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Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Goranta

We cant see JaAn 2gether cause she will marry Shiv and than she will spend more time with him and she will fall for him during those 4 months, so if u want to se J A together u can watch the older episodes and u can enjoy!!!!!!



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Posted: 13 years ago
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I'd rather prefer Anandi to live a spinsters life than get back with Jagya...
I wud be the defeat of the womankind if she accepts Jagya back...
Any female who has been tortured thus by a guy does NOT deserve to go back to him no matter who asks her to...
If would be the worst thing EVER...If she took him back...It wud mean she has NO Self Respect in her ! Which I already think she doesnt have...
Shiv or no Shiv...Jagya will never feature !
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Posted: 13 years ago
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.It would be demeaning and degrading to go back to the muck she came from...She broke her shackles and it's good for her that she shuts the door of her past firmly behind and never look back..
I'm happy that Anandi has taken a lot of strides in the right direction in the past..Overcame so many obstacles and didn't become a basket case with life's bitter pills handed out to her.She moved forward in her life and spent her life for others..Hats off to her courage and her unselfish nature...I'm proud of her as a woman but if she goes to Jags it would be really a defeat for womenhood as it's sending a wrong message..Men stray as much as u will ..we women have no self respect ..we forgive you and still want to be treated as dirt.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another thing beyond understanding is why Anandi doesnt have any feelings of wanting a partner to share her joys and sorrows, she can be sceptical however if she has that longing and wish to find a companion and partner she wouldnt mope around about Jagya after all that she went through with him. Her reactions are not consistent with how her character was portrayed, its almost as if she has an emotional deathwish ( hasnt she been separated for at least three years) and worst of all she seems to exercise double standards in her outlook towards other ppl aka phooli,the other widowed girl and herself. I wish they stop showing this nonsense and for once show her to be a normal girl wanting a shot at her own happiness instead of wanting to be a constant martyr.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gun_k

Another thing beyond understanding is why Anandi doesnt have any feelings of wanting a partner to share her joys and sorrows, she can be sceptical however if she has that longing and wish to find a companion and partner she wouldnt mope around about Jagya after all that she went through with him. Her reactions are not consistent with how her character was portrayed, its almost as if she has an emotional deathwish ( hasnt she been separated for at least three years) and worst of all she seems to exercise double standards in her outlook towards other ppl aka phooli,the other widowed girl and herself. I wish they stop showing this nonsense and for once show her to be a normal girl wanting a shot at her own happiness instead of wanting to be a constant martyr.

Agree why waste your time and energy mooning over a worthless cause!
Life has given Anandi a guy(a man and not a wimp)She should be analysing Shiv's behaviour and grabbing at this new window of happiness.This old clothes of Jugs need to be discarded and try on the new set of clothes offered by Shiv
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: avivakirk

Agree why waste your time and energy mooning over a worthless cause!
Life has given Anandi a guy(a man and not a wimp)She should be analysing Shiv's behaviour and grabbing at this new window of happiness.This old clothes of Jugs need to be discarded and try on the new set of clothes offered by Shiv

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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
Anandi has never taken her life decision with her wil...she is always bound by DS,BS and her mom s wish..HER LIFE IS GUIDED BY OTHERS...
If DS says tomorrow to Anandi...go and accept Jagya...she can never say no..
Who cares for Anandi...
Ds runs her life..
DS wants shiv -Anandi..it s not Anandi who wants Shiv..
Leave Anandi alone and let her make her decision..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: couchie1311

I dont even know why we want Anandi to be with Shiv

1. Jagya wants Anandi back
2. Anandi doesnt love Shiv - she cant stop remembering and moping about J
3. Shiv deserves so much better than this depressed woman who cant seem to get over her earlier husband.
4. I have started believing that Anandi really would be happier with J. She cant recollect a single bad memory. Everything is about the good times
Seriously, I have had enough. As a viewer you get so upset that J treated A shabbily and he should be punished and you have this stupid A who is apparently just unable to move on. Who are we fighting for here? A is happy with J memories and soon she'll have J back in person. I think all of us need to move on.



This is just SHOCKING !😲

Just cuz a woman is unable to accept a rushed-up marriage soon after her divorce and her mother's death, it means she should go back to the hell where she was insulted and dejected like hell ?

