Hi-Fi Saachi - Page 2

Thanks Dixie. It's such a serious issue when one makes a blanket statement 'be a man' as in don't be hen pecked. Such a wrong message to send out. When an male show sensitivity, respect and love towards a woman, it does not mean that he is not being a man. Actually in the male dominated society, it takes a lot more courage to be all of that and also risk being belittled by narrow minded folks who find labels like 'henpecked' to defile such honorable behavior.

The word used by daddu was 'tabadla' meaning transfer.

however it was done and no matter who said it the profit is in our side...when i heard saying Dadisa to bring Shiv and Anandi over weekends...i was like 😲 😡 🤢...its ridiculous..you expect Shiv and Anandi to give good news but don't want to give them privacy...so open-minded that you are ready to give them privacy during day time 😕

Originally posted by: parri814

Thanks Dixie. It's such a serious issue when one makes a blanket statement 'be a man' as in don't be hen pecked. Such a wrong message to send out. When an male show sensitivity, respect and love towards a woman, it does not mean that he is not being a man. Actually in the male dominated society, it takes a lot more courage to be all of that and also risk being belittled by narrow minded folks who find labels like 'henpecked' to defile such honorable behavior.

I'm really so upset by this line of thinking. I've been watching Savdhaan India a lot lately and worry about the pervasive theme running through all the various issues. Worse is when females themselves encourage such sexist attitudes. 😔

Originally posted by: masin

To be honest...I'm not entirely happy with Sanchi's outburst.

Here's what I understood from the promo:

I don't know exactly what Dadisa was going on about...according to what I've read on the forum, she wants AnSh/the Shekhars to visit Badi Haveli every time they have a holiday...but, I'm not gonna count on that because the promos always show one bit of the conversation, and the whole things ends up being something completely different in the episode...so for once, I'm gonna give Dadisa the benefit of the doubt.

Sanchi's outburst however was very clear..and rather stupid too. I say stupid because she said Shiv is moving to Udaipur "humesha humesha ke liye" ...this is entirely untrue...Shiv is a government officer with a transferrable job, he was initially transferred from XYZ to Jaitsar, and he is currently transferred from Jaitsar to Udaipur, in the future he may be transferred from Udaipur to ZYX...point being that his move to Udaipur is not permanent...and Sanchi should not have said so either! It just goes to show the extent of her immaturity and lack of knowledge about her brother's job...which again is unrealistic because along with Sanchi's brother, her father and grandfather are in the forces as well...so how the hell does she not know the difference between a "transfer" and a "humesha and forever"

On the other hand...I agree that if Sanchi hadn't opened her big mouth then Shiv wouldn't have broken the news to the Singhs...however, I don't think that would've been the case because Sanchi isn't the only one who wanted Shiv to tell the Singhs as soon as possible, even Choti Maa and Daddu told him to inform the Singhs immediately...so had it not been for Sanchi, I'm sure one of the Shekhars would've nudged Shiv and asked him to tell the Singhs about his transfer.

In any case...had someone else (perhaps an elder member of the Shekhars) told Shiv to tell the Singhs then that would've made more sense to me...I don't think it was Sanchi's position to say what she said, especially using such a loud and obnoxious tone! While she may seem courageous, I think she also seems disrespectful, rude and highly insensitive.

Also, @ reshmiroy2012: I agree with you 100% about being fed up of the Singhs and them always hovering over Anandi! But, I don't think that Sanchi's all excited about Udaipur in the sense that "Anandi's our bhabhi and we're taking her"...I think the rest of the Shekhars feel that way...but I think for Sanchi it's more like "he's my brother and I'm sick and tired of him giving you guys so much importance and that's why I wanna tell you straight up that he's coming to Udaipur to live with his family and finally give us some much deserved and missing importance in his life!" LOL...but yes, I'm glad that AnSh are leaving Jaitsar...they definitely need a breather from the Singhs and I think so do we as an audience...I much rather watch some light-hearted scenes with the Shekhars than the monotonous scenes with the Singhs!

@masin - I think u r right in Sanchi's interpretation, but now she is not too allergic to her bhabi. Shiv is worried about singh as he knows they are over senti people, who are not used to send their kids far, and Aji is the apple of their eye. Shiv ko ta transfer hona hi tha. For DS, she does not have any concept of privacy for a couple, let he go to hell. We have to see some rona dhona but i know Udaipur is awaiting us.

