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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: A2ZVictory

You have said it so well Tina. Just want to add one thing - In the real world - when a man comes back many a times he is accepted back because the society does not give a woman a second chance. Men get many chances compared to a woman.
In light of Anandi, even if Shiv was not in the equation would Anandi have behaved differently?


Anna, Why do you say man comes back & is accepted?? Who accepts him ...the very woman whose dignity he has thrown in tatters. If the woman accepts the man after all the acid reflux under societal pressure then it is her fault. Why will a man get chances & not woman? If we woman change our mind set, be strong and raise our girl child well the dynamics of the world will surely change šŸ˜‰šŸ˜ˆ.

Coming to Anandi even if Shiv was not in the picture...She would never have accepted Jagia back. Anandi has loved Jagiya whole heatedly and has been deceived & cheated wholeheartedly by him.But she still hoped against hope and so continued loving him, because she wanted to love him as she didn't know anything apart from loving him from the age of 8! But what did she get in return his insult, lies about extra-marital affair & abuses which hurt her beyond repair. So if she accepts him back she'll be compromising with her self-respect which will not be possible for a self respecting girl like Anandi.






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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 5cents


Anna, Why do you say man comes back & is accepted?? Who accepts him ...the very woman whose dignity he has thrown in tatters. If the woman accepts the man after all the acid reflux under societal pressure then it is her fault. Why will a man get chances & not woman? If we woman change our mind set, be strong and raise our girl child well the dynamics of the world will surely change šŸ˜‰šŸ˜ˆ.

Coming to Anandi even if Shiv was not in the picture...She would never have accepted Jagia back. Anandi has loved Jagiya whole heatedly and has been deceived & cheated wholeheartedly by him.But she still hoped against hope and so continued loving him, because she wanted to love him as she didn't know anything apart from loving him from the age of 8! But what did she get in return his insult, lies about extra-marital affair & abuses which hurt her beyond repair. So if she accepts him back she'll be compromising with her self-respect which will not be possible for a self respecting girl like Anandi.

@ bold, I agree its the woman's fault in accepting him back. But there are many dynamics that play a part. Parental pressure, kids, economic pressures.
I have seen it happening many a times. Times are changing but we have a long way to go before we acheive complete gender equality. What we see in BV is what it should be in the perfect world. We have still not created the perfect world as yet. We have a long way to go. Each of us has to play our bit and not take crap - be it from our father's brothers or spouses.
Anandi has raised her self to such a pedestal that Jagya can never reach her. I want my fellow women to raise them selves to that level too, but unforfunaterly its not happening at a pace, I would want it to happen.
I hope I was able to explain clearly.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anna, so true in India there still exists society where woman is treated as a maid & a doll to physically play with, where a sixteen yr old innocent girl is made to marry forty yr old divorcee, where woman is not allowed to undergo tubectomy even after five deliveries till she gives birth to a male child, where sex determination & killing of female fetus is still prevalent😭. Yes this is serious male domination & has to be dealt with strictly , the key being woman's Education, self respect, self preservation , confidence & courage to rise PLUS parental support!!!

We women are more patient , more tolerant & more strong ...woman is symbol of thatšŸ‘šŸ¼...!! But we should never get abused in the name of sanskar and parmpara!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completely ridiculous topic. Only attention seeking post. Members, please don't waste your time writing sensible replies to such an insensible topic!
My answer would be- Hahahahahhahaha. That's it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 5cents

Anna, so true in India there still exists society where woman is treated as a maid & a doll to physically play with, where a sixteen yr old innocent girl is made to marry forty yr old divorcee, where woman is not allowed to undergo tubectomy even after five deliveries till she gives birth to a male child, where sex determination & killing of female fetus is still prevalent😭. Yes this is serious male domination & has to be dealt with strictly , the key being woman's Education, self respect, self preservation , confidence & courage to rise PLUS parental support!!!


We women are more patient , more tolerant & more strong ...woman is symbol of thatšŸ‘šŸ¼...!! But we should never get abused in the name of sanskar and parmpara!!!

Tina, the probem in India is more serious than many countires in the world. The want for a male child is very prevalent in China too. The level of seriousness differs in different countries.
Woman's education coupled with economic independence is the key. I know women who are MBBS but are not practising because family does not want too practise.
"We women are more patient , more tolerant & more strong ...woman is symbol of thatšŸ‘šŸ¼...!! But we should never get abused in the name of sanskar and parmpara!!!"
Lets us not make our biggest strength our biggest weakness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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who the hell is jajya to get anandi back? Anandi will never accept jagya.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why would Anandi even think to go back to a loser, cheater, abuser, disgusting Jagiya?
And wasn't it Jagiya who was screaming "Anandi tumse mera Intezaar nahi Hua" 🤢 Disgusting. What was he thinking that he will live with Gauri and raise children and still Anandi should keep waiting for him even after divorce...Heights of Expectations!!! 😔 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ridiculous😔😔😔. When jagya was asking his so called MAAFI from anandi, he told that he had left Gawari and came back here by thinking dat he could rejoin wit his family and Anandi. He told dat.. so its clear its him who wanted Anandi back, so dat he can again lead his useless life royally. Khud to ek kaudi bhi kama nahi sakta hai, or sochta hai ki Anandi se badla lega😔. Anandi will never imagine to re unite wit Jagya even in her dreams, she'll prefer to be single than accepting him back🤢. I soo hope IF had a dislike option for postsšŸ‘ŽšŸ¼šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼,šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼,, this post would have made record denšŸ˜†.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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why are we even discussing this? why does it even matter what that scumbag will do or not?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There isno question of accepting Anandi back, because he lost that right...! And further to answer your question, he might also accept Anandi back if given a chance, because a jerk that he is, he would do anything for the luxury life he is so missing...The hospital he lost to someone else...The high status he lost...! He wouldn't look at Anandi's good nature, nor her being with shiv, when it comes to himself...He will only see his own selfish needs when it comes to accepting anything...He is just hopeless at least for now...!
Anandi's tears or happiness would never matter to him, as long as he gets what he wants...So, no use asking this question...Selfish people can do anything...! The just see their benifits...Nothing else matters...! Gauri and he match prfectly because they know how to use people for their own gains...!
Edited by vamita - 13 years ago

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