Anandi to approve jagya's bride??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I hate the idea of Anandi "approving" Jagya's bride or interfering in his life in any way!!! (And I would maintain this stance even if Prats was playing the character. It's not concerned with Toral!)

We do not like Jagya's or Singhs' interference in Anandi's life. So why not apply same logic to Anandi's interference in their lives?

They can ask for help and mingle with each other. But I don't like the fact that either of them hand over the keys to the car of their lives to the other party! 😡

Anandi should mind her own business, start a family with Shiv or try new recipies at home daily or find some social work to do. Quit meddling in lives of ex husband and his family!

Singhs are also foolish to latch on to her. You be as close to her as you want. Why expect her to help rebuild her ex husband's personal life? You consider her your daughter but she is not your son's sister!!!

It should be Jagya's decision what he wants to do with his life. I am tired of seeing Jagya either led by DS as a kid, Anandi or Bapu on growing older, Gauri and her parents in youth and now either Ganga, DS or Anandi discussing or "guiding" him on what's best for him! Heck! Even Sanchi's joined the fray to give speech on what Jagya needs!! 🤢

Is he a puppet whose strings shall always be pulled by others?

I hate how he has never made decisions on his own or if he has made decisions then those have been wrong and twisted only!

I don't want any mahaan girl to take care of Jagya! I want to see him wise, sane and sensible himself and only then decide (with confidence) what he wants in personal life.

Even when he marries Ganga I want him to convince everyone to accept his decision and stand by Ganga, rather than that Anandi or Shiv o Bhairon spring in to give lectures to DS or Sumitra!

Enough of string-pullers, surrogate spokespersons, defenders and self appointed lawyers or crutches for Jagya!

When will he be an independent man, sure of himself?

I am tired of seeing a dawandol Jagya who still turns cry baby at the very sight of Anandi! Being attached is understandable but turning into pulp at Anandi's mention is a no no for a grown man like Jagya!

Jagya's personal life must not be reduced to another mahaan social mission for Bhairon, or AnSh!

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

why are cvs hellbent on making this so complicated?
what's the need...i don't want anandi to get involved in any of jagya's affairs.
he has agreed to marry because of her...good...who and when...let's leave it to jagya.
she should focus on her family n may be take up some challenging assignment with shiv's support.

thoughts?

I dont know if that happens in real life that an ex-wife still controls the life of her ex-husband...if anandi wanted to interfere in jagya's life, the question then arises as to why she married someone else? just because she felt 'what shiv would feel?'

Lucky that she is that she found someone who has no opinion of his own.

Now some of our dear friends as usual are thinking that it was jagya's fault that he asked her to find a bride for him. ..but they are forgetting that he had not gone to her pleading before her to find a bride for him !!

It was she who was forcing rather blackmailing him to marry again... by asking her to find a bride for him, he probably thought she would say NO to it and leave him alone, but she happily agreed.

What challenging assignments can she take among those funny creatures ? So, she has to interfere in Jagya's and Singh's lives to keep herself busy.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I hate the idea of Anandi "approving" Jagya's bride or interfering in his life in any way!!! (And I would maintain this stance even if Prats was playing the character. It's not concerned with Toral!)

We do not like Jagya's or Singhs' interference in Anandi's life. So why not apply same logic to Anandi's interference in their lives?

They can ask for help and mingle with each other. But I don't like the fact that either of them hand over the keys to the car of their lives to the other party! 😡

Anandi should mind her own business, start a family with Shiv or try new recipies at home daily or find some social work to do. Quit meddling in lives of ex husband and his family!

Singhs are also foolish to latch on to her. You be as close to her as you want. Why expect her to help rebuild her ex husband's personal life? You consider her your daughter but she is not your son's sister!!!

It should be Jagya's decision what he wants to do with his life. I am tired of seeing Jagya either led by DS as a kid, Anandi or Bapu on growing older, Gauri and her parents in youth and now either Ganga, DS or Anandi discussing or "guiding" him on what's best for him! Heck! Even Sanchi's joined the fray to give speech on what Jagya needs!! 🤢

Is he a puppet whose strings shall always be pulled by others?

I hate how he has never made decisions on his own or if he has made decisions then those have been wrong and twisted only!

I don't want any mahaan girl to take care of Jagya! I want to see him wise, sane and sensible himself and only then decide (with confidence) what he wants in personal life.

Even when he marries Ganga I want him to convince everyone to accept his decision and stand by Ganga, rather than that Anandi or Shiv o Bhairon spring in to give lectures to DS or Sumitra!

Enough of string-pullers, surrogate spokespersons, defenders and self appointed lawyers or crutches for Jagya!

When will he be an independent man, sure of himself?

I am tired of seeing a dawandol Jagya who still turns cry baby at the very sight of Anandi! Being attached is understandable but turning into pulp at Anandi's mention is a no no for a grown man like Jagya!

Jagya's personal life must not be reduced to another mahaan social mission for Bhairon, or AnSh!

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Anjana, @libsrocks and @beyond the sky

Thanks a lot. 😊

Yeah even Jagya should not have asked her to find a bride for him. But then he would not have done it had she not been pressurising him so much!

@Libsrocks (again)

BV is a joke when it comes to marriages. We either have forced marriages in childhood or forced ones among adults. And a marriage entered in by consenting grown ups was shown failed and left midway.

Shyam-Sugna, Basant-Gehna, Shiv-Anandi are all forced marriages with no mutual consent made of free will by the couple in the alliance.

It's nonsense!

I am yet to find an example of a marriage in BV that was not child marriage, not forced upon by anyone else and in which both boy and girl happily, without any pressure - agreed to marry each other.

DS should stop her BS! Itna shauq hai toh apni shaadi racha le! Daddu already likes her a lot.

This track is stupid and looks more like Jagya ka Swayamvar with Ganga and Sanchi put in by CVs and DS forever bringing a new girl for Jagya! And Jagya looks less of a groom but more of a sacrificial goat being led into the nonsense mela!

@Shinya

Sahi hai. Anandi has nothing interesting to do at Shiv's house (she can't keep romancing Shiv all the time no?). So why not meddle at Singh haveli and try to be mahaan? Husband is a clockwork toy in her hands (she is lucky she got this luxury after years of suffering). In laws are giggling clowns anyway. Nobody minds her ex husband visiting her house nor do they have any issue with Anandi engaged in mission of her ex husband's remarriage.

Originally posted by: Shinya

I dont know if that happens in real life that an ex-wife still controls the life of her ex-husband...if anandi wanted to interfere in jagya's life, the question then arises as to why she married someone else? just because she felt 'what shiv would feel?'

Lucky that she is that she found someone who has no opinion of his own.

Now some of our dear friends as usual are thinking that it was jagya's fault that he asked her to find a bride for him. ..but they are forgetting that he had not gone to her pleading before her to find a bride for him !!

It was she who was forcing rather blackmailing him to marry again... by asking her to find a bride for him, he probably thought she would say NO to it and leave him alone, but she happily agreed.

What challenging assignments can she take among those funny creatures ? So, she has to interfere in Jagya's and Singh's lives to keep herself busy.