Why was Daddu so quick to forgive Kalyani Devi ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Despite Dadisa's improper behaviour with Urmi Devi, Daddu was the first and the quickest to let bygones be bygones and forgave Dadisa. Is it because in his heart of hearts, he has a soft corner for her? I remember he used to always bring her roses - and red ones at that !!

It would be interesting to see the developments on the Kaddu front ( Kaddu = Kalyani+Daddu)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Haha! Yeah he was first one to defend DS!

It's true he has attraction towards her. Wasn't he saying, "Iss jode mein Kalyani ji kaisi lagi hongi?" when he saw Anandi at bidaai and learnt she was wearing DS' joda? 😉

He always brings flowers for her and tries to indulge in "friendly banter" with her.

One woman from that family has already influenced Shekhars upon her entry in the house. Another exerts influence without even her physical presence!

Daddu might confess her feelings for Kalyani Devi in future.

Singhs have a knack of keeping others wrapped around their fingers! 😛 After all DS gave a whole basket of flowers to Daddu!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i really doubt it had to do with daddu having a soft corner for kalyani which he does actually 😉...it had more to do with his mature behaviour and carefree nature
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Daddu is very sensible and he just want S and A to be happy.What ever happened is past?it is no use,ANSH know about it and bottom line is they are happy.Shiv needs to feel bad about it.But he knows DS,did it out of love for A.He doesn't want to disrupt the peace of the family.at least D'S regrets for what she did? But Ira can't even trust her son and came to conclusions.The words she said A,I ra can never take back.She behaved like a typical bahu and even daddu acknowledged it!
Daddu has seen life,instead of looking back,you need to move forward !then only life will be happy.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think it was not right of Daddu to make Ira feel guilty.

Okay, he could have defended Anandi and made Ira realise that she should not have alluded to Anandi's past. But also mouthing lines in defense of Kalyani ji's "love" for Anandi was not done.

Kalyani's action was wrong. Even if done out of love.

Aise toh even lies of Gauri, Mahavir Singh, Teepri etc. can be defended saying they were madly in love or possessive of their beloved!

It's also a shame that Shiv and Anandi are still in their room talking amongst themselves rather than rushing to pacify or talk out to Ira!

Bigger shame that makkaar Kalyani is still being defended, she got another ghulam samdhi and she herself has no courtesy to call Shekhars or visit them in person to apologise or at least talk it out.

Daddu has hots for Kalyani ji. There are two deewanas of Singh women in Shekhar family.

Ira better learn to be silent bobblehead or pack her bags and leave the house for Singhs and co. aren't going to apologise even for wrong done.

I am surprised how Shiv had to apologise to Anandi for refusing to marry her at last minute due to Jagya's drama whereas Anandi & Singhs get away with a mere constipated look on their faces!

Not done.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's not just about AnSh happiness! Ira was not calling for their divorce!

She only demanded explanation and probably an apology. Her angry outburst also served as a warning signal to Anandi and Singhs that they could not take her or her family's permissiveness for granted.

Anybody would feel like a fool in such a situation! The girl's family cheated you, they take many other liberties (keeping ex in touch with DIL etc.) and you only keep smiling and nodding your head?!

Khud ki bhi koi izzat hoti hai ki nahi?

If Ira is to be made to feel guilty she should only be made to feel guilty for what she said to Anandi, there should be no pressure on her to understand Kalyani's kaminapan as love and not to feel bad about what Kalyani did!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

It's not just about AnSh happiness! Ira was not calling for their divorce!

She only demanded explanation and probably an apology. Her angry outburst also served as a warning signal to Anandi and Singhs that they could not take her or her family's permissiveness for granted.

Anybody would feel like a fool in such a situation! The girl's family cheated you, they take many other liberties (keeping ex in touch with DIL etc.) and you only keep smiling and nodding your head?!

Khud ki bhi koi izzat hoti hai ki nahi?

If Ira is to be made to feel guilty she should only be made to feel guilty for what she said to Anandi, there should be no pressure on her to understand Kalyani's kaminapan as love and not to feel bad about what Kalyani did!

i agree with you on this point...in no way Dadisa should be defended because love is quiet lame excuse when it comes to Dadisa...so had she started hating Anandi again when she asked her to get back to Jagya?...Anandi gets angry because Shiv hide small thing like transfer form her and expects apology but than same should go for Dadisa...no one becomes small by apologizing so i wished Anandi would have acted practically and asked Dadisa to apologize to Shekhars instead of being proud of her...this is the problem of Indian T.V serials...in order to show bahu a mahaan soul they come up with impractical ideas...i hate it because such issues can be solved by coming face to face and talking...Anandi is trying to handle the situation which maybe sweet of her but not practical...Dadisa did the mistake...she has a better explanation of it so let her explain and solve the matter...this thing would have ended same day if Anandi would have took Dadisa with her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is not the matter of Love of DS for Anandi or DS anger on Shiv which made DS talk bad about Shiv.
IRA was the first one to accept Anandi as bahu not CM or dadu, that is because of her love for Shiv, when she saw Anandi and DS she trusted them to be good people and she explained CM when she had some insecurities, IRA is always behaving sensibly, now her trust has been broken, she was the one who stood against the society and supported her bahu, but now after Anandi confirmed that she already know that DS was the lady who spoke wrong about Shiv she could not control because out of everyone in the family IRA is the one who loved and trusted Shiv and Anandi the most. I know Anandi told Shiv about this just before marriage, but that is not enough to say that Anandi is innocent. they need to wait and think because they don't know about many things that happened before Shiv marriage and shiv also didn't tell them all truth so it is obvious for any parents to think that how to trust them, did they really trapped shiv or not. Not just IRA after this episode whole family needs at least sometime to come to a decision and behave normally.

