The 3 mistakes of Jagya

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Leaving anandi.

Marrying gauri in a hurry and wanting to still remain in his Jetsar family thus leading to conflicts.

Is he going to commit 3rd mistake? If so, what? Marrying Sanchi? Or always dependenng on anandi emotionally which may create problems for her?

And he has given Gauri only one chance to come back to him. Is it enough to terminate a relationship? I think we give our kaamwali bais more chances!😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Though I was against Gauri for all the right reasons, I now think Gauri's return will be fun. Sanchi, Ganga and Gauri. 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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it will be fun to watch Sanchi-J-Gauri,
Ganga will be another anandi.
Lol...Jagya talking about woman's respect...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nnmm

it will be fun to watch Sanchi-J-Gauri,
Ganga will be another anandi.
Lol...Jagya talking about woman's respect...



There is a difference. ganga is not afraid of anything and she can open her mouth when necessary, fight, explore new avenues. Can take quick decisions, tell some hardtruths even to dadisa and Bhairon. All these things without getting proper education, computer training and other nitty gritties. She is raw power. And she has the prettiest child, a reason to live for. Of course she got a lot of crucial help from Shiv, anandi, Jagya etc. Otherwise she would have been killed by her husband.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Leaving anandi.

Marrying gauri in a hurry and wanting to still remain in his Jetsar family thus leading to conflicts.

Is he going to commit 3rd mistake? If so, what? Marrying Sanchi? Or always dependenng on anandi emotionally which may create problems for her?

And he has given Gauri only one chance to come back to him. Is it enough to terminate a relationship? I think we give our kaamwali bais more chances!😉


Since this topic pertains to before the replacement too, I have every right to answer this as I have watched them.

1. Leaving Anandi was not wrong. /People grow out of love..esp ones affected by child marriage. The way he misled and treated Anandi was wrong.

2. yes agree

3. who is he to give gauri a chance? both of them did mistakes..both of them should either forgive and move on or hate each other and move out. He was no saint in his relationship with Gauri to give her chances.

Sadly.. Kaamwali bais in India get more respect than wives. I am not saying bais should not get respect...they have to be treated with dignity, unfortunately as a culture we do not extend that dignity towards our wives and daughter in laws.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Chance means that Jagya should make more attempts to meet gauri and their child and make a proper closure to that chapter or get back to her.

I am surprised that as a father, he does not feel overpowering urge to have a look at his own baby.

And he also loved gauri like mad for a brief while.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Chance means that Jagya should make more attempts to meet gauri and their child and make a proper closure to that chapter or get back to her.

I am surprised that as a father, he does not feel overpowering urge to have a look at his own baby.

And he also loved gauri like mad for a brief while.


jagya doesn't know that gauri is pregnent and i think she would have aborted the child as she was telling that she don't want to have any of his things or memories..
near her.
simple it is both moved on from the relation.None of the two want to give a chance to eachother
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya does not know he has another baby from Gauri. Gauri and her family did not inform him of the pregnancy.

BTW did Jagya commit only 3 mistakes? I don't think so.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Come to think of it, Jagya also loved anandi before he met gauri. They went for honeymoon and they had also sex during that time. So it is not entirely correct to say that Jagya did not love anandi. The thing is he has that chanchal nature and he wanted to hide behind that childhood marriage was wrong stuff. The same chanchal nature was again at work when he came to know that anandi and shiv are getting married.

3 mistakes means main mistakes and of course there are others too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So he does not know about gauri being pregnant at that time. If the child is alive, then I would like to see the xpressions of him, his family, sanchi etc.

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