Anandi should have forgiven jagdish - Page 3

He is and away will remain a pighead

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

I suppose but I am just saying that Anandi could have been the bigger person!!

Anandi is a bigger person... she forgaveJagiya's all mistakes till now... Anandi might have forgiven Jagiya if she had thought his remorse was genuine and if he had not disrespected her mother. Anandi Forgave Jagiya for whatever he did to her but when it came to her mother she will never forgive him and neither can any child if someone disrespects their dead parents in a way Jagiya did.

i think she shouldn't forgive Jagya... the main and the best reason is that he insult her mother by coming to her house with BHABHUTI... no one in the world forgive someone who insult their mother at least not me and for Anandi ... her mother was dead so thats the really really insulting...

the way of asking maffi is the gr8est concern as maffi is not just maffi, it is inner core feeling of repentence not a word which he thinks will wash all his misdeeds

we expecting idiot box to be a good person he can never be a man with virtues only man with full ego and doing upper maffinam to enetr haveli nothing else ,the way he changed colours in front of dadisa means he is chameleon

It is Jagya's misconception that if Anandi forgives then the family will take him back. Why? He has not only failed Anandi,he failed his entire family. The family has denied him forgiveness. Did any one set a precondition that if Anandi forgives ,we will follow suit? No one from Singh's family said this. So why does he think that Anandi is the root cause of him not getting back his family? He,himself is the only cause. His sole problem is he himself. Did he not say to Bhairon that what all I did does not deserve any forgiveness? Then why blame Anandi?

I think you should have concentrated a bit more on the AnSh scene.One thing Shiv said so right - If she would have forgiven him then it cud only send the message that however wrong a son/a brother/a grandson can do...he will just be forgiven without any issues.Dont you think this kind of a message is too regressive for an already orthodox society like ours.Anandi has set the correct moral example here.As simple as that!

Originally posted by: Malika

I think you should have concentrated a bit more on the AnSh scene.One thing Shiv said so right = If she would have forgiven him then it cud only send the message that however wrong a son/a brother/a grandson can do...he will just be forgiven without any issues.Dont you think this kind of a message is too regressive for an already orthodox society like ours.Anandi has set the correct moral example here.As simple as that!

i agree completely that andi's not forgiving him was important in this deeply male patriarchal society of ours where men think its their right to break all norms, be completely self absorbed and selfish , and women should set the ideal example by forgiving always and allowing them to be taken back whenever they want to come back . Its almost like they think its their right , and women and wives in particular are doormats, have no self respect and no dignity, will be ridden over willy nilly by their husbands.

it was the manner in which he asked for forgiveness which took the cake- such arrogance and presumption - also why is it that we are still thinking of him getting his family back ?? why is it more his family than anandi's ? simply because anandi is not a blood relative?

Why should forgiving make one a bigger person...???😕...

You know These proverbs...

Forgive and forget...
Subah ka bhoola...
Forget not favour for others but for yourself..
forgiveness sets you free...

Are not just for saying...to implement too in real life..

This relieves not only our mind and help us to move on but also give other person the chance for redemption...
When Anandi's forgiveness was required the most,she didnt...why ?? bcoz she is not in relationship with him...

Yes jagya was always in fault..let him regret...