25/4/13 WU S angry at A, J trains G for nursing

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks. I was looking for this thread. Finally it's up!

Today's episode was good. BV at last tried to be a bit more realistic in the hospital scenes by showing the emergency & severe injury case & Ganga getting scared seeing the actual situation! It's no cakewalk to be in the healthcare profession! I was happy to see 'em showing what ground realities are and how nurses and doctors need much more than just patience or hardwork or empathy! They need resilience and ability to maintain composure in the worst situations.

Though I am a tad surprised why a bold woman like Ganga was shown so nervous at sight of the screaming, profusely bleeding patient & those cotton balls soaked in blood! It is natural to get scared or feel odd but I'd thought Ganga is dabangg!

Maybe Jagya will lead her out of her fears the way she helped him at least put aside guilt & depression about past. It should be interesting to watch.

Shiv's shouting at Anandi is purely justified. Anandi has been Sarpanch herself and also worked jointly with the collector at Jetsar. Doesn't she know that such jobs can require a person to be called to duty even at odd hours? And that food or sleep is the last thing on minds of people who are dedicated to their administrative jobs? She herself used to run to site of problem even past midnight when she was Sarpanch. Having had the experience of it all how come she put off Shiv's alarm and silenced his phone thinking he needs rest? She's not a usual girl or illiterate. So this was definitely a mistake on her part and also quite unexpected from her.

Or is it that after marriage, shifting to Udaipur and all, she's left behind her sense & is just a lovelorn girl now who thinks of nothing except geting intimate with husband or trying to please in-laws?

I think it was right on BV CVs part to show that you need to give space to your spouse, not act in haste and not treat your spouse like a little kid no matter how much you love him/her.

But maybe they could have shown such stuff a little later.

This incident made Sanchi really happy! But I have to add that her dad's reaction to her is rude. And so is Daddu's glaring at her. She was presumably the darling of the house and all these rebukes & scoldings aren't what she's used to. She feels she's getting it all due to Anandi's arrival in the house. Her family is totally wrong in dealing with her. Instead of balancing between daughter & DIL they are fueling Sanchi's insecurities further with their enraged reactions or utter neglect towards her.

I appreciate Ira's attempt to calm Anandi. Or else I'd thought she'd get swayed by Sanchi's words!

Alok is being a lousy male in Shekhar family. He's too rude in dealing with his daughter Sanchi. He ends up comparing Anandi to other women in the house or goes overboard in superlative praise of Anandi which is sowing seeds of problems. Today he talked of Anandi's cooking and Ira questioned him if he did not like her cooking. Their nok jhok was friendly and Alok praised Ira later. Ira took it sportingly but Daddu should counsel Alok not to compare wife or daughter with new entry Anandi.

Such talks by men and failure to balance attention & time between women in the family leads women to be jealous or insecure of each other. Root cause of all saas bahu bhabhi nanad jethani devrani drama!

Even DS made same mistake of comparing Anandi and Ganga.

I hate how our society forever keeps comparing, scrutnising and grading women! 😡

Again happy to see a Singhs-free episode!

Toral is not improving in her acting as much as she needs to. Today Anandi had to look worried, embarassed and guilty. But Toral's expressions did not convey those feelings. She instead seemed as if she was frowning!

BTW, WHY is exhibition of medical equipment held at Udaipur?!!!! I thought such big exhibitions are held at metros! Mumbai or Delhi would've made sense but Udaipur?! What for? Just to make him come face to face with Shiv?? Or Anandi? 😲
Or is it possible that Gauri's also attending this event? (Aisa lagta toh hai nahi!)

Not happy with possibility of Jagya crossing paths with AnSh especially now that the couple's had a tiff which is yet to be resolved.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks forvthe update. Nice episode. Very apt comments by skepblun. Yes, Alok went overboard
In his praise for Anandi and putting down his wife . He should handle his daughter in a different way.
All his shouting rudely at her does not work. She deliberately gets worse and defies them.
If a boy behaved like that he will be thrown out or slapped.
But Ira was nice, true to her charscter. She is magnanimous. No MIL will be this nice to her DIL.
Skepblun was right on the money with the comment on the root cause of all women's
Insecurity in families. They constantly compare the girl with some one, or comment on her complexion
Or compare her efficiency in house work with some one else.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for the WU.

Story finally started to move so what if the pace like that of a snail?😆


Jagya taking Ganga to the hospital Good move on his part.It will help her figure out whether she wants to be a nurse or not.
But there seems to be an error here.Whenstudents join as visitor observers in a hospital they follow the doctors around if they are intending to take up medicine and nursing staff if they intend to take up nusring as a vocation.At least that's what my observations tell me.
Ganga joining the rounds was a good idea it would have been more authentic if they have shown her observing the nurse and see what she is doing.

