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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 12 years ago

#91

Vedo - no idea what is love🤣, so how am I supposed to know if Shiv is exhibiting its symptoms... I juss find it odd...one moment Mr. Sensitive next he's in Mars or is it Venus? And the smile is getting OLD!

DramaQueen - kya kare...aaj kaal mera mood is extra mercurial😆 maybe am becoming J like

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Appy - I almost put ur name on the post when I asked the questions...but, wasn't sure you were online. Am in a "reflective" frame of mind😆 Agree with you about AnSh - loved your "Their journey is all about how they express their love for each other as they discover each other."

So, you think we need hubbies to experience, understand, and express it? Hmmm! I ve serious doubts about my capacity. Theory is fine, but practically i don't think so.

My belief is that in marriage what starts of as honoring a commitment ends up as a loving relationship which grows only stronger as time passes by.

I suppose I am a great believer in arranged marriages and love after marriage.

My sister's is an arranged marriage.My brother in law who was on student visa in US at the time came on a holiday checking out the prospective girls his parents lined up for him.He came and saw her.The visit lasted all of 10 mins.Both sets of parents were ok with it He just wanted to meet her one more time before he could make up his mind but he was told by his parents to decide before he met her.So that's how he decided to get married to my sister and my sister decided that she is going to marry whoever my parents decided.

Today after 15 years of marriage they are very much in love couple who were strangers when they were married.More importantly he is her best friend.I suppose all good marriages are like that.

People find it difficult to believe that they never even said hi to each other before they agreed to marry.

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Annadi is starting off with honouring a comittment and he is starting with love.In the end it will be love from both sides.

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Vishakha_Sakhi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: VerboseG

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It totally is, in the 1st phases, before reality bites u in the butt

I read u saw D2... wasn't it grand?

G meri jaan! 🤗 Why does reality HAVE to bite?! 😔 😆

Yup I saw it today...it was superb! 😆 😳 Pandeyji ka koi jawaab nahin!

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 12 years ago

#94

Appy - you changed your tagline...I like it.

One of my reasons for doubt is around me I see a lot of both types of marriage and none all to successful... just miserable or bored peeple co-existing for a myriad of reasons including taxes😆 Love seems rather larger than life, kitaabi, or simply rare. Or maybe its me missing the omniscient care

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: umam
You wanted me to answer that question??When I logged on I saw that post.😆
Their journey is all about how they express their love for each other as they discover each other.
Realisation on her part is all about is how making him happy makes her gives her happiness.
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Do we know about it?😕
The only semi serious relationship I had definitely did not make me feel that way.
May be like Anandi we need to be in the situation to feel it and experience it and express it.
I do not understand this falling in love and saying I love.I can not relate to it.
Loving a husband I can understand and relate to.

Aparna - that is beautiful 😊 -- Don't know what plans CVs have in mind in their interpretation of the Ansh journey, but hoping that your thoughts get reflected in their onscreen journey

I am only saying it from what I understood of the two characters A and S.It is my projection for the future of AnSh based on what they showed and the characterisation of A nad S. I may be wrong.

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Vishakha_Sakhi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#96

Today Daddu said there'll be lots of romantic dances in GPA...wouldn't it be funny of they show the Shekhars (including AnSh) watching SidYusha's performance? 😆 😆 Feel free to ignore my silliness! 🤣

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 12 years ago

#97

@Vedo - if they had sense-o-execution...they should cut-paste GPA as...AnSh watching and Shiv dreaming with SidYusha number🤣🤣🤣

@Appy - most likely what you are describing is what they will show...caring is AnSh's language of love...their means of expression that only the other will understand.

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VerboseG

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Posted: 12 years ago

#98

Appy,

Your sister's story and mine are very similar. Though my hubby and I had seen each other several times at occasions (we have a common relative), we had never spoken. Ours was a totally arranged marriage. We just met once in Mumbai after his mother suggested it. However, we had a 6-mth-long telephonic affair 😳, where we were able to discuss anything and everything under the sun! It has been 19 years now (touch on wood) and we are, apart from all that the relationship entails, best friends forever😳. What works for us is that, despite our ages, we have remained young at heart.

Anjana, it is true that very many relationships seem to be in a state of ennui. Perhaps that's because of lifestyles, low fuses, high expectations, and low degrees of tolerance. The bubble bursts fast. However, there is hope, when both parties work at making their relationship strong.

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Vishakha_Sakhi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#99

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
@Vedo - if they had sense-o-execution...they should cut-paste GPA as...AnSh watching and Shiv dreaming with SidYusha number🤣🤣🤣

@Appy - most likely what you are describing is what they will show...caring is AnSh's language of love...their means of expression that only the other will understand.

Now that would be swweeet to watch! If only huh?! 😆 😆

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Appy - you changed your tagline...I like it.

One of my reasons for doubt is around me I see a lot of both types of marriage and none all to successful... just miserable or bored peeple co-existing for a myriad of reasons including taxes😆 Love seems rather larger than life, kitaabi, or simply rare. Or maybe its me missing the omniscient care

I was fortunate that I had the experience of watching 3 very successful arranged marriages from close quarters my parents, my sister's and my brother'sI 've seen the amount of effort that is put into making marriages and relationships work.

Me being single I used to believe that all marriages were like this and all couples had a relationship like this esp my parents.But I was told by my relatives and friends that what my parents had was very special.

Most of my relatives also live in unhappy marriages.

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I had that tag line for a long time.

Other day we had a long discussion whether A should initiate or not.

People felt it will be unfair to Shiv if she offered to consummate Shiv.

But my argument against it is she is not doing injustice to S if she makes this offer.

Based on what I said so far.

What do you thik about it.?