Dear Anandi..don't be so selfish...

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 12 years ago

As always, Annadi is again being shown extreme selfish..because DS and her Singhs supported her even at the cost of their son and now to repay back them, she is ready to do anything to make them happy and, that s why, it s not she,herself wants Jagya to see married, but for others. I am happy that to repay all this goodness back to Singhs, she did not herself offer to be again beendni of that haveli as she can go to any extent to please singhs. I am very happy that Jagya never said no to Annadi, but he cleverly hinted to Anandi that (if you cannot come back ,atleast it will be your choice).

Is Anandi so dumb that she cannot understand that Jagya is still in deep pains of loosing her. When people comment and feeel happy that all what happened to anandi by watching Jagya and Gauri ,and now Jagya has to watch that all, yes, it may make us happy.But if the intent of CV is to show Jagya in pain, he has already suffered a lot but if one does bad to other, and others pay back the same way, then no difference between the two, both are worst.

Still dying to see SR, I have not doubt now that poor collector really has an urgency to get some advise from Dr Jagdish ... I would have been happy had CV shown Shiv searching for Jagya for advise than Anandi before leaving Jaitsar...😉

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mukta13

@mukta13

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi has always being selfish except for singhs family.she never cared about her parents.She agreed to her mothers wish because she knew she was the reason for her mothers death as she did not come back with them when they wanted her to come back after Jagdish left her.The guilt made her to agree her last wish.And the things she did for Jaitsar .Ya she did because she had nothing else to do after Jagdish left.If she was such mahaan person then she could do when Jagdish was still with her.Singh family,what to say about them.They accepted anandi as their daughter because of the guilt their son did to Anandi and the main reason THEY DID NOT LIKE GAURI MATA.The CVs r making us fool and they r successful in it because i watch the serial without using brains.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Bhach, I agree with you fully. I wrote the same yesterday in Jagya AT that Anandi was being selfish, not jagya.

Her convincing Jagya was merely for her own happiness though she repeated several times that she was doing it for his happiness. If she wanted to see him happy, then obviously she would have respected his decision to remain single, would not have convinced him to marry against his wish.

When he wanted to go to Mumbai for medical studies, she went against her parivar and supported him. But now she is thinking of parivar's happiness only because they stood by her during her crisis and made her what is she is now. She feels she owes them some amount of happiness and understands that their happiness lies only in seeing Jagya settled in life. In short, she convinced him to marry only for her own happiness.

After he said you find a bride for me, she felt so happy that she ran to her parivar to announce her victory. Had she been a mature selfless woman, would she not have said, jagya wait till you meet the right girl?

Having said that, I must say Toral gave an excellent performance yesterday and made the scene look so real, whether selfish or not. That is the art of a real talented actor.

Edited by Shinya - 12 years ago

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandhi by stating him as selfish she wanted to fullfill her mission so that she can leave jeitsar happily as she said to shiv. Atleast jagya thought abt the life of an innocent girl. Simple reason, she wants to rub the feeling of her in jagya's mind. So, that she can proceed her life SR.

After jagya got convinced anandhi not even told him don't worry jagya everything will be alright if she really had concern for his happiness. But jagya for her happiness he agreed to marry though he was in "self guilty mode" . jagya u r too good. So, here i think "anandhi is selfish" .

Edited by vidya0000 - 12 years ago

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

@TM - Can you please provide me with a microscope so that I can search for the selfishness in Anandi?

I used my microscope to find it but I couldn't. May be my microscope was not good enough.

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

lol dictionary mein selfish ki koi new meaning nikli hai kya ki jo person apne liye khuchh bhi na chahe pur khali doosron ka bhala chahe use hum selfish kehtey hain ??????? .waise selfish usko kaha jaata hai jo apne gain ke liye doosre ka kaam kurta hai .aur anand yeh sub apne gain ke liye kur rahi hai mujhe to aisa kahi dikha nahi jo hum anandi ko selfish kahen

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago

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Minu Mishra

@mmishra1

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma
@TM - Can you please provide me with a microscope so that I can search for the selfishness in Anandi?

