Frustration Thread - DISCUSS HERE ONLY - Page 90

Originally posted by: michelle281194

i'm actually one of the only ppl who is really happy with the current track. I think it would be a good change to see Anandi/DS in a moral dilemma. Plus i wanna see how Jagya will plot against Shiv coz that will most definitely come back to bite him. You see, in no rational universe can a stud like Shiv lose to a jerk like Jagya... neither professionally nor personally... so i'd like to see him try 😆 its gonna be funny

Even I would like to see DS/Anandi in moral dillemma. 😈

But what I found interesting is the similarity between Bhairon and Gauri

Gauri, only remembered the sufferings that her family has to bear for Singh family. I can understand that it's difficult to get monetary help from the same family who directly/indirectly was responsible for their problem. Gauri should have returned the money if it hurts her self respect. Nevertheless, she should have acknowledged the fact that Bhairon Singh did help her to make her life. She did not. 🤢

Similarly, Jagya has helped Anandi and Singh family in the past, putting his life and career in danger. Even now, he is trying to do good for the villagers now. Though, at this time, his intentions are not good but in the past, he had no bad intention. Yet. Bhairon has never acknowledged the fact that Jagya has done good to them directly 😲 and even indirectly because if Jagya would not have left Anandi she would not have got the chance to fulfill her dreams. 😉

This is my first comment in this thread!! 😳

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

@michelle281194

It's not about legality or about having rights. It's about self respect.


anandi might have right as per law, but at the same time, law does not say that a family has to throw their son out of the house if he wants to break the marriage with his first wife.

The Singh family, just for Anandi's happiness, not only threw Jagya out of their life, they did not even acknowledge his positive behavior when he tried to help them in the past.

On one hand, Anandi says that she is feeling bad as Jagya is thrown out of the house for her. On the other, she is staying in the house to make things complicated.

If I would have been in Anandi's place, I would have gone to my father's place because

a) I will not want that a family should break all ties with their son for me. Somewhere down the line, I will feel myself responsible.

b) I am going to marry someone else. So, it's best for all the parties, that I stay at my father's place so that no unnecessary complications, misunderstanding arise for staying with my x-husband under same roof.

but that would be ridiculously selfless, dint we want anandi to stop thinking about other ppl? then why this? shiv trusts her, nothing else matters... dont say CM now..! Anandi has suffered a lot, she shouldnt have to uproot herself again just coz she's nice enuf to do that...! plus her dad would be sooo sad coz he'd feel the singhs are disowning her... and the singhs, wen they took anandi in by bal vivah, they became her legal guardians, so it wasnt exactly selfless to keep her wen J dumped, it was their moral duty. She doesnt owe them any more than they owe her.

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

Even I would like to see DS/Anandi in moral dillemma. 😈

But what I found interesting is the similarity between Bhairon and Gauri

Gauri, only remembered the sufferings that her family has to bear for Singh family. I can understand that it's difficult to get monetary help from the same family who directly/indirectly was responsible for their problem. Gauri should have returned the money if it hurts her self respect. Nevertheless, she should have acknowledged the fact that Bhairon Singh did help her to make her life. She did not. 🤢

Similarly, Jagya has helped Anandi and Singh family in the past, putting his life and career in danger. Even now, he is trying to do good for the villagers now. Though, at this time, his intentions are not good but in the past, he had no bad intention. Yet. Bhairon has never acknowledged the fact that Jagya has done good to them directly 😲 and even indirectly because if Jagya would not have left Anandi she would not have got the chance to fulfill her dreams. 😉

shheeesh. the things Jagya did, i would have done for unknown ppl too! he toh did for his family n childhood frnd (and ex to whom he owes his life)... Cops n docs do it everyday! it may be a nice thing but doesnt overwrite the bad stuff.

Dear CV why u always against Jagiya . I don't wanna Jagiya to fall for Anandii at least kuch toh jagiya par taras kroo .

@michelle281194, sorry, but even though I'm an Anandi fan, the fact that she has not yet taken time to talk to Shiv about his feelings about the whole continuing drama does not sit well with me. And that's just the start. The fact that he now has to tolerate her ex-husband, who he knows is a tricky one, staying under the same roof must be difficult. I don't mean this from a morality perspective.

And while Anandi might not be aware that Shiv is upset, we know, don't we? That's why her consideration should be shown.

As far as the AnSh relationship is concerned, CVs are treating it as a footnote and it is just us poor fans who are pacifying ourselves with speculations. Basically, as viewers, we have been told that this is a perfect relationship but have not been allowed to really visually experience what makes this relationship perfect - the conversations, the sharing and most important, the two-way exchange of feelings (not just romantic). I'm not looking forward to the confession of love from Shiv for this reason - that should be a nice moment and not marred by shock or anything else.

Originally posted by: TheRedQueen

@michelle281194, sorry, but even though I'm an Anandi fan, the fact that she has not yet taken time to talk to Shiv about his feelings about the whole continuing drama does not sit well with me. And that's just the start. The fact that he now has to tolerate her ex-husband, who he knows is a tricky one, staying under the same roof must be difficult. I don't mean this from a morality perspective.

And while Anandi might not be aware that Shiv is upset, we know, don't we? That's why her consideration should be shown.

As far as the AnSh relationship is concerned, CVs are treating it as a footnote and it is just us poor fans who are pacifying ourselves with speculations. Basically, as viewers, we have been told that this is a perfect relationship but have not been allowed to really visually experience what makes this relationship perfect - the conversations, the sharing and most important, the two-way exchange of feelings (not just romantic). I'm not looking forward to the confession of love from Shiv for this reason - that should be a nice moment and not marred by shock or anything else.

arre first time in her life anandi is taking someone for granted! we should be happy that she's getting out of doormat mode little by little... the ppl we love n trust most are the ones we take for granted. Its only human 😊 i like this discussion... and ur thoughts! hi! 😊

michelle281194, thanks for your reply and hi 😊!!! I'm liking this discussion too. It's nice to be able to talk about what's bothering us and feel better by sharing our gripes. This forum is pretty positive.

Waise, I don't think Anandi is a doormat 😊. She's just super-nice, bears a lot before flaring up (e.g. divorce track) and fights hard for the right thing (e.g. Asha's remarriage). That's why it bothers me that she hasn't yet taken time to talk to Shiv about what he feels, especially after CM said clearly he's upset. Not like her, right? CVs have made her a closed book in the last few months.

CVs generally need to stop playing around too much with characterization. devraniharish is right with her irritation because Jagat is the one who has been played around with the most.

Thank god Shiv's parents have appeared. Now he is not alone to face whatever he has to face in future.