What Jagya feeling is understandable

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is my point of view

I think what Jagya is feeling is perfectly understandable. That is not love ..It is friendship
I am telling you this from my own experience .during my college days we used to stay in hostel .The day we left the hostel we were crying liking anything ..Even after I came home I used to cry for my friends .at first I thought life without them is not possible ..then after some days I moved on.

So my point is same with jagya ..Jagya and Anandi are friends from childhood under the same roof ( same like in hostel) . So when jagya heard she is going to udaipur ,then only he understood he still has feelings for Anandi .So I think it perfectly human nature. when we think we don't see the person we love we feel our life is nothing without them ,but after somedays we move on .I think after some days he will definitely move on with his life ( Esp when he got his new punch bag,ganga)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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its true that Jagya and Anandi were incompatible but that can only be applied for their marriage but not friendship...one has to agree that they were really good friends...they were always there for each other as friends...Bal Vivah had messed up their relationship and that's what CVs are trying to show...if they would have grown up like friends and had not been tied down with marriage complications their relation now would have been more better with no awarkdness of past...Anandi was made for Shiv but still she could have been friends with Jagya had they had no Bal Vivah in b/w them...and Jagya and Anandi had also shared their friendship with some sense of teenage attraction and love which made them grow fonder for each other so its obvious that Jagya will miss Anandi when she will leave...i do not feel hatred for Jagya's feelings now because all of them are very much real and i have started looking at them as childhood close friends whose friendship was messed up because of this stupid Bal Vivah
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yup agreed. Thats what the cvs are showing.
Anandi is soo very much part of singh family but she shares a sticky past.

Friday and Saturday's episode was a live witness to that.

They cannot even have a pure memory without it being tainted with the pain of the past.

I loved Fri and Sats episode just for the fact that Singhs were pained to see Anandi go and could not understand how to feel for Jagya

Brilliant portrayal of mixed emotions.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agree... Jagya will move on.. like anandi did <3
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree...J upon learning that he won't be seeing A anymore., all his feelings for her are coming out like an avalanche...this is natural., after they shared a bond for so many years., right from childhood.

BUT., in process of seeing how much A & S are in love with one another., he should not be feeling / behaving the manner he is currently but try to connect to the pain how much A would have suffered when he flaunted G in front of her.

The day he connects to that pain., he won't be feeling the jealousy as he is feeling now., but a sense of satisfaction to the punishment that is being meted out on him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What Jagya actually feels is a result of bond that formed between them during their growing up years.They were best of friends who went on to become lovers.It is just that the child marriage put them together in one place.The bond they have is a friendship probably an adolescent crush but they were made to believe that they felt that way because they are husband and wife.

And their relationship was made special because of Anandi.She took care of himand understood him she made sure that his dreams came true.

He misses both Anandi and that relationship they had.It is just a habit for them.Taking care of his has become Anandi's habit and being taken care of by Anandi became his habit.Both were comfortable with this relationship.This is the kind of relatinship he expected from Gauri too.That's why his relationship with Gauri failed.

Both Anandi and Jagya thought what they had was love.But in actuality it is only a bond.

Anandi finally realised that what she feels for J is not love a woman feels for a man and moved on to accept Shiv as her love.

Jagya is yet to realise that.Once he moves on with the help of someone like Ganga he will realise that.

Till he realises that he will be in misery.Some of the viewers will be having good time seeing him in pain and misery over his lost love Anandi.😈
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautiful post Aparna. Even I feel Jagya is confused about his feelings for Anandi. Anandi moving away from Jaitser will be good for him. Two years ago I wanted to see him suffer. But now dont know why I am nit feeling happy to see him in this condition. Since Anandi is happy in her life and has moved on, I want him to move on too. I wish they had shown Gouri repenting. I still feel bad how they showed an educated bright girl who wanted to be independent.as bad.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Red apple - Despite knowing that he is in pain and trying to explore the reasons for his pain and misery the evil me still enjoys seeing him in pain.

May be because Shanky was way too convincing as an adulterous and callous husband who didn't think twice before hurting her and throwing her away like a toy he got bored with and Pratts was too good at portraying the hurt pain at being insulted and abandoned for no fault of hers.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

@Red apple - Despite knowing that he is in pain and trying to explore the reasons for his pain and misery the evil me still enjoys seeing him in pain.


May be because Shanky was way too convincing as an adulterous and callous husband who didn't think twice before hurting her and throwing her away like a toy he got bored with and Pratts was too good at portraying the hurt pain at being insulted and abandoned for no fault of hers.


@Aparna, Very rarely do I find myself not agreeing with you and today is no exception. I agree with your previous and this post. I like that bit "the evil me still enjoys seeing him in pain". 😆

I used to be like that, hated the lying, cheating and unfair character, but I have now got a "don't really care" attitude. But seeing the last few episodes, the terrace scene, the jagran scene where he scampered away and started looking at his picture album and yesterday at the breakfast table, I got the feeling he is in a) envious b) jealous c) covetous and d) grapes sour, mood. May be you are right and he will be able to cross this hump and move on. Interesting, every time he has been shown to be envious, camera has panned on the impassive face of DS. Is she planning something, I wonder?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yash.Pal


@Aparna, Very rarely do I find myself not agreeing with you and today is no exception. I agree with your previous and this post. I like that bit "the evil me still enjoys seeing him in pain". 😆

I used to be like that, hated the lying, cheating and unfair character, but I have now got a "don't really care" attitude. But seeing the last few episodes, the terrace scene, the jagran scene where he scampered away and started looking at his picture album and yesterday at the breakfast table, I got the feeling he is in a) envious b) jealous c) covetous and d) grapes sour, mood. May be you are right and he will be able to cross this hump and move on. Interesting, every time he has been shown to be envious, camera has panned on the impassive face of DS. Is she planning something, I wonder?


He he ..u r right ..I never realized I have a negative side in me till I watched daily soaps..Even part of me is happy to see him suffer ..😆

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