Originally posted by: rohini55
Pople have conveniently forgotten old A's OTT realization. She suddenly realized her love and marched into the collector's office -- office, mind you -- interrupted a meeting and insisted on feeding him lunch with a spoon. God forbid if T had done the same. She would been bloodied for the crime.
I don't think spoonfeeding an IAS officer is dignified behaviour by any yardstick. But double-standard thy name is BV forum!
What about her screaming to the collector after he offered to DS to marry her right after his Birthday? Was that dignified? Was it his fault?
Okay, I guess some members like our heroine to walk slow, talk slow, eat slow, take a lot of time to smile, give confused expressions and sulk rest of the time. But I am not one of them. I like a bubbly heroine. My POV.
I am very happy she is going gobble gobble...she has pura haq to do that in front of her husband...all wives who are good friends with their hubbies do that. They also grab their husbands' plates and eat from their husband;s plate. It is very common. Those who share good friendship with their husbands will know that.
Anandii will never do it in front of in-laws or Shiv's colleagues. When she is dignified and good, people call her OTT mahanta. Now they find her crossing 'dignity' limits. Next they will berrate her for sleeping with her husband.