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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: tinoo
did jagya process that shiv was also there in the barsi crowd and witnessed his humiliation a second time?

or did he not notice shiv ?

He may remember that scene when he is in dukhi bar next doing his repeats

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@mahi and mocking bird

You are being so optimistic about Jagya.Today he was really good but tomorrow it will be back to square one.

Only if he remains unchanged for at least more than 24 hours we can hope some change in him.

I dont know what kind of a wife she is she far away from him emotionally.

She turns to her mother for constant support how come it doesn't occur to her that Jagya also needs his mother's support?

Even today she was ready to fight with him.Only after her mother's intervention she said sorry.

Frankly speaking I just dont care about the fate of Gauri or her mother any more.

Jagya - I dont know when he is going to change.

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Loved Shashank !

He has the most yo-yo role ever written I think. And he does it so well. Everytime he used to have me believe that this time he will surely see thru her(Lady Mcbeth) lies and plots and see things for himself - and everytime the director made him do a volteface equally dramatically.

Gauri is a cat with 19 lives. I think she has already used up quite a few of them, wonder how many more she plans to survive. I dearly hope the directors are building up her mom's punishment and will make it a series of episodes to remember. Hope after that showdown Gauri tries to reject her mom in order to appear clean to J and finally makes her mom realize what a selfish girl she's raised !

Am glad to finally see Anandi exhaust her infinite patience and excuses to justify J and his behaviour. Enough is enough ! But to lose your mother to reALIZE THIS - IS A VERY HEAVY PRICE INDEED !

Parents shud never be put down or ignored no matter what the rest of the world says. To some extent, Anandi shud also live with the guilt that her mom suffered also bcoz Anandi refused her own parents in favor of her saasra. Wonder how it must break your heart to see your only child reject your love n support to be with your x-s family.

I hold Anandi partly responsible for Bhago's heartbreak !

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Jan50

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Thanks for the update. I was expecting Jagya to slap Gawry today and walk out on her. That day will come. Before that I want G to become a complete loony, Schizo , make major mistakes professionally and gets locked up in an asylum. After that J should go wandering around and end up being washed up along juju beach, if he can't do anything better. My first choices for him is to break away from G slowly after finishing his MS. Be as cold to her as possible.

I did not like the way Anandi proposed to Shiv. She was almost as insensitive to Shiv as J iwas towards her. Why is it Shiv's duty to fulfill Bhago's wish when A has openly shown her disgust for marrying Shiv. Shiv did not come running to DS for marrying A. He only accepted her proposal for which A humiliated him with out even giving a minute's thought. I liked the look of shock in Shiv's face and no smile when he accepted. I hope he makes a statement which is curt and puts A in her place.

She could have waited and expressed her wish to get married to Shiv in a little more charming way instead of saying I need to fulfill my mother's wish. So marry me.Basically she is treating him like doormat.

Another way of putting the misery J is facing today is, he is paying for all the sins committed by DS. They alway say children pay for the good or bad karma of their forefathers. Poor Sumi is punished for the sins and brutality of her mother in law.This is in contrast to the opinion that DS is paying for her sins by seeing J wasted away. But she has another grand child so it is not such a big blow to her as it is for Sumi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Every family has a black sheep. It is not neccessary to find someone to blame it on and make them bear the onus of all the sins. A lot of these sins were Jagya's own fault and despite enough right advice and love and forgiveness and repeated chances to improve himself - J consistently chose the wrong path. This is just who he is ..

Coz if we decide DS is the root of all J's sins - then we r giving J a clean chit. Also, if DS is so horrible - let us go way back into her childhood to see who was the reason for her turning out the way she did !!! This wud be never ending - !!!

We are a product of a lot of factors. Our parents, our environment, financial stabilty, family value system, early life lessons in crime and punishment, our choice of friends and finally just how we like to think.

