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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

This TRP twist may change AnSh story totally. There will be small towns where people think woman differently, so BV may scrap the idea of successful divorcee marriage and reunite JaAn keeping Anandi pure from Shiv, to maintain TRP. My POV - BV is delaying and keeping tracks open to make U turn.


actually trps hav risen after shiv anandi pairing.
but ur right its for trps...they want to drag the sr part to keep audience hooked...all serials do tht...in every show sr happens after months sometimes years
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Posted: 13 years ago
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that's what is confusing...anandi used to hardly cry like this in front of everyone but now she cries for no reason...i know shiv has let out her weakness but she should make herself stronger than show off them...PLZ BV WE NEED OUR OLD ANANDI BACK...!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

This TRP twist may change AnSh story totally. There will be small towns where people think woman differently, so BV may scrap the idea of successful divorcee marriage and reunite JaAn keeping Anandi pure from Shiv, to maintain TRP. My POV - BV is delaying and keeping tracks open to make U turn.


i don't think so...if that is true...then this remarriage naver happened...and don't forget there was 100% chance to.jagia anandi's reunion...from shiv side also...and u forget ansh marriage is a most wanted marriage...

and what happen to u rashmi... what r u saying?.it's really a very cleche, and absurd idea.u r talking as if we r watching show of ekta mata...

don't forget.syam and sugna got marraid...bv always have different thinking from other's...

yaar itna negetive hur baar kaise soch leti ho...😲

@ nniks...u r absolutly right... agreed with u😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: xaviara

We can't even begin to imagine the emotional turmoil a women like Anandi goes through, since most of us are from big cities, have lead a free and a modern life, and given freedon by our family to make our own decisions, so we have confidence in ourselves, but put yourself in Anandi's shoes and you will understand why the fear and insecurities, even with such an understanding husband like Shiv, because it is not about Shiv, and its certainly not because she is still pining away for Jagiya, it is really about her own lack of self esteem which makes her scared and hesitant, which is very normal, especially for a women whose ex husband continuously told her that she she is not desirable enough, that she is not educated or sophisticated enough, who thought that she wasn't worthy of him, so he goes ahead and cheats on her with another women. Now had its been one of us, we would have given him a piece of our mind and moved on, not caring about his crap, but Anandi is not a girl from the city, she is from a village and that too child bride, who was taught from childhood to treat her hubby like some God ! Thankfully her in laws helped her through the worse times, but the emotional scars cannot be wiped away, they take a long time, and Shiv has just started to apply that emotional balm to those scars, so with time she will be able to give in to Shiv, mind , body ad soul.

WOW...NICE ONE...WELL NOW IF I SEE FROM THAT POV THEN IT DOES MAKE SENSE...ANANDI TILL THE LAST MINUTE THOUGHT THAT JAGYA WOULD NEVER LEAVE HER AND WHEN SHE WILL BE WITH HIM IN MUMBAI EVERYTHING WOULD BE ALRIGHT...WHAT JAGYA DID WAS EXTREMELY UNEXPECTED...WE HAVE SEEN DIVORCED CASES LIKE THEM IN CITY BUT ANANDI NEVER SAW ANY ELDER IN HER LIFE DEAL WITH IT SO SHE REALLY DOES NOT KNOW...BUT MY PROBLEM IS ANANDI KNOWS THAT SHE IS LUCKY TO HAVE SHIV AND SINGHS IN HER LIFE...SHE KNOWS THAT SHE IS UNINTENTIONALLY HURTING SHIV...SHE TRUSTS SHIV THEN WHY IS SHE HAVING STILL HAVING TROUBLE...SHOULDN'T ALL THIS HAS BROUGHT SOME CONFIDENCEIN HER ...ANANDI IS LONG BACK OVER FROM THE PAIN JAGYA GAVE HER AND HAS MOVED ON BUT THIS INTIMACY PART IS CONFUSING AS SHE HAS MENTALLY ACCEEPTED IT THAT IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN SO WHY THIS DELAY !!!!!SHE HAS ACCEEPTED EVERYTHING YET SHE HAS HELD HER SELF WITH SOME INVISIBLE CHAIN
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@libsrocks : U are not understanding Anandi's POV :) Yes she trusts Shiv and knows how lucky she is to have a guy like her in her life and to have such in laws in the form of Shekhar's. but the problem is HERSELF, like she told Shiv in their conversation previously. Stop for a minute and think, if a little girl was saddled with in laws and a hubby since she was a child and was told to do everything which pleases him and her in laws, and that that same hubby keeps insulting and humiliating her and then cheats on her with another woman, any woman self esteem would shatter into pieces, and self esteem is like a mirror, once its broken, it can be pieced together but it would never be the same, because for it to be new again, you would have to emerge as a new person altogether, and we can see Anandi trying to be that new person, but your emotional scars doesn't heal in a day or weeks or even months, it takes a lot of time, especially for a women who was emotionally scarred from a very tender age after she was emotionally tortured. Anandi has just recently gathered herself, has gained new confidence when she was made the sarpanch and also dealt with her divorce, but fate gave her another emotional blow when her mom passed away, which again left her emotionally drained. She needs to become confident about herself and she will with time and that too not much time, especially with the way Shiv is being patient with her. Its not easy for a women who has been humiliated and told again and again that she is not desirable, to suddenly realize and accept that yes there is someone who desires and wants her. She would be scared with just that thought that Shiv who constantly tells her how beautiful she, might be disappointed in her when they do become physically intimate.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