CM, Mahi and daddu behave as paraya they are not even feeling bad about anything after knowing what DS talked about Shiv, but in the mandir CM gave lectures now she is not even bothered about that.

I felt like Anandi Slapped on Mahi when she said that because of her love for Shiv she is talking like that no one would be as happy as mahi after knowing what has happened. So mahi would be least bother even if anyone from his babi family hit or scold Shiv in future. Anandi would try to support her family and CM will feel impressed about Anandi and never feel bad for Shiv. Dadu will say don't worry they are elders or chote hai buladena because they don't want to upset Anandi or ghar ki shanthi.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

It is not the matter of Love of DS for Anandi or DS anger on Shiv which made DS talk bad about Shiv.
IRA was the first one to accept Anandi as bahu not CM or dadu, that is because of her love for Shiv, when she saw Anandi and DS she trusted them to be good people and she explained CM when she had some insecurities, IRA is always behaving sensibly, now her trust has been broken, she was the one who stood against the society and supported her bahu, but now after Anandi confirmed that she already know that DS was the lady who spoke wrong about Shiv she could not control because out of everyone in the family IRA is the one who loved and trusted Shiv and Anandi the most. I know Anandi told Shiv about this just before marriage, but that is not enough to say that Anandi is innocent. they need to wait and think because they don't know about many things that happened before Shiv marriage and shiv also didn't tell them all truth so it is obvious for any parents to think that how to trust them, did they really trapped shiv or not. Not just IRA after this episode whole family needs at least sometime to come to a decision and behave normally.

CM, Mahi and daddu behave as paraya they are not even feeling bad about anything after knowing what DS talked about Shiv, but in the mandir CM gave lectures now she is not even bothered about that.

I felt like Anandi Slapped on Mahi when she said that because of her love for Shiv she is talking like that no one would be as happy as mahi after knowing what has happened. So mahi would be least bother even if anyone from his babi family hit or scold Shiv in future. Anandi would try to support her family and CM will feel impressed about Anandi and never feel bad for Shiv. Dadu will say don't worry they are elders or chote hai buladena because they don't want to upset Anandi or ghar ki shanthi.


Even i felt Anandi's lecture to Mahi very stupid and irrational...just a way to show how great Anandi is...i still wonder how such good hearted people survive in world...i am not saying let's all be mean but she is totally Gautam Buddha and you have to be a bit mean so that people do not take you for granted like Saanchi does...Saanchi's behaviour was justified but the way she talks and now her manipulating Jagya with sweet words and talking nonsense about Anandi in her own house is very pukey 🤢...Saanchi's true identity will be a big slap on Shekhars's face because they know she hates Anandi but they do not know how manipulative she is...i wish Anandi stops lecturing Shekhars on how to handle Saanchi...Saanchi is their old family member and they know her better than Anandi does...today if Saanchi has become so ill-mannered it is because Anandi is trying to control Shekhars and not getting strict with Saanchi...one day this behaviour will cost great deal to Anandi before it does any damage to Saanchi herself
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes the way they are showing saachi character is irritating, but good thing is no one in the family are really supporting her and most honestly both brothers are not handling her properly just like what anandi said. why is saachi not concentrate on her project until the last date she is not going back to hostel no studies then why dont they get saachi get married.

Initially they thought of CM, but later if CM is negative than story goes in different direction, fight between IRA and CM so instead of her they made saachi negative and making her talk too much.

Anandi supporting saachi is not a surprise she always try to support bad people in the family, she left her studies for dadisa, inspite of bhairo's wish for Anandi to study and he even fought with everyone, she gave more importance to DS than bhairo and jagiya. She does all this to keep the family together and family shanthi.

After anandi's marriage shekar's family really did not have any time to know either good or bad about Anandi mostly Anandi was involved in solving Singh's or jagiya's problems. even they seems to be bit worried as she is still involved in her ex-husband problems so any in-laws should need so sometime to understand Anandi, they should not come to conclusion for good or bad. Saachi is going to extremes in her own way and rest of the family are saying Anandi is the best she could never do any mistakes, both are not good.

Even sumitra was not happy with Anandi decision when she was against gehna in the panchayat and felt Anandi did a mistake and even DS recently when anandi let jagiya go shouted at Anandi, so after knowing Anandi for such a long time and after so much love for her they do think sometimes what Anandi did is wrong so why are shekers family specially dadu and CM always say that she is super women, which is dangers and make life very hard for Anandi in future.

The way serial is going is not at all good they should show some potential things that Anandi is doing and they should know what is Anandi slowly and then start trusting or hating. She is always involved in solving singhs problems or their mistakes and we expect Shekars have to think good about her seeing her love for her ex-in-laws. They are not even showing Anandi's dad, why don't she like to take care of her dad at least talking to him once in a month.




Originally posted by: libsrocks

Even i felt Anandi's lecture to Mahi very stupid and irrational...just a way to show how great Anandi is...i still wonder how such good hearted people survive in world...i am not saying let's all be mean but she is totally Gautam Buddha and you have to be a bit mean so that people do not take you for granted like Saanchi does...Saanchi's behaviour was justified but the way she talks and now her manipulating Jagya with sweet words and talking nonsense about Anandi in her own house is very pukey 🤢...Saanchi's true identity will be a big slap on Shekhars's face because they know she hates Anandi but they do not know how manipulative she is...i wish Anandi stops lecturing Shekhars on how to handle Saanchi...Saanchi is their old family member and they know her better than Anandi does...today if Saanchi has become so ill-mannered it is because Anandi is trying to control Shekhars and not getting strict with Saanchi...one day this behaviour will cost great deal to Anandi before it does any damage to Saanchi herself

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