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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am in the same boat as you Vedo!..I cannot forget oh so easily,something which I have loved so strongly!..miss Ansh!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Suchi - You r not understanding dear Prats was not happy abt it.She was sounding happy in that int bcoz she was faking it...her loss.Just imagine...when a group of frnz part due to end of school or college...u say to all that I will miss u n all...but theres that one girl or boy u suddenly become cold too n dont say anything to him/her...bcoz probably u loved him/her too much to say bye.when sum1 will ask...wud u miss him...d girl wud coldly say no...to hide her emotions.not bcoz she rly wont.

How can u say she wont miss Anandi...we just saw Anandi...she lived it...24*7.I was watching Avikas int a day before and she said I wud love to
play new Anandi.She wants to play A even now...to just imagine how much P wud be missing her.

The truth is that Ps health wasnt able to cope up with 6 days.yes there r other actors too but they r not leads n if r leads they r not working since 3 long years without a brk.

In IBN7 int. BVs director himself said reason of sacking her was she being unable to cope with 6 days.And believe me its not Ps fault...if channel doesnt has good weekend shows.Sony airs all its shows mon-thurs bcuz they hv CID,Crime patrol and Adalat...good weekend shows.Its so unfair of colors to put the burden of their incompetency to make good weekend programs on the actors shoulders.This is discrimination n exploitation.Even in a corporate world ppl hv max 10 hrs working shift unlike these actors who hv 14-16 hrs shift.They r bound to fall sick.but that doesnt mean they love their character any less.
Edited by Malika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vedo- Sorry to see you go.Sorry that you feel that way.

I thought I would make you listen to my POV before you leave.

I love Anandi - from the time it was played by Avika Gor.I loved it because of the way she potrayed Anandi.A girl full of life who brightened other people's lives a girl whose heart is full of love.
A girl whose education was stopped but she found way having fun through her husband's life.
She had fun watching her husband cricket even if she was allowed to pay she tried to continue her school going experience when her husband made her di hme work - In other words nobody or nothing could put her down.She always saw the brighter side of things.She always found something to laugh and smile about even through her tears she smiled.She was the spirited Anandi who had to be reined in and DS did the reining her in by using harsh methods.

Then time came the change was inevitable Annadi was replaced and she was nothing like what I expected whether in terms of physical appearance nor in characterisation. I found it very difficult to accept the new Anandi.I decided to ignore the new Anandi's physical aspect of my expectations.But I told myself that the original Anandi was buried deep inside somewhere in the Pratyusha's Anandi.Every time I saw Pratyusha's Anandi I told my self that she is Anandi it is just that life over whelmed her and that's why she is lifeless.With the entry of Shiv as it was expected the original Anandi was returning and I was happy.

As for the new Anandi I do not want to comment on her but I know my love for Anandi will try and make me accept her as Anandi.If I could accept Pratyusha's Anandi with her average looks and acting capabilities I am sure I can accept her this new Anandi too.


If Pratyusha quit/fired or what ever why should I be deprived of seeing Anandi and her story that too when I waited so long to see her happy in life and get wind beneath her wings to fly?


As for Siddharth Shukla - yes he made a big impact.But who ever heard of this man before he stepped into the role of Shiv?Very few people saw his shows.
If he quits - I will be sorry to see him go too because I feel he started to perform well and is not just a pretty face.But I will make efforts to accept whoever comes in as his replacement.

Because for me Anandi will always be what I saw in original Anandi a spirited girl with a heart of gold and Shiv is someone like Anandi infact a male Anandi and who gives Anandi all the love and happiness that she deserves.
I will try to see these two characters in what ever faces the PH/Channel uses to show me because I love the characters and will come to like the faces also.

This is how I view it.

Bye. Nice knowing you.😊






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Posted: 12 years ago
#44
I hope you are right Malika.

I just want to forget feb 27th episode. I did not even watch it cause its the last with pratz in it. I have just decided to forget about it...and move on
For me that's the best way to cope with this loss.

Sigh..
But please guys don't leave. What's the point if you all leave...it's just more sadness that's all


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good bye Vedo.. we will miss ur beautiful creations.. in dis few days we have lost not only our Ansh our Sidyusha(in reel) but some amazing people who brought life to them thru their writings and vms and u wer one of the best persons who just breathed life to them..i will sorely miss those.. thank you for everything and hope smdy our Sidyusha turns up real or we will see them in reel and we will meet again..i will keep the faith.. thanks a lott once again..u are amazing and keep writing and making siggies and vms coz u r simply phenomenal..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Suchi - You r not understanding dear Prats was not happy abt it.She was sounding happy in that int bcoz she was faking it...her loss.Just imagine...when a group of frnz part due to end of school or college...u say to all that I will miss u n all...but theres that one girl or boy u suddenly become cold too n dont say anything to him/her...bcoz probably u loved him/her too much to say bye.when sum1 will ask...wud u miss him...d girl wud coldly say no...to hide her emotions.not bcoz she rly wont.

