my view on the 8th january episode - Page 2

Agree with Jack. I wouldn't give that much importance to someone who treated me like dirt for almost half a decade. Anandi is one crazy chick who does not know her own mind, and who is selfish beyond belief. She knew her new inlaws wanted sometime with thier son and bahu before holiday over for shiv. But she is so happy to go back to meet her family. I would have presumed being a good mahaan bahu she should at least have tried to stop shiv...but no its all about her and her family's wishes, needs and desires and to hell with the rest! I have actually decided to stop watching this drama...am hooked to you guys on the forum...thats why come here to check out your views!

Originally posted by: Missesha

At TM,

Agree with you on the last 3 points that you have highlighted as mistake from CV.

Yes whatever A's past may have been, she chose to move on with Shiv, so she needs to justice to him and his family.

She cannot do justice if she does not take efforts. It's high time now she starts taking efforts and interest in Shiv. Even if it is tiny bits like making his fav dish, or spending time, crack jokes, give gifts etc. Then only she will start developing the type of liking for him which is nedeed in this relationship. And then gradually she can feel intimate about him.

Yes it's time Shiv stops proving how understanding he is and let A prove, how much she admires this relationship. I am hopeful that CVs will show us that soon.

Originally posted by: jack0007

todays episode was quite good.. it did answer many of our questions but it also created some..

this no suhaag raat track by cvs is probably to make the show more realistic n to elongate the ansh story..

going by what was shown (rather told by anandi)--anandi really wants to move on with her life ,accept n love shiv (we never saw her try) but she is being held back by her past..

she doesnt know why but everytime when shiv tries to get close to her , her past moments with jagya crop up in her mind..

cvs have shown anandi as very realistic n not mahaan...

to every woman (even man) her first (real) love/first time is extremely special ..it even makes more sense in anandi's case.. jagya was the only guy she knew (well) she loved him more than anything on earth ...he was the only one for her..

n imagining shiv in his place has really been difficult for her..

anandi's situation reminds me of a well known movie THE NOTEBOOK.. where the female protagonist was not able to forget her first love..

anandi made a resolution to herself that she will forget all her past memories when she dumped jagya's memories in the river .. she tried her best but those memories just tend to crop up..

dont know why but chotima's words are echoing in my ears--

'yaadein hawaa ki tarah hoti hein ...'..at that point anandi dint understand the significance of the words but she would realize it now..

if for a moment we forget that anandi is mahaan n brave n etc her behaviour is completely acceptable..she tried to a do good thing ,tried to move on but has failed at the last big hurdle..

we all make resolutions n fail to stick to them...

yeah its a small mistake from this point of view..but keeping shivs life in perspective its appears a crime..even this crime did not occur by mistake or chance.. anandi had fears that she might not be able to love shiv..i sincerely want cvs to show anandi trying ..rather than showing how great n understanding shiv is..her first step could be --always try n address shiv by his name

i think cvs missed some points-

if anandi actually had no feelings for jagya at present ...then her memories of her intimate moment with jagya should disgust her (bcoz they r blocking her future) ..but instead she is shown a bit disguted at shiv's advances..

another point is the voiceover

in a second marriage situation is the husband solely responsible for making the marriage work..

wife has equal responsibility in getting over her past/past memories n trying to love her new husband..

another --

did ne1 else notice that shiv was a bit disgusted when anandi told that her mother would be most happy..(or was it just me imagining) y does anandi have to remind shiv that she married him only bcoz of her promise..i know her motive was different but she (i.e cvs) must be careful