Saanchi's behaviour was rude. She could have whispered to her elders and kept giving them ishaara to tell truth to Singhs, instead of butting in herself and speaking in such an irritated tone!

Singhs and DS are hypocrites! DS always detested and discouraged her DILs' contact with their natal families, always taunted them if they wanted to go to their maayka or recalled their maa-bapu, always taunted and humiliated her DILs' families whenever they came to visit. But she wants Anandi to visit on every holiday? Always interferes in her life? She wanted young and flawless girls to be second wife of Basant, but herself gave an unwed mother and widowed Sugna to Shyam's family, and interfered there also.

As I said in another thread, she always wants an upper hand in every situation and being older, being rich and supremo of the village she even got away with her behaviour.

Now she's expecting same from Shekhars (even if she's doing it unknowingly). It's her instinct to dominate.

I want Singhs to stop dictating Anandi's life and Anandi to do her own thing! Heck! Even Shiv was imposed on her!!

To those who call Shiv a wimp, I'd say just GET A LIFE!!! A sensitive, caring man who takes his wife's emotions into account before saying something is a good quality! A real man is one who respects women and their sentiments, not like a wild animal or MCP who just imposes himself and his decisions in a brash manner on his wife (or other women)! Ever seen Animal Planet? Males among wild animals impose themselves on entire "families", tearing up others and "taking over" the female and just jumping over her in aggression! Is that what a male is supposed to be? What is the difference then between a wild animal and a human being?
Shiv is what a REAL MAN ought to be. Having empathy does not equate to being a wimp!

@Parri, masin,Skepblun: You guys have beautifully written about what a real MAN is supposed to be. Seriously I have seen this name calling of Shiv and have argued over this so many times that I don't bother to respond to these kind of posts now.

I just want to say we, this generation mothers and parents hopefully can imbibe these qualities of a real MAN to our future generation so that these kind of accusations of being a wimp and sissy never arise in the future for being sensitive to women.

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

@sheets - sanchi has a big mouth, but she let the cat out of bag, because if u see the promo DS is saying every holiday you have to come, Then shiv says sure. So sanchi has to say the truth. Shiv;s right opportunity would have dragged the show again. Saanchi - if u think her feeling is right, she has seen always singh taking a priority in Aji's life and quite frustrated like us. So now is waiting for the opportunity to show them the aina, look boss your days are gone, now she is our bhabi and we are taking her. Though her way of saying was a jhatka.And DS is too much, abhi to Aji ko pyar hua hein and she is awaiting the romance of married life, and every holiday, they will come and spend time with buria and her ladeswar and entire drama company. Bap re i am fed with AnSh and Singh, BV please bhagao AnSh from Jaitser for some days.
And I do not trust DS now Sumi also, in their sub conscious mind they still Aji is their DIL. Super suspicious charecter DS sometimes say J does not have light of his night - Anandi, SUmi says she has given Jagya's Precious treasure to shiv. Ladies - you have not done anything, If Aji was determined to get married to shiv, and you guys could not stop her. Abhi Ganga hein na, uski upar concentrate karo. Please spare AnSh. S

Originally posted by: anonee

Today's epi convinced me Shiv is a wimp and a sissy.

Saachi has more courage and strength then Shiv. You go girl!!

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

Yeah but Reshmi, I know I am going to break your heart you are such a Shiv fan, but he is behaving like a wimp. Thoda tough hona mangta hai. Particularly when you have a protagonist wife. Baar baar apology karhe hi jaa rahe aur biwi kuch kehti nahi hai, aur he "understands". Kya boss? Cholbe na.

Yash I am shiv fan, but i feel he is too soft, Do not understand what is his problem aji chara ki ar meye nei. He can get any one even if he leaves Aji. I really wanted him to say ; how can i trust you, you were always so engrossed with your ex husband and family.; your actions could never raise trust on you. And Sanchi - please at least once tell the whole singh if Aji is so important to them take her back so that her family can leave in peace. Shiv wake up - tell DS - i am giving back Aji, with a divorce , you keep her with you and let me move on. Neither your family , neither your anandi match with our class. It was a mistake getting married to Aji.