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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello all,

I am Gina. I would like to introduce myself as a new member (generally a browser only); however, I couldn't resist putting my thoughts on (Web) paper on this topic.

Over the past few weeks, everyone (including myself) was very excited about the AnSh union and all the romantic connotations attached to it. Slowly, the script writers of BV seemed to be fulfilling our wishes.

The mirror cracked day-before yesterday when Anandi's pouts seemed so off-putting to all of us Shiv fans, who had expected her to fall over in gratitude at the acceptance from Shiv and his family.

Granted, Anandi had requested (circa begged) Shiv to marry her. But, we seem to have forgotten that SHE did not want the marriage. She was forced, first by her in-laws and then finally bound by her mother's last wish. Given time, she would probably have fallen in love with the dashing, considerate Shiv herself. But circumstances snatched that opportunity from her. Her divorce, the insistence on her remarriage, and her mother's demise, all in rapid succession, scrambled her brains and sent her into deep depression (her face these days depicts depression and not irritation).

The forum is full of condemnation for her attitude these days. But, put yourself in her place.

She was thinking of Jagya - well, naturally, after 17 years of marriage, it would be difficult not to have any good memories.
She was celebrating Teej alone for the past 5 years - we don't know her memories over the past 5 years 'cos the CVs didn't show them to us ;-)
She has a glum face these days after asking Shiv to inform his parents - she didn't ask him to bring in his family at super-sonic speed.
She was looking upset when the roka was done - I think she is more scared than upset (going to the same rigmarole again and setting herself up for heartache again).
She was looking tense in front of CM - I think a girl can sense when a person is not too fond of her.

Let us leave her face and her feelings to Shiv (who should start to get more informal and loving with her). He has given his unfettered consent to marrying her, knowing he can get her to love him given the appropriate time and context.

Hope this read is not too much of a pain to read..


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elasingh thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Can you answer one question? Itna kuch hone ke baad kaunsa pyaar bachata hai aur kaun si memories bachati hai? Everything becomes rotten. But then we r ordinary mortals . Can't think at the level of Anandi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Pyaar to bachta nahin hai... memories do not go away. I am sure that even if you have had a friend who has turned foe, you would have some good memories that crop up at the oddest times. You would probably hate yourself for those thoughts later, but the thoughts do crop up...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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But Anandi still loves jagiya which is very unrealistic.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No where has it been said that she loves him. But, if she does, then you are right, it is unrealistic and a sad day for BV (and all its fans). I don't think the CVs will maro a kulhadi on their own paer in this way... their entire concept will go for a toss!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you, Gina. I don't think her attitude should be condemned in this fashion.
And why are people still reading into her flashbacks as indicating that she's still in love with Jagya?? Being stuck in past memories of a person does not equate to love for that person. There is no set time to say by which point someone 'should' have gotten over something. It's not like a flu ke agar 2-3 hafton lagaatar chalta rehta hai ko normal nahin hai aur doctor ko dikhana padta hai... saal lag sakte hai even if the relationship was short 😕
I just don't get the constant need to hate on the character. Seriously, har cheez ki hadh hoti hai. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Sujal... I was beginning to think I am the only Anandi supporter at the moment :-)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Har cheez ki had hoti hai ,yeh baat anandi ko bhi samzhna chahiye. And yes her married life with adult jagiya was very little probably 1 or 2 years. Gauri has lived longer with jagiya. And Gina this forum is full of Anandi's supporters. Worry not' u r not alone.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: GinaMalkani

Pyaar to bachta nahin hai... memories do not go away. I am sure that even if you have had a friend who has turned foe, you would have some good memories that crop up at the oddest times. You would probably hate yourself for those thoughts later, but the thoughts do crop up...


Agree👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lets not forget anandi is not at all interested in rembering jagya pur khuchh aisi baat hoti hai jo use na chahte hue bhi jagya ki yaad dilata hai .woh baat jaise hi poori ho jaati hai anandi phir jagya ko yaad nahi karti

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