Anandi's current state of mind looks real to me - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nicely written and agree with you . When she threw the necklace .. she didnt do it in disgust or mean to insult it .

She did it because it was suffocating her .. the emotions/expectations were weighing down on her and she was unable to bear that weight for an instant.
She put it back when she managed to block the negative thoughts.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post.Thank you.

You are right.When we are watching Balika Vadhu we forget we are watching a show.Anandi seems so real to us because we relate to her in some intangible way.

Probably because we have found ourselves in some of these situations she had been in we end up identifying with her in some way.So we expect her to react in the way we would have in that scenario.

All of us are different kinds of individuals hence perspectives can be different and we react differently.

Probably because the scenario and her mental status seemed so close to reality is the reason why there was such varied response because we see it from our own perspective.
Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13
thank u sooo much for this post...
yes i agree with u...after watching yesterday's episode anandi became more real to me 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree she in going through many emotional turmoils..all at the same time...but in all this she must spare a thought for shiv...the man who appreciates and respects her., has been there for her all the, saved her life and is trying to be so accommodating and understanding. I think when somebody suffers extremely like anandi did, they become better human beings and understand and appreciate human values more. I am not saying that she should be all romantic about shiv , but she can give him respect and appreciate his good feelings towards her. She should move forward and extend her friendship.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think she has accepted Shiv and she is falling in love also but she is in denial state. She needs time to come out from this situation. Yeah you are right after going through a hell like Anandi did either she will turn +ve which she is or she will turn completely -ve like our Pizza madam, always blame someone else for her own action. Never accept her mistake.

Yaar Anandi ko kya chahte ho apni maa ke 15 days pehle ka death 1 minute mein bhool jaye aur Shiv ko hug and kiss kare aur uski family ke samne nache aur gay " Ayo re ayo re ayo re mharo dholna"???😆

Please reham karo us bichari par jiska 17yrs ke shaadi ka abhi abhi divorce hua hai, usi dukh mein uski maa mar gayee. Divorce is still a curse in rural area, Forget rural area its a curse in our society also. Kahee bhi duniya mein jaye Divorcee ko log bahut galat nazar se dekhatein chahe uski galati ho ya na ho. You guys will be surprised I don't know anyone in my friends or family who got divorce. Aur Shiv ki family achanak se aa gayee shagun lekar roka karne ke liye aur ek toh sara din bhooki pyasi fast mein hai aur sone pe suhaga kichad mein gir pari aur cartoon ki tarah would be in - laws ke samne jokar bani khari hai. What should she do ?? Scream hey Shivu darling and give him a fly kiss❤️???

Come-on give her a break...
Edited by mmishra1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16
In complete agreement with you👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I cannot agree with you completely because Anandi herself asked Shiv to marry her, she herself didn't take time to recover. Granted Dadisa needs to have some patience instead of pushing her into this, but Anandi has not reached out for help from Bhairon either, she just keeps everything to herself and feels suffocated. Since Bhairon or Sumitra have supported her, she should at least communicate with them, or even with Shiv. Instead of saying anything she is seething inside, and unfortunately Shiv will bear the brunt of this. She is like a volcano because she keeps things inside and then one day they all erupt on the wrong person, without understanding the situation. In this case it has always been Shiv.

She should have given it time instead of begging Shiv to marry her. And if the burden of her mother's wish is so much that she wants to fulfill it asap, she should at least communicate with Shiv. Instead she is behaving passive aggressively. Shiv has shown her nothing but respect and support, and she cannot even grant the same for him. She comes across so badly in front of his family with her sullen looks.

I don't have that much sympathy for her because she keeps thinking of Jagya. He has done so much to hurt her, so much, yet she keeps thinking of him. And she is using Shiv just to fulfill her mother's wishes. I have lost all sympathy and empathy for the girl, especially because she asked Shiv to marry her despite his hesitation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Those who has the knowledge of yoga could understand this...

Out of 5 types of context based vairagyas, "Smashana vairagya" is one, due to which those who lost their dear ones & see them turn into ashes in Smashana(funeral) ,yield to this temporary state of mind that makes them lose interest on anything in the world...

This is not new... That our fellow members are now naming this state of vairagya as zombie state..as if they were born abroad...

Those who experience the loss of dear ones & attended funeral & had to set pyre with our own hands is infact a hell...

Those who could understand ,thanks...
Those who do not want to understand & more interested in throwing stones ...double thanks...

The punishment is you don't like positive characters n bv... N cvs...yet has to watch the serial...

I love bv... N its characters...so, I enjoy...n pity others...all the very best...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank You!!!!!, I appreciate that some one has understood my babling
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20
i guess anyone would feel like that if put in anandi's shoes

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