Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Leaving anandi.
Marrying gauri in a hurry and wanting to still remain in his Jetsar family thus leading to conflicts.
Is he going to commit 3rd mistake? If so, what? Marrying Sanchi? Or always dependenng on anandi emotionally which may create problems for her?
And he has given Gauri only one chance to come back to him. Is it enough to terminate a relationship? I think we give our kaamwali bais more chances!😉
Since this topic pertains to before the replacement too, I have every right to answer this as I have watched them.
1. Leaving Anandi was not wrong. /People grow out of love..esp ones affected by child marriage. The way he misled and treated Anandi was wrong.
2. yes agree
3. who is he to give gauri a chance? both of them did mistakes..both of them should either forgive and move on or hate each other and move out. He was no saint in his relationship with Gauri to give her chances.
Sadly.. Kaamwali bais in India get more respect than wives. I am not saying bais should not get respect...they have to be treated with dignity, unfortunately as a culture we do not extend that dignity towards our wives and daughter in laws.
Edited by lavy - 12 years ago