A SIGN OF TROUBLE IN ANSH'S MARRIAGE? - Page 2

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

It is a balance between maika and sasural. For Anandi, singh is maika. She will have the challenge and some how deal with it. All girls balance between mayka and sasural. Singhs are ok - particularly Bhairon and Sumi will see that she does not ignore her new sasural. DS - I am not sure, may be initially she will be selfish then she will realise and be on right track.
Anyway AnSh will be in Jaitsar after the rituals so it may not be a diifficult task to take care of singhs.
They will be visitor to Udaipur. And only when Shiv gets transferred they will move out or by then J will be back with Sriti.
An has been an ideal bahu, BV most likely will not make her fall from expectation. But if sekhars become unhappy, it will be good, An will learn the heard way that she has to be practical and reasonable or she will loose out of herr new life.
Jagya always create trouble knowingly and unknowingly. This time for his won re discovery he will bring trouble for Anandi again. He will find his new love and Anandi to fulfill her duty will again face problems (?). Jagya will never let An be happy.
I do not know may on Suhag Raat only she comes to know and DS becomes ill again and she has to rush back to havelian d shiv as usual will will be supporting her. One more ghisa pita drama.

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

Anandi is the most ideal bahu i have ever seen. She was taught by her first in-laws(the Singh's) that parents become secondary after marriage...and that was how she always behaved. Even when J ditched her, she chose not to go to her parents.Now that the singh's have become her parents...they might not get that much attention from Anandi 😔!

Yes, from her side she will try her best. But I am not too sure about DS, sometimes she become quite psycho and now jagya also left her. She will still try to hold back to Anandi. Anandi is quite obliged to her ex in laws, and it is quite natural. Because if they have thrown her out she would have never have been where she is now. So she will take care of them. And there is nothing wrong. Now a days even after marriage daughters take responsibility and son in law supports. So there is nothing wrong in it.

Originally posted by: chumki...

i don't understand one thing... why some people r always try to think that there will be prob in anandi's life after marrage...infact if i remember coreectly in sugna's time also so manny people were so sure that "shyam" was going to turn negetive... but thatnever happend...

anyway who r not marraied unki baat chor dete hai but who r marraid they all know that girls have to balance between maika and sasural., bahut kam larkiyaa hoti hai jin ki yeh mushkil face nahi karni parti hogi... as"reshmiroy 2012" said...anandi know that how to handle relationship... aur sab se ahem baat...aaj hur koi keh raha hai ki anandi kitni najo se pali hai sasural... lekin koi yeh na bhule ki when she was marraid how strict dadisa was with her... aur jahan taq "anandi ka sawal hai... and more important BV ka sawal hai ...unhone hume dusre serial se alag dikhaya hai... and shiv anandi's is relation is like "krishna-arjun"... what ever will come they will both handle it...yehi dikhane ki koshish ker rahe hai BV wale shiv-anandi ke relation me...jis tarah unhone "syam-sugna" ka dikhaya tha...

Anandi has always been a perfect DIl rather than a Daughter So singhs will become secondary...

Originally posted by: Shinya

Oh yeah! We all know what good care anandi took of her own parents. Her poor mother died without medical treatment. Not once did she visit her parents to see how they were doing.

And now she will be an epitome of a perfect daughter and a perfect daughter-in-law !

Who wants to believe this new crap?

Yeah, she has been quite ignorant about her own parents. I also do not understand the reason- is it that they were not as affluent as the Singh.
This is also she was moulded by the Singhs to stay as an ideal DIL. Now if she repeats her behavoiur, then her priority will be her in laws.

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Yes, from her side she will try her best. But I am not too sure about DS, sometimes she become quite psycho and now jagya also left her. She will still try to hold back to Anandi. Anandi is quite obliged to her ex in laws, and it is quite natural. Because if they have thrown her out she would have never have been where she is now. So she will take care of them. And there is nothing wrong. Now a days even after marriage daughters take responsibility and son in law supports. So there is nothing wrong in it.

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

@bold - Anandi might have found a way to be where she is now if the Singh's had not supported her. Their support just made it a little easier for her. While DS suppressed anandi in every way possible which lead to anandi's troubles. Anandi was just too kind to blame DS for her troubles.

DS can't play her games all the time...she has to follow what she preached. in fact i don't think she will call Anandi back ... this is just her temporary frustration which shows that she is missing Anandi and her ginger tea!

Here it is not about right and wrong. In my opinion the girls parents need as much care as the guys parents need. But here Anandi was used to treat her in-laws as hers...and her parents as the outsiders...so going by that she should be taking care of the shekar's...and should stop worrying about the Singh's. Actually the Singh's are not bed-ridden people who need care. So i don't think they will expect that from Anandi either.

@Goldie
You are rationale. But DS is not - she becomes vague at times. Will see how Anandi handles her DS post marriage. DS is all jagya and she is missing Anandi's seva not Anandi. But i feel a bit vague even Nandu is her grandson - why does not she concentrate on Nandu. And both An and Sugana are the daughters, so why does not she call Sugana for her seva. T

Originally posted by: Shinya

Oh yeah! We all know what good care anandi took of her own parents. Her poor mother died without medical treatment. Not once did she visit her parents to see how they were doing.

And now she will be an epitome of a perfect daughter and a perfect daughter-in-law !

Who wants to believe this new crap?