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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hooked,
Good to see you back on forum 😊
Yeah, I agree with you. It is quite evident that Saanchi does not like A and Anandi knows it, but still goes to her which irks her more. I sometimes don't mind the way Saanchi outrightly tells her mind to A.
Also A loves to live under worries, whether it is directly her responsibilty or not. She is indeed 'jagat-mata'
CVs need to show the purpose of A's life. Does not matter if career is not her priority, but everyone does have purpose / dreams / desires in life.
Apparently A's purpose is either to please people or to impose her thoughts onto other under the pre-text of 'goodness' without giving them their time & space.
First she insisted J to get married (nearly forceful)
Then she asks Ira to forgive her (kneeling down & serving tea etc). Ira left the house instead.
Now Saanchi - and many such incidents.
Phew, get a life Anandi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Thanks for the written update.


Well Ganga seemed to have reacted well in the circumstances.Putting ice to reduce the swelling giving appropriate first aid then calling for help.


Collector sahab was being upright in wanting his sister's case also be dealt in the same as other cases.A subtle warning to the police staff that if they are giving this much attention to his sister's case they better perform the same way in other cases too.

Wonder who will get the idea about Ganga and J Anandi or DS?

No comments about Sanchi.🥱






I think DS will get the idea but since anandi is jobless anyways, she will be the one to execute it. She will prepare J and Ganga for marriage and will also try to convince Sanchi to forget J and in turn will be hated more😭! That is how she will continue to get more sympathy for all the tragedies in her life despite her extreme unnatural goodness.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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now i"ll post my comments here after reading so many comments.
i find epi v.gud esply in terms of acting & emotions. content is also gud.👏
2day ganga's pain was so evident & her rxns r so apt. sriti did fab job. ⭐️she brought tears in my eyes . i never cry or had tears in my eyes while watching emotional scenes in a fiction show . till only 2 actors & actresses'd brought tears in my eyes or made me cry in emotional scenes. after Sargun, Sriti did this & in actors only Ajay & Shashank can do this 4 me!!⭐️👏⭐️

i really felt the helplessness of ganga. but she also showed the presence of mind once she came 2 terms & saw the mobile.
Shiv was gud wen he asked not 2 treat it as sum spl case. hes always shown uprite abt such situtns.A was as usual boring & monotonous.after AnSh marriage she doesn't've anything 2 do except serving meals or teas or worrying abt sanchi's thinking 4 her.
happy that DS noticed the "sindoor" on ganga's 4head. i hope DS"ll take it as Devi Maa's sign & think abt it!!
lal singh-its 3rd one.😆 i think there"ll b many lal singhs till show's end.😆
pre-cap- sanchi is as usual stupid & moody & now turning in2 a pyscho.🤢

v.gud job by Sriti, Surekhaji, & even unconscious shashank.👏👏smita was also gud.👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Regarding Anandi - Her trying to reach out to Sanchi - It is really not a new thing.She has been exhibiting this kind of behavior right from the time the show started.

Little Anandi used to try to reach out to DS in a relentless manner showing her affection in her childish ways despite being treated so harshly by DS. That continued in her teenage years too.

Her behaviour with Jagya after he joined medicine has been this way too till she got to know Jagya's ill treatment of her was because he was no longer interested in her.

All these people happen to be part of he life.She has to live with them.She is trying to encounter resistance from those people in her own way.

DS was an important part of her growing up years she had to live with her and the little girl sensed resistance and stiffness from DS she tried to deal with it or overcome that in her own way and finally she did overcome that.

WhenJagya had become very distant and antagonistic to her she tried to reach out to him by trying to change herself to suit his tastes and the day she got to know that there is someone else in his life.

Now she knows that she has to live with Sanchi she is trying to overcome the resistance put up by Sanchi in her own ways.

By reaching out to these people she is only trying to make life easier for herself and the other person concerned. It is obvious that when you are living under the same roof or have to share life with a person might as well make efforts to be friendly with that person.

I don't really see how these acts of her make her great or make her a door mat.

When you know that you have to put up with a person's presence in your life you can either make the situation worse by using tit for tat technique to deal with the situation and make it worse or you can try and be friendly in order to reduce the tension.

Anyways her patience has won every time.So i do not really find fault with her behaviour.Because even in real life it is the patient ones who last longer.

It is just that it is a bit irritating because Anandi is just being shown to worry over Sanchi and nothing else.If she has been shown doing something else with her life along with worrying about Sanchi it wouldn't have been so irritating to watch.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@aparana i agree wid ur post but we've prob which u pointed out in ur last para of ur post!! thatswhy all r fed up pf A trying 2 approach the prsn who doesn't like her!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wanting to suck upto somebody who can't bear to see you and wants their own space - is not patient or smart or relationship building. It is in fact going to achieve just the opposite.

Saanchi is going to despise Anandi even more for her constant caring advice and interference and not giving her the space she needs when she is hurting. Saanchi did not have as hurt an expression on her face as Anandi did when Saanchi said - no I don't need your help, please leave me alone.

If A is so all understanding - maybe she shud sense when a person wants to be left alone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aparna, I agree with your points, but there lies the catch.

Anandi needs to know that all people can't be dealt with the same strategy at all times under different circumstances. And after being sarpanch and a teacher she at least know different people have different requirements and all can't be handled in the same fashion.