Jagya's sister too had an independant streak and got a little carried away in her teens, but has she ever been this ruthless and insensitive to her parents and family ? Then why shud the credit for her value system not goto Dadisa and Bhairon-Sumi ?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Jan50
Thanks for the update. I was expecting Jagya to slap Gawry today and walk out on her. That day will come. Before that I want G to become a complete loony, Schizo , make major mistakes professionally and gets locked up in an asylum. After that J should go wandering around and end up being washed up along juju beach, if he can't do anything better. My first choices for him is to break away from G slowly after finishing his MS. Be as cold to her as possible.
I did not like the way Anandi proposed to Shiv. She was almost as insensitive to Shiv as J iwas towards her. Why is it Shiv's duty to fulfill Bhago's wish when A has openly shown her disgust for marrying Shiv. Shiv did not come running to DS for marrying A. He only accepted her proposal for which A humiliated him with out even giving a minute's thought. I liked the look of shock in Shiv's face and no smile when he accepted. I hope he makes a statement which is curt and puts A in her place.
She could have waited and expressed her wish to get married to Shiv in a little more charming way instead of saying I need to fulfill my mother's wish. So marry me.Basically she is treating him like doormat.
Another way of putting the misery J is facing today is, he is paying for all the sins committed by DS. They alway say children pay for the good or bad karma of their forefathers. Poor Sumi is punished for the sins and brutality of her mother in law.This is in contrast to the opinion that DS is paying for her sins by seeing J wasted away. But she has another grand child so it is not such a big blow to her as it is for Sumi.

@red

Even I did not like the way she proposed but did she have a choice in this matter?DS wants her to marry Shiv,Bhago's dying was that she wanted her to marry Shiv,Now her father wants her to marry Shiv.

They are not even giving her time to mourn her mother's death not giving her time to get over her divorce to top it all DS planned all this and went propsed to Shiv on her behalf which she very rightly refused.

With all these things happening you can't expect her to propose cheerfully.She is being forced to marry him and she asking with folded hands for the sake of her family.It is upto him whether to accept her proposal or reject it.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@red
Even I did not like the way she proposed but did she have a choice in this matter?DS wants her to marry Shiv,Bhago's dying was that she wanted her to marry Shiv,Now her father wants her to marry Shiv.

They are not even giving her time to mourn her mother's death not giving her time to get over her divorce to top it all DS planned all this and went propsed to Shiv on her behalf which she very rightly refused.

With all these things happening you can't expect her to propose cheerfully.She is being forced to marry him and she asking with folded hands for the sake of her family.It is upto him whether to accept her proposal or reject it.

Very True !

She is being railroaded into getting married this very minute if possible. Poor girl !

Nobody seems to understand that she needs to get over her mourning for her mom before looking at what she can do to ease this family's guilt of having tied her in childhood to their naalayak son.

Basically Ds and everybody else - I include Bhairon in this too - is so petrified that she might change her mind once she gets over her sorrow, that they want her to do this NOW - while she is still grieving. Very heartless indeed !

My only hope is Shiv - hope he will see how surrounded by blindness she is, and how he can first just protect her and make her feel stable first and wait for her mourning to pass before celebrating Valentine's 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Even I did not like the way she proposed but did she have a choice in this matter?DS wants her to marry Shiv,Bhago's dying was that she wanted her to marry Shiv,Now her father wants her to marry Shiv.

They are not even giving her time to mourn her mother's death not giving her time to get over her divorce to top it all DS planned all this and went propsed to Shiv on her behalf which she very rightly refused.

With all these things happening you can't expect her to propose cheerfully.She is being forced to marry him and she asking with folded hands for the sake of her family.It is upto him whether to accept her proposal or reject it.👏

😊I absolute agree with you...considering we all want anandi to marry shiv, but the most important part of the reason we want her to do marry him so that anandi can get all the happiness that she truly deserves and i don't think emotionally blackmailing someone is going todo that.

Just my opinion :)

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: aparnauma
@mahi and mocking bird

You are being so optimistic about Jagya.Today he was really good but tomorrow it will be back to square one.
Only if he remains unchanged for at least more than 24 hours we can hope some change in him.
I dont know what kind of a wife she is she far away from him emotionally.
She turns to her mother for constant support how come it doesn't occur to her that Jagya also needs his mother's support?
Even today she was ready to fight with him.Only after her mother's intervention she said sorry.
Frankly speaking I just dont care about the fate of Gauri or her mother any more.
Jagya - I dont know when he is going to change.

dear i have said i can't trust him how long he'll be this good 😆..i always call him pendulum .. 😆.but this was something i had expected from him seeing his nature he will go home but won't lie to Gauri he did his work everything went fine he will blast her because of your disgusting idea this happened with me ...😆secondly i also know he is not heartless he has a heart ..the care for all the people who love him or loved him haven't died in his heart...so he feels their pain his eyes become teary and we know emotional torture works on him ...its always like some emotional words from someone he ends up crying ...if Anandi's words shook him today he was crying on his way back home...nothing new have seen it many times before ..didn't we .😆i am optimistic for one thing about him he will redeem one day cvs are again and again showing us his good side which means he is no evil man so will redeem but when? we don't know perhaps now the saga has begun 😕and no hopes from Gauri and her mother that they will ever be redeemed or realize anything 🤢they are just getting worst with every passing day