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balika vadhu in my opinion is the most unique telivision show... they are consistent in the message they try to portray... we all know ki bal vivah is a forceful act which brought lots of hardships for anandi,... so this time bv cvs portray that anandi is herself happily getting ready to marry shiv ... in other serials it is always shown that whenever a remarriage of girl is done it is always forceful, due to pressure, or contract, and after marriage only initial hatred slowly start developing into love... but bv cvs have been different n this case ... you know jab ansh ki wedding date fixed ki gai thi then i was angry ki they have fixed the date so late, ie after 4 months.. but i know that the main motive of the cvs for this is to portray that this time anandi is not gonna marry a guy chosen by her parents and indulge into a forceful marriage... they tried to show ki marriages should be done when maturity strikes in you and you are able to understand true meaning of a relationship...in other serials, generally physical intimacy or heroes' super hero act in rescuing heroine bring a couple doing second marriage closer, but bv cvs showed that love can blossom even before mariage...they gave anandi full liberty to coose her life partner ... shiv also several times asked anandi that if she wants to go back , she has his full permission... but anandi is mature and intelligent enough to see and analyse that who is the best life partner for her and with whom she wants to spend the rest of her life... there was no super mahaan acts done by shiv for anandi except to be fully supportive of her, helping her in coming out of her past by creating new and beautiful memories for her... and thats what brought anandi closer to shiv and thats what didnt made her change her mind evevn when jagiya was tring to get her back...
the promo they showed earlier ki , NA SHRINGAR KA MATLAB JANTI THI, NA SHADI KA:,
it was so apt that earlier in bal vivah she didnt know what was real meaning of marriage,.. she was happy at that time thinking to get new clothes , mithai.. but today she knows ki what marriag and e means.. what does ornaments mean for a bride...as she said in mehandi after talking to shiv "rang chad gaya", she knows ki these shringar , mehandi , are all for the person who loves you the most... i love bv cvs for that ki unhone sahi message portray kiya by again not showing anandi being trapped into forceful marriage and i also wouldnt have liked ki anandi ko baad mein shiv se pyar hota kyunki that is what exactly happenend with jagiya... anandi herself mentioned ki jagiya aur use ek ghar mein rehne ko bachpan mein majboor kar diya.. and itne samamy uske saath bitane se pyar hone swabhavik tha.. but it didnt happen like that with shiv... usne shiv ke saath time bitaya, use jana , pehchana, uski achai dekhi, and then only she realised ki her affection with jagiya was just an illusion...
thank you cvs to be so different ...👏👏👏