Little A pleased Ds but little A also voiced her opinion against Ds when needed and finally DS changed on her own accord. Ds changed because she was guilty and this is when she started accepting A. It took a LONG time for DS to change.

She has hardly given anytime to Saanchi. Secondly does Saanchi carry the same weight in A's life as Ds did. Probably not. Shiv also told her to give time & space to Saanchi, why is she not then?

About J; J carried the biggest weight in A's life, so changing for him to suit his needs was the requirement of that hour. Many wives change for husbands and vice versa. About her patience; it was not Anandi's patience that brought J back to her. It was J's failure that brought him back to A. And by then A had moved on, which was an extremely good thing to happen.

Aparna, what irks is A's persistence to make people see her view point on day 1. And if she does not attain that success then she does not step back to think of a new strategy to handle them. Instead she hovers over them until they either accept her out of irritation on outright insult her. And yet, does A change?

Just having good intentions is not all. One needs to know when to back out and when to insist.

Otherwise I agree that if CVs show her doing something more meaningful than worry about Saanchi, it would be impactful.

Edited by Missesha - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Esha, hooked - Do u remember how Anandi behaved with Gauri every time Gauri accused her of something? A just used remain quiet. Besides that she served good food with interest when G was pregnant and also gifted her something which further annoyed Gauri. Gauri is NOT RELATED TO HER IN ANY WAY but still she did that. A's behaviour irked me then...and it irks me even now when she tries to be too good with Sanchi. Considering her behaviour with Gauri, i don't find her behaviour with Sanchi any different. She is the same person always.

Coming to whether she is right or wrong...i feel Anandi never faced failure at the end when she dealt with people this way before. She thinks she can handle anyone with her enduring patience(or probably shamelessness?🤔). Anyone who stands against her will be painted as the bad one at the end and she will get praises for her patience. So she is cool with this way of dealing things. I hope she learns to give people the space they need.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Esha - I agree with what you have said.

Same thing i was saying a few days in some other thread 😊

This is what she needs to learn from Shiv.Shiv is also the same kind of person who feel the need to win over peoples' hearts with his goodness and generosity and good will.But he changes his techniques depending on the person who he is trying to win over.This is what makes him such an interesting character despite being exactly like Anandi and thinking like Anandi.

They have shown Anandi to be someone who is intelligent and capable.They could show her making use of her brains to achieve this purpose of winning over Sanchi.
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Agreed Sanchi doesn't carry the same weight age as DS did/does in her life.When Sanchi was staying over in CH with them she did give Sanchi a wide berth because she knew that Sanchi was just visiting them.But now the situation has changed Sanchi will be staying with them till the day she gets married or she decides to move away to a different place.That is the reason why all this active reaching out thing is happening on her part.Because ignoring her is not an option any more.As for Sanchi it is not like she wanted to be left alone it was her hero's company she was after.How was she to know that?
Any way it is not like she persisted on staying with Sanchi and offered her company forcibly.When she realised that her offer was not appreciated she with drew it and retreated.

It is the first thing any member of the family would do given the situation to offer support and that's what she did.






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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you very much mahi for the wonderful update filled with wonderful comments.

Excellent episode,emotional,loved it.

Ganga,this character is awesome.She tried everything to take jagya to hospital but she failed,despite of failure she didn't accept the failure,failure made her more and more strong and desperate to take jagya to the hospital and she did it.Finally she was able to put him on the thela.How mean and rude this world has become!A girl was taking a man filled with blood on a thela and not a single person botheresd to see what happened!Sigh!

I am not understanding the confusion and fuss about the phone.It was clearly shown that because of God's grace the phone was coincidentally came out of jagya's pocket otherwise ganga fully forgot out of panick that proves that she is not a super woman that she will do everything but she is a normal yet strong person who doesn't accept failure and always try.

Lal singh bhaisa changed,once again.Is character ka sirf naam hi lal singh reh gaya hai.Poor lal singh.Varieties of lal singh's.Lal singh hone ka yehi fayeda hai,jitna bhi change karlo kisiko koi phark nehi parta.

DS is really adorable,she is thinking of making tomato chutney for Ganga,awww.Ganga has made a special place for her.A very bad news was waiting for them.Poor singhs.

Ganga's feelings for Jagya have become quite visible.She was in immense pain.Singh's are once again grateful to her.Thank God,DS saw the vermilion on Ganga's had,no one else.Hope she will realize that no girl other than Ganga can be perfect for Jagya.The way DS chose the best for Anandi,I hope once again she will understand that Ganga is the perfect choice.

Shiv has requested the police not to treat this case as a special case.But unfortunately police are going to take it as a special case and will definitely take extra care because she is collector saabs sister.This is irony but true.Police know if something went wrong CS has the power to do anything so they will not take it lightly.Otherwise if it would be a normal case police might have showed so much attitude.Some of them might have questioned sanchi's dress.But I am happy that shiv is honest and we need more people like him.

Daddu's praises for jagya was not for the evil jagya it was for the reformed jagya.So no question should arise why he is praising him so much.We can't deny that we need people like jagya more as they showed broad mentality and respects girls.

Precap..I am amazed how stupid,idiot and nautanki a person can be!She is angry with jagya because Jagya didn't call her.Who the hell she is that Jagya will call her!Girlfriend or Wife.Nonsense.She has faced such a traumatic situation but none of her family members went to her to console her and the reason is her behaviour.No one should care about her.Idiot.

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