Should Shiv really marry to fulfill a WISH??? - Page 2

I like what you said Anj. I think his reason to say yes is much more complex and he is not saying yes to fulfill Anandi's mother last wist but he wants Anandi to be happy in any cost. That's the love he has for her.She is disturbed but said clear that she is only marrying for last wish and the decision is his. He is not happy but wants to make his lady love happy and want to be with her for life long no matter what.

This is absurd! Anandi is supposed to be someone who thinks of everyone nd cares for everyone. She puts everyone else ahead of her. In this case too she is getting married to fulfill her mother's wish, but then what about Shiv's life? Marrige is a life long commitment between two people. Why cant she think from Shiv's perspective if she is a person who puts everyone ahead of her, yhy doesnt she understand that if she doesnt get married wholeheartedly she is putting Shiv's life at task? Its great that he still loves her and agrees to marry her even though he knows that she is not at all ready for commitment. Not only that she doesnt even assure him that she would try to do justice to the marriage once it is done. Instead she says if not for her mother she would have never agreed for this marriage. Its a different matter that love may blossom later or Shiv may win over her heart. I am just unable to digest this. She is thinking from just one angle. True, as a daughter she wants to fulfill her mom's wish, but at what cost? Somebody's life???? No..totally uncalled for!!

gomatidj - what do u think Anandi is going to do post marriage? Beat Shiv with a stick or dump him now that wedding is over? NO. Her promise to her mother was to be a good wife and bahu not just to marry. Also knowing Anandi, I don't think Shiv has doubt that she will honour her commitment either. So, I dont get from what angle she is ruining his life? If all he wants is woman who loves him then he can go marry Ashi!

Originally posted by: gomatidj

AnjanaYYZ I never meant that she would beat him with a stick, but even in case of arranged marriage, the girl doesnt say 'if i were given a choice, I would have never agreed to marry you' Instead of saying that if she had said that 'though I am not ready yet, I would try my level best to be a good wife and do justice to marriage..' it would have made more sense to me atleast.

anandi said with honesty what she meant 😊and may be in shiv is marrying for his selfless love for her,as he wants anandi to be her wife and relations can go after faith is developed and many times love emerges with respect honour bonding and nedd also 😛

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi is selflessly trying to fulfil her late mother's wish and DS's wish but while doing so does she have to be so inconsiderate towards his feelings?Does end justify the means?

Shiv is marrying her for his own reasons that he loves her and he wants to be with her.

Originally posted by: gomatidj

AnjanaYYZ I never meant that she would beat him with a stick, but even in case of arranged marriage, the girl doesnt say 'if i were given a choice, I would have never agreed to marry you' Instead of saying that if she had said that 'though I am not ready yet, I would try my level best to be a good wife and do justice to marriage..' it would have made more sense to me atleast.

Originally posted by: monamie111

i think anandi does not know that shiv loves her!!...also, u can call her insensitive if after all these she will cheat shiv for another person...like jaggya did with her! or if she will be a selfish DIL! but now when she has not cheated shiv how the insensitive word is fitting her? why everyone is assuming that she will be a bad wife and she will hurt shiv!? 😕

she told the truth only that why she wants to marry him! she would be insensitive if she did not tell him the truth now and shiv would have found out the truth after marriage!!