Don't spoil anandi character - Page 2

Understand now her situation but at least happy to rah sakti hens.ab uske sath shiv jeisa hubby he.

Originally posted by: Mikey21

Understand now her situation but at least happy to rah sakti hens.ab uske sath shiv jeisa hubby he.

Kamal hay... Uski smile, uski ease, uski body language clearly expressing she is much more comfortable and happy... R u guys watching BV with different glasses :O
Any girl would be confused about having sex straight away it takes long to me to adjust physically with my husband... How could anyone expect this from an eastern girl to jump over on the man first night???

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

True reshmiroy2012. Anandi was always an obedient DIL. She should have taken an initiative to move to Mumbai when jagya was studying. When she can make so many changes in the vilage she could have fought with ds to go to mumbai. She was always hesitant for the changes jagya wanted in her. How much good ur with ur in laws but at the end of the day it's ur relationship with ur husband which is more important. I hope cv try to get a message that a marriage works when both the couple put in 100%.

dont jump to conclusion without watching the episode.Anandi was very much intrested in moving to mumbai...it was jagya who opposed it...first he said he stayed in a boys hostel hence could not keep anandi with him.The actual truth was he didnt want to reveal his married status to his frns.
After mbbs during ms the singhs had decided to send anandi with jagya...tht time he was already involved with gauri he again made execuse of not finding suitable house.
Anandi always gave 100% to her marriage n she was open for changes in suitable situations.marriage needs commitment frm both sides not just frm wife's side.did jagya ever tried to modernise her?
he only rediculed her n destroyed her self esteem...i wonder how can someone support such guy

Originally posted by: Mikey21

Understand now her situation but at least happy to rah sakti hens.ab uske sath shiv jeisa hubby he.

r u married?
have u been in an arranged marriage situation?
first night is very intimidating exp for any girl...wat shld anandi do start jumping n dancing in happiness?
she is just scared...once ansh hav their talks she'll be fine...

nniks@ vese me apni personal life share karna Nahi chahti ye public forum me but apke answer dene ke liye kahna padta he .i am married .mine bhi divorce liya tha aur shadi bhi bachelor guy se ki he. Mere husband ne meri ek bhi aise wish Nahi ki Jo usne puri na ki ho .choti ho ya badi.i am totaly happy with kids. Me ye Nahi kahti ki use phale hi di jump kar dena chahiye. Anandi ko time to chahiye but sabke sath smiley rahana dheere dheere hota he but uske liye use responce dena chahiye.

@suchi-virmanian n nniks

I agree too...Indian telly CV's really are of regressive mindset. You see this happening across all channels where despite adultery committed by husband, the wife can't forget him...

@jack nowdays most ppl dont get married by seeing a photograph everybody gets time to interact and mix with the in laws.
everybody reacts to situation in a diff way...anandi is feeling scared which I find normal for her...she has yet to realise her love...She n shiv never discussed their married life before n she dosent know wat his expectations are so she is scared.
I am sure after their talk she will be at ease...infcat she looked pretty at ease in the precap...she was not scared or irritated just busy looking for alarm clocks.

Dear All Anandi lovers, we are not asking her to jump into bed. But her expression is like she is so sad, and she wants to keep her away from her hubby. This is just height of selfishness. Why did this lady marry if she is so confused. Madam epitome of perfection, takes care of everyone's happiness but why so kanjusi when it is her hubby. She can at least make a straight face and speak out to him. Shiv will never force her. You know she is fit for that gaon, gaonwallo and her favourite Singh family, In no marriage a bride feels so depressed on her first night though she may be scared. It is shiv's fault too, he is being so stupid at her fakeness, he could not understand what a nightmare she will be for his entire life. Collector saab ko desh seva karni ki bhut chhai hein. This mahanta ki devi should leave his new life, go back to DS and stay with Jagya her ek bar ki pyar and share gouri;s child and jagya's new love. She will find her true happiness. She is just a shame to woman.