Anandi: Honestly get a grip!!

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SOme people have issues, (roll eyes) that Anandi should not have been upset with Shiv because he was 'acting' mahan when she was mahan herself all her life!???

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This is how I see this issue as to Why Anandi was hurt today and does she have the right to do so?

It is amazing that the people who say Anandi did not open up her mouth and were blaming her , today blame cause she actually opened her mouth and said things she was supposed to say!???

I am surprised at this biased behavior...Kahe tho mushkil chup rahe tho mushkil

thank youlets all go there

No one has blamed Anandi for today's speech, in fact I can only hear applause. She did it finally, yeah, let's celebrate.

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A can think that, the way S holds Ashima's hands in public is very intense or they know each other way better, or Shiv truely loves Ashima and he is tied to Anandi with their engagement, S's hapiness lies with Ashima etc.

Will A call both families and declare that A and S are incompatible, She relaized it now. She can not marry Shiv. Or will she talk/blast/advice/whatever Shiv in private and then decide what to do?

But I do not agree with one line...''she thanked him in the end'' do you believe it was thanks ya kataksh 😆 ...he bhagwan aisa thanks kisis ko na mile

when Anandi thought that AShima and Shiv were involved, she was not involved with him

In fact she got angry that he could even think about her when he might hurt a friend of his.

But , did her actions just now not prove that Anandi would not act in that manner unless , it is guaranteed that two people are in love with each other?

Anandi very well knows that ashi loves Shiv but shiv does not. So she has gracefully accepted that and moved on with shiv.

Anandi stepped away from gauri and jagya because jagya loved/loves gauri and gauri loved/loves jagya. So she took herself out of the equation.

In case of Ashima and Shiv, it was one sided and she knows that now. She knew that Ashima is in love with shiv. No matter what Ashima said, she knows whats the reality and I am sure at one point this point will come up and Ashima will tell Anandi that they belong each together. No sacrifices will be made by Anandi nor she would do such a thing.

Anandi always hurts herself but she has always stood up for her family. You think if gauri was in love with Jagya and jagya never loved Gauri and was trying to get away form her but Gauri was coming on to Jagya all the time , Anandi would just give her way in ????

No way, she would have kicked her behind and told her to get away from her life.

She would not sacrifice jagya for gauri in such case. Its only when she realized she is no longer in the picture she let go.

We get upset and feel hurt, only by the people who mean something to us...She was not hurt by Jagya because he meant nothing to her...But she was hurt by Shiv, because he was everything to her...Her friend, a person she trusted once again, the person she respected and the person she started dreaming her future with...So, she has every right to feel hurt and get angry on him for what he did...! Under this situation, she expected him as a friend, as a person who trusted her as much as she did, to go to her and ask her what she wanted...Instead of announcing to call of the wedding...So, it is very clear why she was hurt and angry only on Shiv...!

Yes that is the difference between A's S's mahantha. S assumed that A has feelings for J. A didnot assume anything regarding J or G. She just let things to follow their natural course of action. I feel Anandi has every right to get cross with S. But I'm sure A will forgive him for this single mistake. More than A, S should introspect why he chose to believe a liar's words.

Anandi should introspect what is her equation with Singh's family. It is time to leave DS and co and make own nest.