This TRP twist may change AnSh story totally. There will be small towns where people think woman differently, so BV may scrap the idea of successful divorcee marriage and reunite JaAn keeping Anandi pure from Shiv, to maintain TRP. My POV - BV is delaying and keeping tracks open to make U turn.


Na na, that won't go down well at all, audience will feel cheated with such a reversal, pavitrata be damned. Also she may have crossed the line of pining for Jagya. That she has lost all her confidence has nothing to do with her, it is what the Director of the serial wants us to see. What reason could there be for her to lose confidence?But tears. self pity and wallowing in the thought that she is the most dukhi aurat does not go hand in hand with happiness in bed. She would rather remain dukhi.

But CVs supported by very siilly writers and Director have brought this upon us and can change direction and make Anandi the strong character that she once was. But CVs has to see what revulsion it is causing to the viewers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hav posted this in other thread reposting it here

frigidness is a psycatric problem...sometime even normal ppl get it due to some trauma or fear...I hav read abt ppl who get frigid just at the thought of intimacy coz they think first time will be painful altough they love their husbands but they just have this deep fear...
its a silly reason but ppl do get it.
some ppl get into depression for no aparent reason...all logic and reasoning fails...they need proper counselling to get back to normal.So wat they r showing abt anandi is not something extraordinary.
In anandi's case i think she has insecurity and inferiority complex of not being a virgin or good enough for Shiv...Hence this fear.
Probably she is not even aware wat her fears are...I hope CVs show this matter in a good way...instead of presurising and taunting her she shld be given counselling...its not incurable.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nniks

I hav posted this in other thread reposting it here

frigidness is a psycatric problem...sometime even normal ppl get it due to some trauma or fear...I hav read abt ppl who get frigid just at the thought of intimacy coz they think first time will be painful altough they love their husbands but they just have this deep fear...
its a silly reason but ppl do get it.
some ppl get into depression for no aparent reason...all logic and reasoning fails...they need proper counselling to get back to normal.So wat they r showing abt anandi is not something extraordinary.
In anandi's case i think she has insecurity and inferiority complex of not being a virgin or good enough for Shiv...Hence this fear.
Probably she is not even aware wat her fears are...I hope CVs show this matter in a good way...instead of presurising and taunting her she shld be given counselling...its not incurable.


May be you are right, most likely you are. But to show such counselling in a village set up? Also how many viewers apart from city dwellers will empathize with or understand Counselling
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yash.Pal



<font size="1">May be you are right, most likely you are. But to show such counselling in a village set up? Also how many viewers apart from city dwellers willempathizewith or understand Counselling</font>


its high time tht they start understanding...instead of taunting n pressurising a victim...since bv is all abt social message this will be a very good social message.
they already hav IVF lab a big hospital in jaitser ...they shld be having some psycatrist too ;-)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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