Anandi's CONFESSION? - Page 2

Thats not surprising . You always manage to find some or the other fault in Anandi 😊 . So its fine.

I did not want to criticize Anandi in this thread (telling this for the second time who still did not get it)- I just did not agree that her expression or her dialog can be taken as confession...if someone's different opinion is not acceptable to some people, then in my humble opinion it is better, not to visit the threads where they can expect a different opinion (for the same reason, I do not visit certain people's thread and nor I try to convince or change their views)

I do not believe in personal attack - but certain people are continuously doing so to me with their far fetched imagination and projecting their personal thought process as my opinion. For example: I have never talked about Anandi consummating with Shiv without love - I only wanted she should have openly communicated this to him before he can assume anything before marriage. Yet there are some people who constantly campaigned that I am not happy because Anandi did not consummate with Shiv immediately after marriage. The same people keep telling about me that I will also have problem and find fault if ever Anandi consummates while I have not even uttered a word about the consummation. And yes, I will have problem with Anandi if she ever does so if I find that she was still hanging on her past baggage.

People who are bashing me for criticizing their favorite character Anandi - I sincerely hope they maintain the same code of conduct when they criticize some one else's favorite character (which can be Gauri, Jagiya etc.)

That's what I am doing- thanking you for your POV which cleared our perceptions about the scene.

Rather yes I did hate Jagya and his actions because of what he did to two women. Who's life he had spoilt.

So in my complains there is one clear cut truth that I have always said and people can pull out posts from past ...day one that I have said that Gauri had psychological issues due to the child hood trauma. It was her childhood victimization that was trigged for her to behave the way she did.

I have always called her a victim. I have always said that she is Better off without Jagya. I have never called her really really bad names except for one time when she told jagya that she should put adultery charge on Anandi so that they could get divorce. So YES i do maintain what i have said.

But what I am complaining about is...of the constant...continuous... demeaning statements about Anandi's character. Yes there are two sides to every coin but ...then if thats true why are her efforts not praised?

The people who criticize Anandi...actually criticize her...they also talk about her achievements. They talk about her statements constructively. Just like how when Gauri did good with Shivani (saving her), thinking about her career, worrying about jagya and finding job for him sot hat he could get his cork on his ego, they appreciated...

...but I am not talking about those members...

Cause those members are reasonable

I am taking about members who open topic with one thing in mind and that is to criticize and demean even at the most positive things that A might do.

No one said she confessed her feelings to shiv. Even if acc. to TM if it was for Nathu was she deaf? she heard Shiv's name. If she still does cover up so what? ... At least she has taken steps towards positive relationship.

Why are those not appreciated. And when I ask that... what do i get in response... you cannot force anyone to like anyone. Or you cannot demand sympathy.

Yes that is true... but if one is to criticize then one also needs to appreciate. If only criticism is done then there is something wrong in that picture.

ANd whats clear is ..the person who finds faults and only faults naturally does not like the person whom he is finding fault. And if they do it continuously under the pretense of POV's, then they have to also answer for their one sided opinions (especially if they hurt the sentiments of the fans)