Re: Why is Aji complaining. - Page 3

Originally posted by: bips54321

I always felt anandi is very intelligent, matured, good in studies and professional life but she somehow fails in romantic life. Though jagya was verrr...y evil devil, just remember her relation with him b4jags went to medical college. Whenever he used to come to her room she used to tell tausa ko khana dena hai bapusa ko ye karna hai dadisa ko wo karna hai. Jagya used to get irritated as he is not as patient and good person as shiv. He told anandi tujhe meri fikr nhi hai?
But as jagya got involved with gauri these all got buried under earth.

This jaitsar udaipur could have been intelligently tackled by anandi. After all here we all know husband is the most prior person. Moreover shiv didnt understand anandi how dare she says that.

Anandi is a failiure wife somehow in both her marriges

Originally posted by: bips54321

I always felt anandi is very intelligent, matured, good in studies and professional life but she somehow fails in romantic life. Though jagya was verrr...y evil devil, just remember her relation with him b4jags went to medical college. Whenever he used to come to her room she used to tell tausa ko khana dena hai bapusa ko ye karna hai dadisa ko wo karna hai. Jagya used to get irritated as he is not as patient and good person as shiv. He told anandi tujhe meri fikr nhi hai?
But as jagya got involved with gauri these all got buried under earth.

This jaitsar udaipur could have been intelligently tackled by anandi. Her career is also involved in it . Shekhers give priority to anandis discision also they wud hav neva forced her to come to udaipur. After all here we all know husband is the most prior person. Moreover shiv didnt understand anandi how dare she says that.

Anandi is a failiure wife somehow in both her marriges

Originally posted by: ananthesh

Yeah, so true. She fails to be a good wife but keeps on impressing her in- laws and others. She should give priority to Shiv now rather than Jaitsar and Singhs service. But I feel sorry for Shiv, he is not even confident that his wife will accept the change and shift to Udaipur or not. Poor guy.😕

Anandi is not justified in asking him that he has not understood her, it's Anandi who has not understood Shiv.

This whole time I've kinda been on side with Anandi...saying that she is just upset that her husband didn't trust her enough to share such important news with her...even if he felt that the news may hurt her, he should've still told her as they've always shared all the highs and lows of their life with one another...she never hesitated to tell her about all her stress due to Jagya's return and similarly Shiv didn't hesitate to tell her that Sanchi is not exactly fond of her...so from that perspective, I was siding with Anandi. But...you are also so very true in suggesting Shiv's turmoil...poor guy was not even confident as to whether his wife will support him or not...and perhaps that's because she really hasn't re-instilled that confidence in him post-marriage...when she stood up for him against Heth Singh, the scenario was different...this is a different scenario and it cannot be dealt with by just yelling "I love you Shiv" from the rooftop!

I agree..anandi has always given more importance to her in-laws than her husband and in her second marriage her husband comes even after her maayka , her new in-laws, etc. in tuesday's episode when she declines dadisa's dinner invitation that is probably the first time she thinks about Shiv.

Originally posted by: rdjha

I agree..anandi has always given more importance to her in-laws than her husband and in her second marriage her husband comes even after her maayka , her new in-laws, etc. in tuesday's episode when she declines dadisa's dinner invitation that is probably the first time she thinks about Shiv.

so its but natural for Shiv to be apprehensive in telling her. Also he truely loves her and cares for her happiness the most. so he doesnt want her to compromise with her dreams. Though if you listen to his dialogue he says that 'aapka jaitser ko literate banane ka sapna adhura reh jayega ', so he kinda knows and also expects her to accompany him, but also knows that it wud hurt her to leave jaitser and hence he thought of explaining her taking his own sweet time.

now coming to Aji complaining, i think as a wife its correct of her to feel bad. her husband not telling her and everyone else knows does hurt, and now since she is in love with Shiv ..moreso. But instead of giving dialogues she should have tried to understand Shiv's feelings and POV. but when has she done that? she has always taken Shiv for granted, he has always been her punching bag and her comfort bag. so in all i dont think her rant was completely justified.

Originally posted by: rdjha

I agree..anandi has always given more importance to her in-laws than her husband and in her second marriage her husband comes even after her maayka , her new in-laws, etc. in tuesday's episode when she declines dadisa's dinner invitation that is probably the first time she thinks about Shiv.

so its but natural for Shiv to be apprehensive in telling her. Also he truely loves her and cares for her happiness the most. so he doesnt want her to compromise with her dreams. Though if you listen to his dialogue he says that 'aapka jaitser ko literate banane ka sapna adhura reh jayega ', so he kinda knows and also expects her to accompany him, but also knows that it wud hurt her to leave jaitser and hence he thought of explaining her taking his own sweet time.

now coming to Aji complaining, i think as a wife its correct of her to feel bad. her husband not telling her and everyone else knows does hurt, and now since she is in love with Shiv ..moreso. But instead of giving dialogues she should have tried to understand Shiv's feelings and POV. but when has she done that? she has always taken Shiv for granted, he has always been her punching bag and her comfort bag. so in all i dont think her rant was completely justified.

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

I think Anandi is not complaining. I am a wife and I KNOW what complaining is!

I think she was just expressing her hurt that he did not trust her enough to realize that she wants to stay with him.

I think she wants to confess her feelings and and on top of that this transfer news and her realization that, she wants to confess her love to a man who does not think she would want to stay with him for ever!

So I think , thats why she was more hurt.

I liked her this time. No over drama. Just that you didn;t understand me. ANd its ok, she is wife she can say that. Every wife makes a big deal of nothing many times. Its their janm sidh adhikar LOL

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

I think Anandi is not complaining. I am a wife and I KNOW what complaining is!

I think she was just expressing her hurt that he did not trust her enough to realize that she wants to stay with him.

I think she wants to confess her feelings and and on top of that this transfer news and her realization that, she wants to confess her love to a man who does not think she would want to stay with him for ever!

So I think , thats why she was more hurt.

I liked her this time. No over drama. Just that you didn;t understand me. ANd its ok, she is wife she can say that. Every wife makes a big deal of nothing many times. Its their janm sidh adhikar LOL