How can u say she wont miss Anandi...we just saw Anandi...she lived it...24*7.I was watching Avikas int a day before and she said I wud love to
play new Anandi.She wants to play A even now...to just imagine how much P wud be missing her.

The truth is that Ps health wasnt able to cope up with 6 days.yes there r other actors too but they r not leads n if r leads they r not working since 3 long years without a brk.

In IBN7 int. BVs director himself said reason of sacking her was she being unable to cope with 6 days.And believe me its not Ps fault...if channel doesnt has good weekend shows.Sony airs all its shows mon-thurs bcuz they hv CID,Crime patrol and Adalat...good weekend shows.Its so unfair of colors to put the burden of their incompetency to make good weekend programs on the burden of actors shoulders.This is discrimination n exploitation.Even in a corporate world ppl hv max 10 hrs working shift unlike these actors who hv 14-16 hrs shift.They r bound to fall sick.but that doesnt mean they love their character any less.


agree...instead of understanding how hard it must be for a 21 year old to hardly have a life outside work,less friends and family time and her fighting it for 3 years to be able to play Anandi!!Now imagine how it must have been to give up Anandi...Some while back in an interview she said she is not at all leaving BV and does not understand why these rumors keep cropping up..and BAM suddenly she was planning for it a long time ago?..I dont believe it..Its all PH because obviously PH has much more power than an actor! They made it worse from difficult with show becomeing 6 times a week with most of the time saturdays running on Ansh shoulders to interest viewers!..It would be very very hard for her..CVs should have worked in some way to make it a little easy on her..instead she is out of the show and PH is blaming her and spreading various rumors about her throwing tantrums and what not!..you want her to work like a slave and that too without raising any voice ? It is sad to see those who are giving such noble messages in their show are lacking humanity and ethics in their own lives.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47
Ok bul what ever you say could be right but I do not think she ever got hard time with PH.
Ph has always given actors the free time they needed. DS left for 4 months, Sumitra went away for maternity.. And of course shashank was on a leave for a week every now and then. The entire burden was not only on Sid and prats. They also had Ganga and JAgya thing going on. So with all the rumors or truth or what ever it may be I am forced to believe that she chose to leave. So if she chose to leave then I wish her the best.

For Me In my mind there has been another leap and the new anandi is here. I just want vedo to not leave. I am not asking you all to think like me.. Just requesting sincerely to all Anshians to not leave. Just imagine another leap if it helps.
BV is a great show. Sid is still there...

Sigh
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vedo your words are so true that I had to break my Vow for not commenting on any topic is this forum.So I can stop myself from commenting on this thread bcoz each and every words of this thread is my unsopken words...my unexpressed emotions...
Yes many of people here is right that we should move on with the change...the story is importanat etc etc but there is a very big difference between them and us and the different is...
For them they are facing a change in Balika Vadhu.They have their Anandi intact in the serial,and for them Anandi and only Anandi matter (I dont have any problem on that)
But for us we are facing a separation...we have been separated from our favourite actress.For us after Avika it was Pratyusha who lived in our heart as Anandi and we invested our total feelings on her only.She has become a very dear part of our heart and it has become a habit for me to see Pratyusha as Anandi everyday...and I dont think I am able to change that habit.
For me Shiv is only the savour and lover and husband of Anandi.I liked Shiv because he loves Anandi.So for me Anandi is priority than Shiv and MY ANANDI IS AND ONLY BE PRATZ. And a fan I am bigger fan of Pratyusha that Siddharth...so my Balika Vadhu story end here...AnSh is SidYusha for me and there image has been set in my heart for ever and I dont want to change that image from my heart...
Thanx again Vedo for making this post
Edited by tistaa - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
I share the pain and anguish with you all...BV's magic is gone without Pratzz and sid combo.

Thanks to you all for giving wonderfull OS's. SS's VM'S and what not before their marriage and after that. They will remain forever in our hearts...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Vedo 🤗 Hope you feel better soon hun. See ya on the other side ...our faces are booked for life 😃

No comments on the fictional show from my side but I respect your decision and will always love you ❤️

Just sharing my few cents ...This was a job for the actor and if she was finding it difficult to cope with the long and tedious working hours and falling sick it is good decision that she left ... health is more important... shows will come and go but health is wealth.
We have seen so many epis full of BD's so there is some truth to her not being available on the sets 😊.

MY POV: But anyways I would not do a job which is taxing and giving me so much tension. I had to quit my job coz of my difficult pregnancy and I had willingly put in my papers but I cried and howled on my farewell day that's when the reality hits you no more getting ready and going to work from tomorrow😭...the thought of being unemployed always makes us emotional ...however rational we are 😉.
At the end of the day we are all emotional beings 😊

People quit jobs and get fired too so that's the fact of life and sometimes change is inhabitable.

I try to play the truth of who I am. The reason that's difficult is because I'm changing all the time.😛
I have been taught...Attach yourself to the truth... Your truth. Even when it changes. Especially when it changes.
And I'm glad Vedo you have attached yourself to your truth of the moment that you cannot accept the change so are taking a break from here. But never say never coz you never KNOW
Edited by 5cents - 12 years ago

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