who is husband of your choice??? - Page 7

yes i know gauri is not in list . and i know what is topic about and i am talking to farayal malik

Originally posted by: surabhi01

yes i know gauri is not in list . and i know what is topic about and i am talking to farayal malik

surabhi i agree with you completely here but i guess we should leave this discussion this one member is just blind hater of Jagaya we cannot make her understand her all points show her blind hatred nothing logical

Originally posted by: kajal...

yes i know why your choice is none

before explainnig me if rule .what was the need to target member if ur reply was out my topic...ok if not monkey i can say him cheap.flirty dishonest person who love to use women for his own comfort...

who targetted any member my reply was to someone who is not talking right so gave my reply your which replies are in topic

yeah farayal malik but one thing i have to say ki jagya to behosh hai use to pata bhi nahi ki ki two girls start loving me .kya hoga jagya ka haal jub use pata chalega ki two girls start loving him .aur jub sanchi ganga ko rudely baat karegi tub jagya ka kya haal hoga .

at the end blind lover of jagya close the topic by passing these kind of foolish comments...

Originally posted by: kajal...

so shiv or bhairon are the winner...

For me it would be Bhairon. He is a very rational man, level headed, mature and knows how to balance everyone in family.

You can't ever call him a mamma's boy or a hen pecked husband.

He's perfect even if he doesn't have muscles or six pack abs!

BTW what is Jagya doing in this list? Who'd want a husband like that?

All those who claim Bhairon never stood up against Maa sa should probably watch old episodes to know the truth.

Only "Anandi" has not changed Bhairon.

Bhairon always stood up for everyone be it Gehna, Anandi, Sumitra, Basant's first wife and their families whenever DS barked or discriminated against them.

In his capacity and set up he did whatever he could do to rebel against orthodox and oppressive systems.

He was against child marriage too this is why he did not allow Sugna's gauna till age of 18. And he turned totally against it after he saw Sugna's fate as unwed mother, little Anandi's fate and Gehna's fate!

It was HE who fought to get Anandi educated and even ignited spirit of change in her even as DS and Jagya had extinguished it!

Whatever Anandi became was due to Bhairon.

Bhairon is more sensible than Shiv in handling his family. He rebelled against DS and Basant but never crossed his limits. He was always careful in his choice of words even in worst occasions (unlike Shiv).

Bhairon is no mamma's boy.

And even at this age he loves Sumitra as dearly as he used to when he had first married her.

As a man he has never behaved like a boss at home (unlike Shiv who thinks he's Collector saab even at home!). Even to make his point or to put others in place he kept exercising restraint and gave away only when things crossed all limits.

Bhairon is the best male character in BV. Hands down.

And he's the one responsible for upliftment of women in BV from Anandi to Gauri!

To be progressive after being brought up and educated in progressive milieu is a given. But to be progressive and rebellious despite a totally partriarchal and orthodox milieu in unbringing, education & work is difficult, rare and exceptional - something which only Bhairon had in the whole serial.

Bhairon also realises his mistakes himself. Even when his kids did blunders he only questioned & beat up himself first asking himself, "Kahan galti ho gayi humse? Kya kami reh gayi hamari parvarish mein?" instead of blaming his wife for the kids turning out to be rotten!
He never needed "pep talks" by others to make him realise he was also wrong. His own self introspection is so strong.

It's rare for a man in any milieu and hence more exceptional in Bhairon's case considering his rural background.

Bhairon never resorted to violence in dealing with others (except for slapping his son for the ultimate blunder). He always resorts to rational talks. There's not a dint of male ego or machismo in him. Nor any "maan" of his wealth, position or status (unlike Shiv who sometimes has shown Collector saab hangover).



Bhairon sa all the way!

Originally posted by: Skepblun

All those who claim Bhairon never stood up against Maa sa should probably watch old episodes to know the truth.

Only "Anandi" has not changed Bhairon.

Bhairon always stood up for everyone be it Gehna, Anandi, Sumitra, Basant's first wife and their families whenever DS barked or discriminated against them.

In his capacity and set up he did whatever he could do to rebel against orthodox and oppressive systems.

He was against child marriage too this is why he did not allow Sugna's gauna till age of 18. And he turned totally against it after he saw Sugna's fate as unwed mother, little Anandi's fate and Gehna's fate!

It was HE who fought to get Anandi educated and even ignited spirit of change in her even as DS and Jagya had extinguished it!

Whatever Anandi became was due to Bhairon.

Bhairon is more sensible than Shiv in handling his family. He rebelled against DS and Basant but never crossed his limits. He was always careful in his choice of words even in worst occasions (unlike Shiv).

Bhairon is no mamma's boy.

And even at this age he loves Sumitra as dearly as he used to when he had first married her.

As a man he has never behaved like a boss at home (unlike Shiv who thinks he's Collector saab even at home!). Even to make his point or to put others in place he kept exercising restraint and gave away only when things crossed all limits.

Bhairon is the best male character in BV. Hands down.

And he's the one responsible for upliftment of women in BV from Anandi to Gauri!

To be progressive after being brought up and educated in progressive milieu is a given. But to be progressive and rebellious despite a totally partriarchal and orthodox milieu in unbringing, education & work is difficult, rare and exceptional - something which only Bhairon had in the whole serial.

Bhairon also realises his mistakes himself. Even when his kids did blunders he only questioned & beat up himself first asking himself, "Kahan galti ho gayi humse? Kya kami reh gayi hamari parvarish mein?" instead of blaming his wife for the kids turning out to be rotten!
He never needed "pep talks" by others to make him realise he was also wrong. His own self introspection is so strong.

It's rare for a man in any milieu and hence more exceptional in Bhairon's case considering his rural background.

Bhairon never resorted to violence in dealing with others (except for slapping his son for the ultimate blunder). He always resorts to rational talks. There's not a dint of male ego or machismo in him. Nor any "maan" of his wealth, position or status (unlike Shiv who sometimes has shown Collector saab hangover).



Bhairon sa all the way!