her parents never bothered to teach her lessons which were needed.
They just gave into her demands and took the easy way out whenever she threw a tantrum.If they were in a bad mood they would just shout at her other than that they never did anything to control.
She may have been a more difficult kid but that is no excuse.If they had been tough with her whenever it was needed and put their foot down when it was necessary from childhood onwards it would have never happened.
It doesn't look like the senior Shekhars ever actually sat her down and talked to her like she is an adult.

They are either too busy doting on their doll when they were in a good mood or too busy getting scared that she would break if they did not give into her desire or when they were at the end of their patience they would shout at her.I don't think their actions and reactions with regard to Sanchi have ever been balanced.
Now Sanchi will be faced with all the consequences of her mistakes and hopefully ends up learning something from them.
Her parents have to sit and watch her pay for all those mistakes.This is the price they will have to pay by not putting in enough efforts in raising their daughter


This is what Sumi and Bhairon and DS did with Jagya too.No doubt they loved him a lot and cared for him.To counter the pampering done by DS Bhairon was extra strict on him and sometimes very harsh and Sumi was a bit more balanced but she did not have much say.
As a result Jagya grew up to be a spoilt brat who was only scared of his father.
There was never a scene showing Bhairon sitting down and explaining why what he has done is wrong. When ever J misbehaved he was only punished and was not explained the consequences of his acts.By the time Jagya grew up he only had fear for his father.
Once he became indifferent to the punishments his descent became accelerated.
What he should have learnt at a young age from his parents and elders he had to learn from life.Now he is a man driven by feelings of guilt.If they had been more patient with Jagya they would have ended up with a son who is sensible.Anandi could always see him reason so I don't think it was so difficult for Bhairon or Sumi to make him see reason.They did not teach their son how to be a good husband and they ended up losing their DIL.

The failures on the part of the elder Singhs and Shekhars are pushing Sanchi and Jagya into a disaster.I only feel bad for both.Sanchi is foolish and blind doesn't know where she is going and falling into a pit Jagya under the burden combined guilt of his and his parents is being pushed into the same pit as Sanchi is falling into.

The only sensible people are the younger generation Mr and Mrs SRS,Jagya and Mahi.The elders who are supposed to be guiding the youngsters have gone blind.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont want there marriage itself to happen...😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya must REFUSE for his sake and for Sanchi's sake! Anandi and Shiv must intervene in case their families are being stupid!

This will be ruin for everyone! Why the hell are AnSh not acting here?!

Why isn't Anandi telling Singhs that they need not worry about her? Why isn't she at least telling Jagya that Sanchi is not right for her?

Why isn't at least Shiv telling Singhs that their refusal won't affect their existing relationship?

I wish Shiv was there when Daddu barked the proposal!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Jagya must REFUSE for his sake and for Sanchi's sake! Anandi and Shiv must intervene in case their families are being stupid!


bado key beech may bache interfere nahi hothe 😆 ...You know BV is very strict following family customs and traditions 😉

This will be ruin for everyone! Why the hell are AnSh not acting here?!

They are not even acting on their married life 😆..when saachi not making Anandi to sleep that she wanted to became sauthan to her in some context how can she even think and act properly 😆...
being a good husband shiv following Anandi whether is it good to make My sister to sathun where once my wife was his wife 🤣

Why isn't Anandi telling Singhs that they need not worry about her? Why isn't she at least telling Jagya that Sanchi is not right for her?

Because she is afraid of directly expressing her disinterest about saachi infront Ira 😆...ira may think what are you saying Anandi my daughter not good for jagiya 😆...so My daughter not even capable to stand beside jagiya which you left ..means she don't have your permission to use your use and throw objects 😆

Why isn't at least Shiv telling Singhs that their refusal won't affect their existing relationship?

he is omnipresent when time comes he will leave the situation to his beautiful and intelligent wife 😆

I wish Shiv was there when Daddu barked the proposal!

i wish that when girls family is going to ask a marriage proposal they should be damm shot sure that the relationship that they going to make is perfect ..not with half interest or to play skit in front of own family relatives 🥱

i was just kidding...as we all know this track trash meaning less 🤢



Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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even i feel the track is a disaster, but about shekhar's reaction, they know that they did a terrible mistake of pampering their child.daddu said that if jagya is not interested the topic gets closed without much drama. they are also under pain, becoz they also love their child in the same pampered way.they are not even daring to see the possibility of convincing saanchi and hurting saanchi, which makes us feel is this the same ira n cs reacting to shiv's decision of marrying anandi .

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