As for Kesar Bagh - Anandi - Shiv had their first tiff.
Love sick Anandi seemed to have forgotten how her own life had been when she was a Sarpanch.
She should not have done what she had done.

Shiv was truly an angry with her but he has to be given credit for telling why he is angry and upset with her.

Thankfully her inlaws stood by her like sensible in laws do.

Sanchi - again opening her mouth when she had no business to do so.At least this time Alok was strict on her.

Anandi back to being herself after Shiv's screaming.She was more upset about the possible damages that her action rather than being upset for being shouted at.

Precap - Jagya landing in Udaipur for medical exhibition.Looks like the CVs are drawing parallels here.
Shiv is giving silent treatment to his queen.But doesn't look like he is angry with her any more.Hopefully he too realises that he should not have yelled at her.


Edited to add a note on today's performances - While Sid was bang on with his Angry upset husband mode T's performance was really not on par with his.She needs to work on her expressions.
Shanky as usual came up with a credible performance.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for WU.
CVs show any profession - panchayat, DC office or hospital as family business only. The round of hospital is to show Jagya and Ganga and not about Ganga's training as nurse - just like Anandi as Sarpanch used to go with Shiv as collector. As already said by Aparnauma, Ganga should have been shown to observing nurses and not going on round with the doctor Jagya (nurses do accompany doctors on round, but only to take instructions, their duty involve much more than round with doctor).
Wonder how the exhibition of hospital equipments is now in Udaipur? Earlier Lal Sigh and Anandi went to Mumbai (when Jagya was in Mumbai and now Jagya (perhaps with Ganga and Mannu in tow) will to Udaipur - exhibition is just an excuse to let the charecters meet.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks for the update
liked Ganga and Jagya's episode...Ganga was really good in pacifying the kid
finally the most awaited moment b/w AnSh - their tiff
i was completely bored with this main samjh sakti/sakta hoon phrase...i completely support Shiv...this is what is wrong with Anandi...when she loved someone she really does not see things practically...she used to do the same with Jagya also...i do not think Shiv needs to say Anandi that he is wrong...she had to understand that her husband is now in more higher position which she did ...i hope she does not end up taking food for him in office
Alok's strictness was apt but not his comparisions...that's where i feel Shekhars are going wrong...after engagement they are comparing Anandi with someone or the other and going OTT with praises...even for one small thing they praise her like someone soldier has come back from winning a war...and instead of telling Saanchi to cook or do things like Anandi why not accept her personality and try to upgrade it in it's own way...instead of comparing make her learn how to cook
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for updates. It was a good epi. Shiv in angry mood luked good. But feel bad for Anandi. Ganga Jagya hospital scene was worth watch. Dr.Sahab in full Dr. mood Shashank was very natural in that scene. Ganga very seriously observing Dr.Sa work. She was so sweet wid that kid. The best of luck scene was very cute. Awesum job by Sriti.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for the update.

Episode was good. I liked the pace at which Ganga- Jagya story is moving.
It was good to see a tiff between AnSh. Shiv was completely justified in his anger, however I wished that he hadn't scolded A in front of his family. But I am sure Shiv will realise that soon.
Anandi has lot to learn though. The alarm matter is a small one and it will definately get sorted, but there is more to that. Anandi in her attempt to be good gets into regressive mode easily and then starts cryin buckets. I did not like the way she was crying after Shiv scolded. There was no point. What was done was done anyways. Instead of thinking how she would mend it, she went into sorrowful mood, worrying over spilled milk.
This is how she was with Jagya sometimes, which irked him and that was one of the reason he called her dumb (J was definately not right in any of his behaviours, but my point is that somewhere A is too regressive / cry baby). She just keeps crying over one thing forever.
After educating and upgrading herself so much, I don't want to see A remaining a cry baby over petty issues or simply a sacrifcing dutiful bahu.
I found Saanchi right when she was talking to A.
Alok praising A for her food was OTT and I hate these comparsions. As some members have pointed that such comparisions do no good to anyone.
What I don't want is Shekhar household to be another Singh household under the tag of modernity. If Shekhars have to bond with A, let them bond through some deeper issues,and not just chai-pani-nashta- halwa and celebrations.
I don't want Ira to be another Sumi for A, molly-cuddling her. Let Ira be a modern woman with a good balance on how to handle a daughter / DIL and son. And let Alok be a man.
Let someone ask A about her aspirations and let A also try to understand the family instead of just pleasing them.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Aparna .. what cvs meant with showing Ganga on rounds with Jagaya there was a nurse along with them and basically Ganga was observing her not Jagaya The thing that has been shown here how nurse takes instructions from doctors and later acts on it It was not Jagaya Ganga only but along with them was a nurse and Ganga was observing a nurse taking instructions from a doctor

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