Creatives Plz Stand Up For The Dignity Of Women!!

Anandi HAS to choose Shiv!!

This is a strong desperate urge to the creatives of this path breaking show to please please PLEASE make Anandi choose Shiv...this show has delivered strong social messages at every step of this journey...it has tried to bring about a positive change in whatever way it possibly could...even in today's episode by making Shiv's family decline the expensive exotic gifts given by Anandi's family. by making them instead DEMAND that they do a very simple wedding and send Anandi in nothing but two pair of clothes, this show yet again took a strong stance against dowry...and all of it is commendable...hats off and a standing ovation to this show and all the efforts it takes...but BUT if IF the creatives make Anandi choose Jagiya instead of Shiv then all its past efforts towards women upliftment would go down hill...Anandi HAS TO she just HAS TO choose Shiv...and not under any family pressure but from her own heart...

She has to choose Shiv for all those women out there who get left behind by their so called husbands in favor of a better, younger girl and once these good for nothing men are done with their little flings they come running back home to their wives because they freaking know that whatever crime they might do, they would always be forgiven and accepted and rather welcomed back by their wives...which is so freaking UNFAIR!...

We HAVE to change this mindset...we HAVE to put this message out there for every man to see and realize that they cannot and they so CANNOT take the women in their lives for granted, they cannot shit all over their women and then come back to them like nothing happened...and this would happen only and only when these women would stop accepting them back..and here is a chance to show EXACTLY that...I am not saying Anandi shouldn't forgive Jagiya, she totally should and I feel in her heart she already has forgiven Jagiya... but she should NOT go back to him under ANY circumstance...our society NEEDS this message that men can't expect women to forgive all their infidelities and take them back the very moment they decide to return...if we want to put an end. a freaking full stop to all the evils and atrocities committed against women, this is one of the FIRST steps, to tell the whole freaking world that women out there have an identity, a self respect of their own and they have the power, the courage, the strength to boldly choose that self respect over and above their so called pati parmeshwars, they are no longer their husbands' toe rags, they are strong and confident and they have the courage to choose a better person, a better life...most importantly they would no longer accept anything ANYTHING less than what they deserve,,,they would NOT settle in, they would freaking fight for their rights!

This THIS is the message that we have to give and it can happen only and ONLY when Anandi makes Shiv her choice...I cannot emphasize the importance of Anandi's choice here...it is not just an act Creatives, its a sign a message to every freaking one out there that our Indian women have come out of centuries of shackles and are today independent and free and bold and every choice they make is a testimony of their strength...so please please PLEASE make her choose Shiv and make her choose him happily, willingly not under some moral or emotional pressure...make Shiv her choice not compulsion...in fact she should tell this up front on Jagiya's face that I CHOOSE Shiv!...I am not saying Anandi should denounce Jagiya, no, I think she would always care about his well being and when all this mess settles down they would once again be best of friends like they were when they were kids...but she should CHOOSE shiv as her life partner...only and only for all those women out there who feel that they don't have any other alternative but to accept all the misdeeds of their husbands and yet go on loving them, serving them!

relax! she'll pick Shiv... no worries! they just depict all these flashbacks n anandi's sadness to confuse us.. but we know who she'll pick! she's a smart girl 😊

Lovely Post and I completely agree with you. The creatives for once show a strong woman and also the progressive concept that a woman can and has a right to love again. And the second love may be actually more stronger and deeper. So please do not even think of re-uniting Anandi and Jagiya

Originally posted by: michelle281194

relax! she'll pick Shiv... no worries! they just depict all these flashbacks n anandi's sadness to confuse us.. but we know who she'll pick! she's a smart girl 😊

I am not a regular viewer of this show, from the past four five days I have been watching this show on my dinning table during dinner...and the message I am getting is that Anandi's heart isn't in this marriage, that she is still busy yearning and craving Jagiya...this is the message I am getting and I believe along with me there are many many more random viewers out there, viewers from small villages and towns whop don't follow forums or fan sites or interviews or spoilers ALL of them r getting this same message and they might even be sitting in huddles and discussing how Anandi is still doing the right thing to be so heavily invested in Jagiya because whatever said and done he after all is her pati, her bhagwaan, her malik blah blah bLAH...this is what those naive, uneducated, unaware women out there would be discussing...why because they are seeing their beloved Anandi do EXACTLY the same...is this the message the show wants to give?...its good that u know that she would eventually choose Shiv but my point is its not about whom she chooses, its about HOW she makes that choice... if the confusion was just restricted to u and me its fine..because we are educated we know what we have to do...but this show reaches out to the masses...and its not right AT ALL to give those women out there even this slightest impression that Anandi is still in love or whatever with Jagiya...the message the purpose is getting defeated here...

see as u say, u havent seen all of anandi's avatars! especially her raudra roop! trust me. nothing to worry about... i've watched every epi

Exactly ! I agree...They cannot show an educated woman to be such a fool and a doormat...

Originally posted by: michelle281194

see as u say, u havent seen all of anandi's avatars! especially her raudra roop! trust me. nothing to worry about... i've watched every epi

girl...u r not getting my point...I am NOT worried I honestly care a damn who she choose who not...😆...but this show isn't for u and me...its actually for all the docile, innocent, timid, illiterate women out there who believe they have no existence, no life without their husbands...if their husbands leave them its the end of the world for them., they should commit suicide coz now nothing else is left for them to do...and if their husbands come back to them its like God is telling them that this is their second chance to serve their husbands be a good wife...this show is meant for such women out there...and to them Anandi at least for now is appearing as someone who would choose her "husband" over and above anything else...and thats a wrong wrong and so WRONG message!...by showing this even for a second u r giving fuel to all these women's age old beliefs that their husbands are their Gods and they can do any damned thing with them...!!!

I don't care who she choose who not I am not a shipper but I care about the pathetic message they r delivering...they might not intend to do so in the long run...but right now this is the message they are delivering and its fatal...its against women. their dignity and their progression~

Thanks for writing such a passionate and well written plea. I agree with you!

I think everyone should relax, speaking from a purely practical perspective here, the Production House wouldn't spend so much time and money finding actors to play Shiv's family (and adding new members all the time!) if they weren't going to keep them around. She's definitely going to choose Shiv, it's just going to be a bit of a journey to get there. :)

My roblem is not whether accepts Jagia back or not? I ask her why she can't get over a man who has hurt her ,humiliated her so badly.