Originally posted by: Skepblun
Agree totally! Anandi was the only child of her parents, life of her natal village and she spent 12-13 years with them before she married J. Later she was sent back to them where she spent 5 years with them. So it's around 17-18 years with her own parents too. She returned to their home only for her sick and dying mother and later didn't even stay with her bereaved Bapu for long to comfort him. She did be with him. But we know her behaviour would've been different if it were Singhs!
And how long will it be about kachchi umar ke pakke rishte? If that's the case reunite JaAn, or reunite Gaga (theirs was also a kachchi umar ka rishta as they got married as kids)! Didn't Anandi's remarriage signify a move on mentality?
I understand the theme kachchi umar ke pakke rishte. But don't buy this explanation for Singhs' and A's behaviour. I don't say A shouldn't think of Singhs at all. I said she should think of Shiv and Shekhars too! I used the word "balance" while talking of her dialogues today in the first post of this thread!