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In every relationship Trust and respect for each other is a basic neccessity...Love can come later too, but honesty and Trust matter most...! One can understand that in second marriages may it be divorcee's or widow's, there is always a factor of Trust which comes in between many people...And CM is right in her place, as she doesn't want Shv to get hurt...That is what many felt too, when initially many saw Anandi remembering and having FB's, that we don't want him to get hurt at the end of the day...Then Shiv's CM, though not by birth has raised him and she is correct in her concern...Though only thing I feel is, she should trust Shiv's decision and respect what elders have decided...Only thing she did not do right is to ask Anandi to re-consider...It was ok, if she would have asked if she would really keep Shiv happy...!
It is hard for some people to accept this type of relationship and there is nothing wrong in putting forward our thoughts...This makes people think from different perspective as well...! Like now Shiv won't feel threatened if Anandi and Jagya meet some point...This will only make their bond stronger, when Anandi will see how much respect and trust he has on her...! It will inturn bring her close to him...!
CM, just has to realize that Shiv is really happy with Anandi and trust his decision...I really hope Shiv tells her after meeting Anandi why she had called and what she felt, so CM's insecurities slowly start clearing...!
Anupamaa
