Re: Aji's narazgi not justified.

Yesterday I was thinking why is Aji complaining? But i never knew that there is more in store today. Aji naaraz - ok right on the spur of the moment. But kuch to samjha karo, tumhari pati parameshwar has done this for your comfort and happiness. Instead of understanding his concern for you, ap to ruthi gaye.
I do not believe that this is Anandi from Badi Haveli with DS and Sumitra's ethics. Would you have been able to do that at Badi Haveli and their ladeswar. You have forgiven jagya for all his misdeeds - now shiv's mistake is a drop in the ocean.
May be jitna jada pyar utna hi naarazgi, but Aji madam you are yet to show your love.
Now if shiv starts counting all the pain you have given, we never know how much time he will take to forgive you. But Aji has become a 'nakhrewali biwi' courtsey shiv's pampering. So now he has to suffer.
BV - shiv is ur step son but hampe thoda taras khao, we are waiting for the confession (hope they still remember that). So yeh narazgi drama end karo jaldi jaldi. Iske baad i know the cry drama will start at Haveli and Jaitsar and run for next week.

i think bcos of new anandi cv have postponed the confession. Its difficult to get the intimate scenes going on suddenly with the new actress as both sid and toral have to spend some time to get the chemistry out. So they got this narazgi drama and Udaipur transfer.

Ira so unlike the Anandi who couple of days back while talking to shiv's photo said that I can't be angry with u

First time she has got an opportunity to be naaraz with her husband, so she is enjoying that. Jagya ke saath to kabhi chance nehi mila. JaAn and AnSh are just two opposite poles or role reversed.

btw.. I do not think Anandi is really upset at him. She is just sad that , he thought, she would not like to go with him or thought that she would not be happy for him as he would get to be with his family more.

I think isi track ke thru Anandi love confess karegi so dnt worry guys ye track confession ko thora emotional and dramatic banane ke liye hai.

well both of the post maker and Suchi has the point...Anandi is angry first and yet has not shown her love and she is over reacting and making Shiv really more guilty than he should be and also that Anandi has always put her family's happiness in front of her happiness...she is happy about going to Udaipur and she knows that one day she will have to leave Jaitsar...it was not unexpected for her...Anandi does have a tendency to over react with people who love her and keep her on their head

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

btw.. I do not think Anandi is really upset at him. She is just sad that , he thought, she would not like to go with him or thought that she would not be happy for him as he would get to be with his family more.

She is hurt cause, according to her, he did not consider her to be part of his family

No this is not a different Anandi.

Anandi always put the family's happiness over hers. That she showed today. And even yesterday when she smiled for hte entire family, she was showing that she is happy for them.

Today too it was more about him not trusting her.

Anandi previously also got angry with the singhs when they hid the matter of Jagya leaving jetsar.

So she does get hurt when people hide things from her.

@suchi - agree, but overdose hein. May be now she has accepted shiv from heart, and that is why so sad. Apna mante hein na. But i loved the way she was sitting with the entire family and making food, I felt she is from them. Pahele kabhi aisa nehi laga, naraaz thi lekin shiv ko ghur to rahi hi.

Originally posted by: KiranlovSriti

I think isi track ke thru Anandi love confess karegi so dnt worry guys ye track confession ko thora emotional and dramatic banane ke liye hai.

@kiran, apke muh mein ghee sakkar, if this thing happens then we will be on cloud nine. But u r new - and will understand slowly, BV makers has a tendency for emotional atyachar.

- Anandi is just sad at why Shiv didn't trust her enough to tell it to her. She is not exactly "naaraaz". Though I have to say, Toral's face gives look of anger/naarazgi than sadness (she does have solid looks!).

- I think Anandi felt left out, she felt everyone else knew about the transfer except her. So she felt worse that why being his wife, Shiv didn't tell her. (I feel it is also Ira's mistake for not discussing this with Anandi or CM. She discussed with Shiv but none of them thought Anandi would feel hurt if not told anything. Had CM been in Ira's place, she'd have handled the situation better and guided Shiv properly too.)

- But I also agree that Anandi hasn't shown her love to Shiv yet, nor has she shown him that she's completely comfortable with him and he should stop being too concerned about hurting her! She just gets hurt and shows her hypersensitivity. It makes Shiv more conscious and reluctant!

- Anandi's gone through a lot and earlier she was always concerned about hurting or not hurting people. Let her get her share of the right to get naaraaz! 😉

- It is contrary to Anandi's words that she said to Shiv's photo that she'll give him loads of love and fill his life with happiness etc. Maybe the CVs introduced this so that viewers get used to new Anandi first instead of showing romantic scenes with a new face at once! It's possible that this naarazgi could lead to a passionate confession of love by Anandi to Shiv. Shiv will be happy to see Anandi is "jatao-ing" her "haq" on him as a husband and is acting like a typical wife.

Still I have to say, Anandi is yet to show the Shekhars that she has totally blended into their family or show to Shiv that she has fully accepted him as a part of her life. Instead of being naaraaz for long, they should show her introspect and make some step to get closer to Shekhars.

Anandi has habit of getting attached to those she's been close to, for a long time. As a kid also she'd run away to her parents' village or keep remembering her Maa bapu. It took effort from Sumitra, Bhairon and to some extent Jagya that she started becoming comfortable in Singh house. On growing up, she took years to get over Jagya! So give her time too. Shekhars also need to try and make her comfortable. Once she gets attached to them, then she won't even think of Singhs much!