Originally posted by: smriti81
Thanks for the WU.
A lot of people r upset with J coming to A before leaving but wasn't that a given actually. The point of Bv is also that Anandi will never truly be able to extricate herself from the lives of Singh's & in turn from that of Jagiya. J will always turn to A cause she was his first & only true friend who always stood by him & he will continue to rely on her till he finds his own soulmate. And we will see that though she has moved on completely from him now & is head over heels in love with her Shiv, she will always be the defacto damage controller in J's life & in the haveli. This in turn will always create hurdles in her current life but with Ansh's love & mutual understanding they will learn to deal with those hurdles. That is why Shiv has been shown to be that ideal, understanding soul mate. So just get used to it...as long as she puts Shiv before the rest of the jingbang. So in that vein I hope she does not go into a morose mode making S also sad cause DS & BS are upset with her. I hope they don't show that Anandi's enthusiasm is totally dampened by the J ka kissa...and Ansh don't have to mop around till J comes back.
Liked Jagiya after a long time today...his remorse is genuine & desire to right all the wrongs of the past is heartfelt. And he could not have approached his dadisa for this issue...we saw her reaction...she Wud never have let him go to Mumbai & complete the loop of that unfinished business called Gauri. There is too much bitterness & insecurity as regards Gauri in their hearts. At one time I had hoped that Gauri wud also see the error of her ways & move towards redemption & the Singh's Wud finally accept her...that was before I thought CVs wanted J to move on in life with/ without someone else. And in that context J going back to Mumbai wud have been to resolve the problems in their relationship rather than just apologies for the failed relationship.
But after seeing the Singh's reaction to J going to meet G yesterday that seems a little difficult now. Wonder what's in store now...all depends on what Gauri did with that baby. But in retrospect I guess in the last few months or the last phase of the relationship b/w J-G it had slowly & steadily started spiraling out of control over things that had nothing to do with Anandi. Gauri had started treating J with utter contempt & disrespect while she brought out the worst in him...an insecure, pathetic MCP loser in front of her.