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Khushi Ghai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Some folks just see the overtly obvious and/or think memory is like blackboard and we just need duster of reason 😳

She obviously has issues about her stolen childhood and bal vivah varna should would not screeched at those kids yesterday. They reminded her of all she invested into this relationship...all she surrendered to it including her childhood.

Her efforts to deal with her memories including good ones is there in her query to Daadisa.

@Bold- Memory is not a blackboard which needs a duster of reason, i agree BUT bad memories definitely are practically and actually very much enough to serve as a duster and erase all those good memories or even some of them if not all.

@Blue- That would have been so much acceptable, believe me i would have cried along with her for that but why didnt that SHOW in her memories while sitting at the jail today? Why didnt those moments of abandonment by Jagya show while sitting in the court?? Why? Didnt those memories hurt her? Or were the good memories so good that the fact that NOW they wont ever "practically" exist made her cry ..and were those memories so good that those tears which she had while JG spent their first might at the haveli , when Jagya shouted at her when she decorated that room for him on his birthday,when she hid her identity from his friends ,when he told her that he loves another woman etc so weak that they couldnt make her forget those bad times?

As a viewer , i have laughed with her when she laughed,cried with her when she cried , felt the love when she and Jagya were together and also felt the pain when he left her in all those 1000+ episodes and now when after all that happened with her i feel that this love which is showing in her memories and behaviour is not required at all then i dont think i am wrong there. I have not seen all the 1000+ episodes to say this but i have many people in my family , including my grandparents who are defiently more mature then i am and have seen all the episodes..have seen her entire journey and have felt the role of Anandi who also feel that this love, this care and those memories shoudlnt have been that important to her and even if thsoe good ones were important , the bad ones should have also accompained and added a few more tears.

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Good point Khusi - why is nobody questioning Jug's soulful sad eyes🤣🤣🤣 Its a cruel world when a girl can't cry at her own divorce or gets told she enjoys abuse because she dares to hurt and be emotional. The very nerve of her. She's human not reasonable robot.

She should be spanked for signing the bail papers never mind it was expedient and smart... it must be to help Jug... d'uh - the quicker the release the quicker the divorce.

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

we know that jag is not mourning his relationship with anandi...

he is mourning the loss of the financial help and the cut off relations from his family ...

anandi on the other hand is mourning the loss of her relationship with jagya...that is why i criticize anandi and not jagya... because i know what jagya is mourning... it certainly isnt anandi.

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Khusi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

exactly thats my point...he has the exact emotion what anandi has...so is he still pinning for anandi

ans..clear NO...NO CHANCE...

its not love...at all...

lol..he wud have angry ...his usual emotion when he doesnt get anything what he wants...

mourning is not the emotion for that😆

Edited by khusi_* - 13 years ago

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groovychica_22

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

i don't see anything unusual about it...it's the end of a relationship that lasted almost over a decade. ofcourse she understands that he left her for another girl, but it's natural and human to feel sad that everything is over. the guy you always thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with, fell in love with, and built so many sweet memories with is no longer yours...even though he's not worth it he was her husband and it's only natural. that doesn't mean tomorrow she won't divorce him, or will ever get back with him if he apologizes that just means she's human and is accepting things are over and is sad to see their relationship ending in the manner of which it is...

anyone will be sad to see a relationship end. tomorrow if your best friend betrays you won't you remember your childhood memories, and reflect and feel sad that they no longer are the person they once were or your relationship is no longer the same it once was? the memories will always be there until someone fills his spot...aka shiv...but it's a gradual process and i applaud anandi and her maturity and wisdom and handling of everything.

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AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Well if all Jugs is mouring is money and family then why look at Anandi? Why hold her hand?🤣🤣 I know he's just holding on to Anandi's Singh brand😆

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Khusi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

but y he will mourn..he will get angry or disappoint naa...for financial help😆

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Khushi Ghai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Khushi - I haven't been cheated nor have I cheated. I too would not stick with guy who cheated me. Goodbye and good riddance. But, my self worth would definitely take a hit. I would wonder if I was not attractive enough, didn't give of myself enough, etc. People like Jug point finger at world. People like A look to see if the flaw lies within.

Exactly, true that is. And this feeling of being rejected would make me cry , it would make me depressed..the emotion would take its time to grow and gradually decay. Its been more then 2 years or something since that incident happened , the feeling has taken its time , the good memories have been remembered , they've been haunting her , they've made her think on why such a good relation ended, What went wrong? Isnt 2 years enough time to stand up and now stop crying for the good things that took place between the couple and time to think about how bad the latter memories where? Won't that arise a feeling of disgust and anger? I guess it would.

As for memories and the power they have to hurt us - its reason v. emotion. Having not loved to the depths Anandi did, it would be easy for you or I to say the cheating should negate everything - obliterate all but anger. But, in reality its simply not that easy. And there is no magic potion that erases good memories just because you have bad ones as well.

I agree and this time for this paragraph i completely agree , there is no magic potion for that but why werent the bad memories not even remembered once?? Not even once?

And even if I go with your suggestion that she should be Angry then that anger stems from the hurt. And it might be healthier to release that hurt through tears vis a vis holding onto the Anger... which in the long run will leave us only bitter.

Exactly, i would have loved if they would have shown her anger so via her tears..They just didnt show it. They didnt show the bad memories, they dint show her pain..the actual pain which she went through.

Crying is actually one of the healtiest things she is doing. Its needed for her to release all her pain and move on.

My reply is in Pink😊

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Well if all Jugs is mouring is money and family then why look at Anandi? Why hold her hand?🤣🤣 I know he's just holding on to Anandi's Singh brand😆

I think he was trying to flick her purse from her hand ... so he holds her hand as if he is mourning her, but with the deftness of a pickpocket he wanted to flick her wallet for his bus fare back home...