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vamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Jagya if really wanted forgiveness, would have not demanded it...He would have said sorry, irrespective of they forgive him or not and go away, saying I understand that you won't be able to forgive me, but I will wait if I have to wait for ever for the same...This simple sentence, would have shown a changed person, but as we saw, ego never let one win...Jagya if would have been truly guilty, he would have got forgiveness one day...! But he is selfish and doesn't think of anyone...That is the reason, there would have been no guaranttee that even if he would have been forgiven, he would have stopped at that...He would have wanted more than he has...! So, whatever happened is for the best...We all know that there is a possiblility that he would try to hurt Anandi, but Shiv is there with her now, and I am confident, that if there is honesty, love, respect and trust in relationship, no one can do anything...! Good will win over evil...!

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Nkapoor3

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: anu rulz

we can agree to disagree on this..being a bigger person is what made anandi look like a fool in the whole gauri-jagya-anandi saga..and high time the girl starts thinking abt herself..she has spent her entire lifetime catering to the whims and fancies of the singhs..be it jagya or DS..now its time to think abt herself, not be the bigger person..and in any case, i believe in "he cheated me once, shame on him..he cheated me again, shame on me".. jagya has crushed her belief so many times, if she beleived him now, it wud be her fault in not recognizing him as a person..my POV...

but like I said he was not trying to come back in anandi's life!!

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prerna4rishav

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
I suppose but I am just saying that Anandi could have been the bigger person!!

I understand what you mean, but why does she have to be bigger person with Jagya in the first place ? Gandhigiri doesnt work in today's world.. You have to adopt 'Tit-for-tat' policy hun..

Jagya deserves nothing .. absolutely nothing 😡 Talking about being a bigger person, well I want Anandi to lodge a police complaint that this person is disturbing her and want Anandi to have Jagya locked in Jail with the charge of cheating the marital spouse.. But alas I am not seeing Anandi doing any of those, so she seems MUCH MUCH bigger already than what she could have been with Jagya..

Dont u think so 😕

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vamita

@vamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: anu rulz

we can agree to disagree on this..being a bigger person is what made anandi look like a fool in the whole gauri-jagya-anandi saga..and high time the girl starts thinking abt herself..she has spent her entire lifetime catering to the whims and fancies of the singhs..be it jagya or DS..now its time to think abt herself, not be the bigger person..and in any case, i believe in "he cheated me once, shame on him..he cheated me again, shame on me".. jagya has crushed her belief so many times, if she beleived him now, it wud be her fault in not recognizing him as a person..my POV...

Totally agree with you...! She is also a normal human being who is hurt and the pain is still raw...Jagya had always kept on hurting her until it reached a limit, where Anandi could take it...! She can't...And why should she, when he couldn't even respect her mom...! This shows how low a person Jagya is...He is blaming it on Gauri...! Doesn't he have a brain? He did everything, because Gauri made him do it...Common man, he won't ever understand I suppose and needs a huge reality check here...!

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Nkapoor3

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I understand what you mean, but why does she have to be bigger person with Jagya in the first place ? Gandhigiri doesnt work in today's world.. You have to adopt 'Tit-for-tat' policy hun..

Jagya deserves nothing .. absolutely nothing 😡 Talking about being a bigger person, well I want Anandi to lodge a police complaint that this person is disturbing her and want Anandi to have Jagya locked in Jail with the charge of cheating the marital spouse.. But alas I am not seeing Anandi doing any of those, so she seems MUCH MUCH bigger already than what she could have been with Jagya..

Dont u think so 😕

yeh if I were her I would have filed a police complaint ages ago! HoweverI would have also told the family to not be harsh with jagdish just because of her

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sukanya

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
I suppose but I am just saying that Anandi could have been the bigger person!!

till now she has proved herself mahaan enough.if she forgave jagya she would have lost her self-respect and people would call her door-mat,sadist,thick-skinned,stupid blah blah.majority of women viewers would have felt it disgusting.and,it is said sometimes forgiving some fault can be equated with sharing the fault.and,after getting forgiveness he certainly did not oiling his own business.his selfishness would not allowed him to just see anandi's happiness,he definitely would have tried to spoil it.

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Shaista Nasar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

I honestly would have told the family that if they want to forgive him that that is their right and her love for them would not change for them. Leave the choice up to them and take myself out of the equation. I have done something along those lines and I suffer til this day because of it. Being that big does no one good. It breeds mistrust, disloyalty, resentment, and at the end, you choose to ignore the whole issue and hurt over and over again when they associate with the culprit.

On her forgiving him, I believe one should not lie and should just go with their heart. That is what she did. And if she forgave him because of fear of what he might do, then that is cowardly. The feminist in me protests highly. Ramifications be d@^&%#. Let him come... she is a sarpanch, highly respected, has her fiance by her side to support her, and a family that loves her for her (not because she is blood or a boy).

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prerna4rishav

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
yeh if I were her I would have filed a police complaint ages ago! HoweverI would have also told the family to not be harsh with jagdish just because of her

Yeah I know where you are coming from about the last line.. But trust me try to give it a thought from this angle -

Anandi considers this as her own family.. Bapusa, DS, Bhairo, Gehna, Sughna and lastly Sumitra.. She spend 10 yrs with her blood-related parents and 14 yrs with these people.. Is she wrong if she considers them as her own family ? I think she already does.. And now if someone comes and insults your own mom, dad, Dadi and everyone else just like that, even if it's your husband, I dont think you can forgive him.. If Jagya would have hurt only Anandi, she could be forgiving him.. But what Jagya did to her family , she cant forget that.. Even DS agrees now that it's Anandi who is her pota and not Jagya 😳

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Nkapoor3

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Yeah I know where you are coming from about the last line.. But trust me try to give it a thought from this angle -

Anandi considers this as her own family.. Bapusa, DS, Bhairo, Gehna, Sughna and lastly Sumitra.. She spend 10 yrs with her blood-related parents and 14 yrs with these people.. Is she wrong if she considers them as her own family ? I think she already does.. And now if someone comes and insults your own mom, dad, Dadi and everyone else just like that, even if it's your husband, I dont think you can forgive him.. If Jagya would have hurt only Anandi, she could be forgiving him.. But what Jagya did to her family , she cant forget that.. Even DS agrees now that it's Anandi who is her pota and not Jagya 😳

hmm chalo let's agree to disagree here... I do not think that Anandi did the wrong thing..but I would not call it completely right either...if I were her I would have told him that if u go back to gauri and forgive her then only I will forgive u and would have also dissccussed it with the family before taking my decision!!

Edited by Nkapoor3 - 13 years ago

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anwesha rath

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
but like I said he was not trying to come back in anandi's life!!

cheated not only in terms of his affair dear...cheating in all aspects of life..when he insulted her, when he disrespected her as a woman, when he blamed her for everything under the sun widout hearing her out, when he stopped her progress due to his own insecurity,everything tht jagya has done till now can be termed as cheating..tht is what i meant..

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