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With this new promo that till now other ppl have decided anandi's future they have conveniently turned anandi into a victim.
Excuse me, what about all the work she has done till now. Her village, her school, the fight for asha etc etc. Anandi always stood her ground and did what she wanted to. This all is also a part of her life. Even with jagya, agreed the child marriage was forced on her but who told her to stick around jagya even after gauri and help him at every stage? That was her decision. The rest of the family broke off with jagya, she was the only one who atuck around taking crap from him and gauri.
Dadisa wanted her to get married again. But no one forced her to do so. Shiv agreed to the marriage but once she made clear that she wasn not interested, he backed off gracefully. She was the one who went to him and told him to marry her. And what a wonderful proposal she made - i dont want to ever get married but since i have the mahanta disease pls marry me. After the rishta, all the decions have been solely hers. Let jagya stay, let jagya get accepted beck in the family. No need to understand what shiv is going through. Just make a pained expression after every stupid decision and of course "collector saab " will undrstand.
Is it really shiv's fault that he has finally snapped and started questioning what is in anandi's heart? How much more indifference can a guy tolerate? She does not hurt him by being rude, she hurts him by not giving a damn. Some ppl are saying that she should leave both shiv and jagya? Why? Shiv stuck around, cared for her, accepted all of her stupid hurtful decisions regarding jagya. When after all this time, he needs some sort of validation, some sort of sign that she cares about him - now she should ditch him because how dare he like any normal person crave a little bit of love from his life partner. His paib, his insecurities are apparently not important.
Anandi like any person has had some decisions being taken by others, some she has taken herself, some are right but some have also been wrong. So can we stop trying to potray her like a victim. She is a strong wonan who has made her share of mistakes.
Excuse me, what about all the work she has done till now. Her village, her school, the fight for asha etc etc. Anandi always stood her ground and did what she wanted to. This all is also a part of her life. Even with jagya, agreed the child marriage was forced on her but who told her to stick around jagya even after gauri and help him at every stage? That was her decision. The rest of the family broke off with jagya, she was the only one who atuck around taking crap from him and gauri.
Dadisa wanted her to get married again. But no one forced her to do so. Shiv agreed to the marriage but once she made clear that she wasn not interested, he backed off gracefully. She was the one who went to him and told him to marry her. And what a wonderful proposal she made - i dont want to ever get married but since i have the mahanta disease pls marry me. After the rishta, all the decions have been solely hers. Let jagya stay, let jagya get accepted beck in the family. No need to understand what shiv is going through. Just make a pained expression after every stupid decision and of course "collector saab " will undrstand.
Is it really shiv's fault that he has finally snapped and started questioning what is in anandi's heart? How much more indifference can a guy tolerate? She does not hurt him by being rude, she hurts him by not giving a damn. Some ppl are saying that she should leave both shiv and jagya? Why? Shiv stuck around, cared for her, accepted all of her stupid hurtful decisions regarding jagya. When after all this time, he needs some sort of validation, some sort of sign that she cares about him - now she should ditch him because how dare he like any normal person crave a little bit of love from his life partner. His paib, his insecurities are apparently not important.
Anandi like any person has had some decisions being taken by others, some she has taken herself, some are right but some have also been wrong. So can we stop trying to potray her like a victim. She is a strong wonan who has made her share of mistakes.
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