Originally posted by: jhansijhansi
Forget about the social message BV is passing through because when everyone wanted to see that even a girl can forget her evil past and her husband and live her life happily with her new Love than they showed that a strongest women like Anandi apart from having such a support from past and present in-laws (which is not possible in real life), could not forget her first husband even after so many years of suffering and could not accept Shiv from her heart and they proved that any one who marry a girl like Anandi that man and his family needs to have lot of patience and then they might forget their past and accept her present husband, in-laws will be blammed if they talk anything about it, if Anandi was with her parents then definetly her mom would be concerned like Ira and questioned about, at least to advice her daughter (even Anandi felt like she needs to talk to Sumitra), but Ira was blammed apart from all her kindness and goodness... CM is supporting Anandi because she beleives Anandi, but at the same time she is repeteadly saying that it is not easy for a women to accept some other man in her life and she needs some more time...apart BV are giving a wrong message if any girl is strong and forget her past and live her present life happily with out any depression then there are chances to show Anandi and say it is not easy for a good women to forget first husband and accept some other man in her life, not every women are lucky to find some one life Shiv to understand and think positively.
Comming to Jagiya, Like Anandi always said just like Anandi Jagiya also never had any chance to choose his wife and was married when he does not know what is marriage and bendhni, so this was null and void relations ship...(for me which is not true because Jagiya spend with Ananid after he was matured man)
Gauri..is arrogant and she married Jagiya even after knowing he cheated her for five years and also Anandi, this was not because of her true love for jagiya it was also to take revange against singh's family and anandi and show them that she is legal wife of jagiya and bendhi of haveli,...they both shared more miss understandings and samjotha rather than love, Jagiya is not right person for Gauri and at the same time Gauri is not good for Jagiya. As now he want to live in village and serve people where Gauri would not do...Left jagiya leave Gauri so that she can acheive what she wanted in life instead of revolving round Jagiya.
Ganga is perfect women where she has courage and understanding and innocence...she knows what is good and bad...she would never marry Jagiya if Gauri would comes back or do anything like Gauri did..Ganga is more matured...Jagiya as a new changed person would be perfect for Ganga and if she really like him then i would say it is better he leaves Anandi and Gauri to acheive something in life and marry Ganga and support her child and serve people...Ganga is a good women so she would never let Jagiya to do something that is illegal or wrong...at least Singhs deserve a bahu like Ganga.
Any man and woman has a right to live there life happily if they realize and feel sorry and correct their past mistakes...we cannot say no three times or four times..., some of them are lucky find a best mate first time and some of them might miss their best mates unfortunately then what happens...that is what BV are trying to show, but it should be same for men and women.
One more thing Indians mostly say not 3 women for a men not 3 men for a women...lets come out of it we were stuck only one men or one women and started moving on in life...not every one are lucky and not that anyone just married once are living happily and they are the best ones...there are many couple who really don't have any love, but still continue to live as they never want some other person in life.