I used my microscope to find it but I couldn't. May be my microscope was not good enough.

Aparna yesterday Anandi looked Fool than selfless or selfish. I think CVs wanted to show the innocence of Anandi even after knowing and hearing that Jagya still luvs her and he wants her to pick a girl/bride for him she came running to announce ki Jagya maan gaya. Ab innocent lagne ki jagah woh fool dikh rahee toh uska kya kasoor yeh toh sab expression baba ki galati hai. Sorry I didn't mean to hurt anyone but yes I agree with you 100% that Anandi's character was never selfish. She didn't hesitate to expose even DS in Urmi Devi fiasco.

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 12 years ago

Unfortunately, Anandi neeeds councilling as her behaviour and thinking is very muck close to abnormal.She feels herself the queen of Jaitsar as she thinks that she kicked a doctor out of her life and a collector was running after her. She always lived the luxrious life of haveli and never seen the hardship what Ganga, Phooli and others have seen. Who the hell she is to ask Jagya get married. When she has already moved away from him, under which legal or emotinal authority she is forcing Jagya to marry.

This is not uncommon that girls like Anandi will keep on interfering in others lives and will never live peacefully and will never let others to live peacfully. These attention seekers will always like to get attention and they never care for the feelings of others. Good luck to this girl ...

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

I do not think Anandi was selfish. She was making a mistake.

making a mistake is different from being selfish.

Marrying another woman while your wife is still around is selfishness.

Bringing a second wife and rubbing it in on your wife's face is selfishness

After almost giving your life for your husband, being betrayed in a cruel manner is selfishness

After finding out that your ex-wife is engaged , then acting to have amnesia so that you can get closer to her, while her fiance is around is selfishness

Taking vow of revenge for a mistake you have committed is selfishness

THen leaving your family alone to suffer , and crave for some affection after they loose a daughter (in bidaai_ and run away to gain some peace for yourselves (or rather not to face them cause the pain that they are going through is due to you) is selfishness

So on and on and on. And i have not even counted what he did to gauri yet. THat in and of itself is a whole neww dictionary of selfishness.

What Anandi pointed out to him that its him, himself and his ego .. is right

I agree she should not force him to marry but. I do nto think its selfishness. Its just a mistake of understanding. she thinks after doing all the above mentioned + more ( not to mention the whole i want my jaydaad drama+ + + uncountable misdeeds) he should give back to them at least something that they want. Even if he does not want it. And actually try and make it work.

TO ruin a life of a girl or not is in his hands. If he acts human then he can.

=== When we open up dictionary and search the word selfishness then we find Jagya's picture there====

Yes he is redeeming but no Anandi is not selfish. It was her mistake.

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but yeah only Shashank can play such a complicated character of Jagya so hats off to him.

Toral is getting awesome day by day So kudos to both the actors.

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Disclaimer: My pov is strictly based on the character. I love both Toral and Shashank :)

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: mmishra1

Aparna yesterday Anandi looked Fool than selfless or selfish. I think CVs wanted to show the innocence of Anandi even after knowing and hearing that Jagya still luvs her and he wants her to pick a girl/bride for him she came running to announce ki Jagya maan gaya. Ab innocent lagne ki jagah woh fool dikh rahee toh uska kya kasoor yeh toh sab expression baba ki galati hai. Sorry I didn't mean to hurt anyone but yes I agree with you 100% that Anandi's character was never selfish. She didn't hesitate to expose even DS in Urmi Devi fiasco.

Exactly. it was more of foolishness than selfishness.

Instead of making him convince him about the merit in her point she blackmailed him and he retaliated in an equally foolish manner and told her to find a bride for him.Both are being stupid here and they end up facing the consequences for that stupidity in the near future.

Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago

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