Anyways.. Pointwise answer -

1. Anandi should be with Jagya cuz Jagya wants Anandi back ? Whoaaa ! Is she a vegetable or what ? Can be thrown away thinking it's rotten, and can be welcomed whenever wanted ? And do you think Jagya wants Anandi back ? Haaah ! 🥱 Jagya the selfish git doesnt love ANYBODY except himself on this earth.. How cleverly he put all the blames on Gauri and is portraying himself as an innocent fool 😛 whereas it was HIS responsibility to let Gauri mix with his families, to give her oppurunities to be accepted by his family.. And what he did ? Shouted, cribbed, fought with everyone and came to stay with his 'supposed' wife in some other city.. What a SON ! A person who fails to accomplish the 23/24-yr old relationships of his life ( just for a sec, forget abt Anandi and Gauri ).. do you think that person is worth loving anyone ? Or worth TO BE loved by anyone ? 🥱 He doesnt even KNOW what Love is 🥱

2. Anandi has got her divorce few weeks back ! And just cuz she is remembering the 'happy' days with Jagya, that doesnt mean she is still 'in love' with Jagya ! When we have a break-up, even long after that we tend to remember the happy stuffs related to them.. That doesnt mean we wanna go back to our old partners does it ? Her and Jagya's divorce was 3 weeks back, but they had this fall-out kinda 5 or 5 n half yr back.. Long time huh ! Bitterness goes away.. Only good memories sustain.. But that NEVER means people wanna go back to that phase again.. 😊 It's just memories.. like DS said.. !

3. Shiv deserves Anandi and Anandi deserves Shiv.. If you have seen the episodes, I dont think it needs any further explanation 😳

4. Same as point # 2.. Just cuz she is remembering their happy days ( which were really plenty and cute since childhood ), that doesnt mean she wants to go back there.. Anandi even remembers the time Bhairo came to seek her hand from her father.. Does that mean given a chance, in next life also she would go for child-marriage ? No Those have become JUST memories..

Lastly, I can not even think how and why people would even want to see JaAn together.. Women are not supposed to be treated like shit .. Anandi doesnt deserve to be an option.. She deserves to be the first and only priority of a man.. She deserves Shiv as much as Shiv deserves Anandi.. 😊 At least if not love, they are starting their relationship with faith and respect.. Love will follow where's the hurry ! But can not see Anandi getting back to a person who doesnt know the meaning of TRUST, Respect .. Forget about love.. ! 😊

Thanks,
Guddi
Edited by prerna4rishav - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#49
1. Jagya wants Anandi back ( as long as he find his true love again 😡)
2. Anandi doesnt love Shiv - she cant stop remembering and moping about J ( i think it will be lesser)
3. Shiv deserves so much better than this depressed woman who cant seem to get over her earlier husband. ( and anadi will be perfect match for him once she is over with jagya ... which i hope soon will happen)
4. I have started believing that Anandi really would be happier with J. She cant recollect a single bad memory. Everything is about the good times ( This one i have to agree and i dunt like her for this 😕)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Maybe Shiv deserves better but he has chosen anandi. Now its unfair to expect her to cheer up overnight and want a marriage when she has lost all faith on commitment and marriage. When a woman realises that the one thing she thought would last forever - her marriage can break, it is extremely hard to go and jump into it again with eyes open. She is doing this only for her mother. She is not in love with Shiv nor is she keen on marriage and she has done all this before and she is too mature to get excited with jewellery and sarees and the rituals.
Her mom died, she has got a divorce, she hasnt personally got anything she wanted, she is depressed and she is being blamed for this!!!
If shiv couldnt handle her depression, he would never have agreed to marry her in the first place. He understands her and wants to see her happy coz he is really in love with her and knows that it will take time for her to get out of this and he has a tough job cut out for him in front of him and he being aware of all this has decided to marry her.
So its his decision even if he deserves marrying a happy girl, he has chosen to marry a sad one and try to change her into a happy girl! Lets all hope that with time that happens... But cant we understand Anandi's memories, sadness, pain, depression for now? It would be unrelatable if she were to be happy and excited about marriage.
No married girl no matter how difficult the marriage has been is keen on a second marriage.. Marriage is once in a lifetime event, you do all the rasams once in life and thats why they are special, second time round it is difficult to give it the same place. Second time the rituals themselves cannot make that person your husband. Only time can.

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