Trying to accept a change my POV - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bul3

agree..@topicmaker-It is great that you are more into Anandi's essence and trying to accept a change with open arms,but please don't feel people who do not agree with your POV have something against you or think you are insensitive..Also please do not try to justify that your POV is the better one/right one too!..we all are entitled to have our own voices,our own thoughts..,..if you are not happy with some posts's POV(like Ansh is dead),it is better to ignore them. The forum is open so it will have all kinds of post and not just with which we are ok or comfortable with,..so better to ignore posts which bother you.

Originally posted by: GoldenDew

Fair enough... but how correct is to preach them and belittle them for thinking that AnSh is dead.. I mean its their opinion that for them Ansh is dead they r not asking u to kill ur Ansh right??

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Who is preaching anybody?If they can make post saying AnSh is dead I can very well make post to express my hurt at that sentiment.

Everybody has a right to express their feelings without hurting others' feelings.

There have been many posts flaunting ahh I have accepted the change.. I have decided to give it a shot and I want my friends to do the same.. I am not singling out ur posts I am talking about general stuff that was happening around the forum.. if u have accepted or decided to accept it is alright give others who don't want to space and time there is no need to start moral policing of whats right and whats not. also I've seen veiled mocking going around the AT to be precise flaunting once ability to move on and intelligence.. how can they call themselves friends and do that to their so called friends is above me.. anyways u have ur POV peeps have theirs its better one applies live and let live policy to survive the forum.. I am anyways out of it as I am moving on from BV and have nothing to discuss about it.. but I can't see people being mocked at for no reason.. hence I decided to respond this one last time.

@ Adi - acquaintances were broken for other reasons.. so please don't start accusing Pratyusha for this.. the poor girl doesn't even know that the likes of u and me even exist 😆

Originally posted by: aparnauma

A POV is just that a POV. it can not be better or worse it cannot be right or wrong.

Agreed this is an open forum so we can have all kinds of posts.Just like they have a right to say AnSh is dead I have the freedom to make a post to express my feelings about that post.

Just like people make posts to explain they are leaving because they cannot accept a change I made a post to have my own say.

You can accept it or leave it.

I meant what I said in no wrong way,..I just wanted to say that not all who are sad feel that who are not leaving the forum and are ready to accept the change are insensitive. But people are again and again trying to justify their own POVs(I dont mean you,I mean it in general) which I think is not necessary. anyways I am going to leave it:)

oh..one last thing..they were posting something on Ansh and how they felt Ansh were dead for them,..they were not commenting on how real people in this forum feel about their POV..
"Why do people have to make it difficult for me?If they cannot see Anandi and AnSh in the absence of Partyusha how right is it on their part to say that AnSh is dead?"
Nobody can make it difficult to you..you ask others to try and accept the change and you are unable to accept that people can have different feelings than yours?

Originally posted by: Bul3

I meant what I said in no wrong way,..I just wanted to say that not all who are sad feel that who are not leaving the forum and are ready to accept the change are insensitive. But people are again and again trying to justify their own POVs(I dont mean you,I mean it in general) which I think is not necessary. anyways I am going to leave it:)

oh..one last thing..they were posting something on Ansh and how they felt Ansh were dead for them,..they were not commenting on how real people in this forum feel about their POV..
"Why do people have to make it difficult for me?If they cannot see Anandi and AnSh in the absence of Partyusha how right is it on their part to say that AnSh is dead?"
Nobody can make it difficult to you..you ask others to try and accept the change and you are unable to accept that people can have different feelings than yours?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@bold - I have some questions to ask - who created Anandi?Who created AnSh?

Didn't Anandi exist before Pratyusha came in?

What was Pratyusha before Anandi happened to her?

What was Sid before Shiv happened to him?

Is AnSh a solo effort of Sid and Pratusha?

Is it just their physical appearance that made AnSh what they are?

If it is just physical appearances which made them so special?

What about the writing casting direction?Didn't they have any role in creation of Anandi and AnSh?

Is AnSh is only about faces?

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If there are posts preaching others about how people should move on how they should accept the new actress how they find her more suitable and so on so forth

There are posts about how the new actress looks like aunty looks sac of potatoes and how she looks vamp and how Sid should leave the show

Both the kind of posts make difficult to people who are trying to grasp the situation and trying deal with it.

I never preached anybody to accept the new girl or forget he old one.

The purpose of my post is to express my hurt when people said AnSh is dead.

Originally posted by: GoldenDew

@ Adi - acquaintances were broken for other reasons.. so please don't start accusing Pratyusha for this.. the poor girl doesn't even know that the likes of u and me even exist 😆

guy's i have one thing to say...leave is forum page. avoid anytype of bashing.commenting looks on new anandi..who ever love BV.and love anandi( not prat)...and shiv... we have lot of thing to enjoy...so plz don't even try to convince anyone...coz everybody has their choices...simple sa solutaion hai if u like any post coment on that don't like stay away...and if u wanna post do it...😊...@ adi...u need a 🤗 and a 👏.too for yr thinking😊

Some people accept change readily and some people believe in fighting for someone they like so resist change. In the end all that matters is how good will toral be as an actor to win back the disappointed viewers. Everyone has their way of dealing with disappointment be patient. We know sid and rest of bv star cast are good actors so now torals acting skills and bv writers will decide the fate for popularity of this new pairing.

I agree with you aparna... What saddens me is that.. its ok to miss pratz and to talk about the feelings about it but if I do the same to not miss pratz and move on... then I get the feeling that I am very insensitive towards Pratz fans.