Ira should talk to Anandi regarding Singhs

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think when Anandi returns Ira should at least talk to her regarding her extra attachment with Singhs and Jagya...yes i get she is Singh's daughter but sometimes, like many of us said. she interferes in their work and does not even tell them to keep her aside when they try to bring her in the picture...if Ira will tell Anandi politely then she may understand as she will know that now not only Saanchi but even few elders are not happy with her extra care for Jagya...she can help Ganga in school with her studies and if Ganga really needs some help then once in a while she can visit Haveli but her overstay irritates me...i want Anandi to bond with Saanchi and other Shekhars rather than going to Haveli out of boredom...she can progress really well with Saanchi if she tries to interact and know her liking and world of Ipods than changing her attire for her and giving her lectures because it clearly looks that her speeches are having totally wrong effect on Saanchi...that's my view point so please don't bash me and please share your views regarding how Ira should handle this Singhs-Jagya-Anandi attachment because it looks only she or Meenu can make her understand

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I like what you are saying, it is like some girls even after marriage gives more priority to the maika. She should move to Udaipur spent time with the in laws to build in the bond. Or she will never be feel a part of them.
Like Teacher ji said Anandi is a good patni and bahu - I got confused how? Or Tji does not know Anandi is remarried now. Aji should know that her in laws expect more from her, then only she will realize. Hope now we will see a shift in character.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Whatever happened to Anandi and Saachi tiff?

Anandi giving it to saachi

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chahat11

Whatever happened to Anandi and Saachi tiff?

Anandi giving it to saachi

i think it has already happened...remembered Aaanchi has said something to Anandi and she replied to her in her typical polite way...that was the tiff...i already told that there no need to rise your hope because Anandi can never talk to Saanchi unless she says something about Shiv or others
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

I like what you are saying, it is like some girls even after marriage gives more priority to the maika. She should move to Udaipur spent time with the in laws to build in the bond. Or she will never be feel a part of them.
Like Teacher ji said Anandi is a good patni and bahu - I got confused how? Or Tji does not know Anandi is remarried now. Aji should know that her in laws expect more from her, then only she will realize. Hope now we will see a shift in character.

I really doubt that Teacherjee would not know of AnSh's marriage because it was telecast in T.V and it must have been in news for quite someday...she would definitely know it but she never show how Anandi is with Shekhar's... she is making her views on how she saw Anandi behave with Singhs which was typical adharsh bahu
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good post! Well said indeed! It irritates me too to see Anandi constantly running back to Haveli. When Shiv and Anandi came back to Jaitser earlier than planned after the marriage, I could see Anandi being happy and opening up to Shiv more because she was in her familiar surrounding. Didn't much like that. That clearly showed the marriage was a compromise on Anandi's part whatever she may have said otherwise.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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libsrocks I agree with you completely.. its good that ira is openly trying to discuss and sort the issue..

Firs thing is she should talk freely with anandi, not accuse her but try to empathize with her and then explain that she has responsibility towards shiv etc...

second thing she should talk to saanchi and put her staright... the situation with saanchi is the same as the situation with us pratyusha fans😆 saanchi had expected a different modern bhabhi and she got anandi so she is blasting her every action 😆... same as we never wanted toral to play anandi 😉 this is a delicate issue and its high time ira sorts this out with saanchi, instead of ignoring her or shouting on her, she should try to tell her that if she does not like anandi then she should ignore her and not taunt her or try to take out her faults.(like i am ignoring the show on tV 😉)

about anandi visiting haveli all the time - yea even i am bored of it, i think once married if a daughter keeps on visiting her maayka everyday, its not good.. why she has to poke her nose in all of jagyas matters?


anandi helping ganga - well she is a social worker and she may do so no problem with that...



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Posted: 12 years ago
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I want Anandi to lead a happy married life with Shiv. As long as Shiv and Anandi are happy with each other, Shekhars or Singhs involvement in Anandi's life do not matter to me. For me, Anandi's parents and Shiv's parents hold equal status. Why is a woman expected to uproot completely after marriage? Why not the same apply to a man? 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: brick_red

I want Anandi to lead a happy married life with Shiv. As long as Shiv and Anandi are happy with each other, Shekhars or Singhs involvement in Anandi's life do not matter to me. For me, Anandi's parents and Shiv's parents hold equal status. Why is a woman expected to uproot completely after marriage? Why not the same apply to a man? 😡

The thing here is Shiv has better and deeper relations with Singhs than Anandi has with Shekhars...she is really formal with them and is not even trying to bond with them over small things...even Shiv stays away from his parents and this was the first time he has taken such a long holiday with his family but at that Anandi did not even thought once even when they would have to eventually return to Jaitsar...but when there were talks of honeymoon she refused point blank because she wanted to spend more time with Shekhars so why not apply the same thing when Shiv told her to go to Jaitsar...we are not telling her to break her bonds with Singhs...obviously she won't but she is interfering in matters and she is brought in matters which holds no connection with her...now she stayed in Haveli for whole day to wait for Jagya...why? she could have consoled Dadisa and then went back home...and then once she came to visit Haveli out of boredom...if she was bore then Chotima and Saanchi were there to talk with her...she could have bond with them and know some of their childhood stories...if Anandi doesn't try to make her relations with Shekhars more firm then their trust on her will eventually lose

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