some mistakes are so irreversible

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The SBS segment really got me so emotional. We have all been discussing how Jagya should get punished, should face adversities for all the pain he has caused his family and Anandi but watching this small segment makes me feel his biggest punishment is his life without Anandi. Its too early to say did he feel bad or will he repent but Im sure deep down there must be a feeling which is eating him up saying why is all this happening. Can everything go back to what it was? Sadly it is so irrevsersible that this mistake will be his undoing. The upcoming track will surely show him in more pain, tougher days, separation from Gauri, maybe even seeing Anandi happily married with Shiv but I do hope towards the end Anandi and Jagyas friendship comes to the fore and she puts his life back on track (needless to say with Shivs backing) and shows Gauri the true meaning of a life partner...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you but I do not want Jag and Anandi's friendship too

Sometimes things when they are broken , are best left alone
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Posted: 13 years ago
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as they say old habit die hard...I don't think Jagya will ever stop using Anandi as his punch bag. Hence if she continues her friendship with him she will continue being miserably in pain. It's better that they move on in their lives...separately.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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But we dont know that this is a mistake ... it may be the best thing that happened to him and anandi in this time and space ... sometimes we cant see the good in it until a time comes when we are really at a place where everything has assimiliated ... and then we connect the dots and see "aah, i can see why that happened."
I think we all need to go down certain paths to become self-actualized ... and what we think is the ideal path is not the ideal path ... its the path we are currently on that is the real path...
Maybe this is jagya's path to learn the lessons he needs to learn to become the best possible person he can be and the same with anandi's path ... which neither of them would have been able to achieve their highest goodness if they had remained married to each other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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He's sad, She's devastated...both feel the end deeply...no matter how much G denies it, ignores it...this is not a happy moment for Jagya... he is hurting...she should've been there for him...noticed how after the signatures are done Anandi had DS, Basant, Gehna behind her immediately, while no one by J...his family supporting the woman he abandoned...thats got to hurt... and the idiot still thinks he's in the right...and A is to blame for everything...True, some things can't be undone...you're only left to regret them for the rest of your life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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True...I agree...maybe we feel this is Jagyas mistake but he doesnt and this pain of separation that we see in this small segment is momentary. But I was reading another post which was so true in the case of Jagya...Anandi was the one who was able to steer him towards doing things right and he has now given up what we all know as the best part of his life. If the track moves towards showing Jagyas life in a sordid mess and Anandi accepting Shiv as the true love of her life...it will be worth watching how she is so happy and secure in her relationship with Shiv that she doesnt have to fear her past and when she sees his life upside down she sets everything right for Jagya for the sake of good times they spent together. When you have the courage to face your bitter past in a positive way it is an indication that you have grown over that pain and the happy space you are in today gives you that strength...and we all know Anandis happy days are just round the corner.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonriver

True...I agree...maybe we feel this is Jagyas mistake but he doesnt and this pain of separation that we see in this small segment is momentary. But I was reading another post which was so true in the case of Jagya...Anandi was the one who was able to steer him towards doing things right and he has now given up what we all know as the best part of his life. If the track moves towards showing Jagyas life in a sordid mess and Anandi accepting Shiv as the true love of her life...it will be worth watching how she is so happy and secure in her relationship with Shiv that she doesnt have to fear her past and when she sees his life upside down she sets everything right for Jagya for the sake of good times they spent together. When you have the courage to face your bitter past in a positive way it is an indication that you have grown over that pain and the happy space you are in today gives you that strength...and we all know Anandis happy days are just round the corner.

You know moonriver, I disagree with your desire ... for once, even if anandi can help him in the future, I wish that she leaves him alone to figure out things for himself. Let him get off his butt, learn to make good decisions, learn to be respectful and learn to take responsibility for himself.
There is no need for her to drag him back even as a friend into her life with shiv... why should shiv have to deal with this nuisance jagya hovering around in their lives like a pesky fly.
she is jagya's ex-wife and not his mother to constantly try to make life easy for him and fixing his life...
I dont know about you, but if my husband had an ex-wife, and she kept coming back "just to be friends" I would really resent it ... if there are legitimate reasons to stay in touch (like kids from the previous marriage or financial matters or whatever... then it is a different thing)...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey tinoo...you are right about the ex wife coming back and the resentment the current wife would have. But here I was imagining a situation where Jagya and Gauri have separated and Anandi brings them back together. Its the biggest realization for both Jagya and Gauri that the person they willingly hurt the most reforms their lives. Of course if they are together and are suffering Anandi has no role to play...its just a point of view:)...the biggest blow here is for Jagya and Gauri who will be left dazed for the rest of their lives...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No matter what I don't want Anandi to go extend an helping hand to the beast in quicksand. regardless of umpteen attempts of selfless helping what they both(gawari and jagaaat) did to her???. They ate with the money she sent every month and then they bit her. I want Anandi to alienate herself from these no good people. i want her to have her own life where she can help countless people who need genuine help but not these selfish brats!😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonriver

The SBS segment really got me so emotional. We have all been discussing how Jagya should get punished, should face adversities for all the pain he has caused his family and Anandi but watching this small segment makes me feel his biggest punishment is his life without Anandi. Its too early to say did he feel bad or will he repent but Im sure deep down there must be a feeling which is eating him up saying why is all this happening. Can everything go back to what it was? Sadly it is so irrevsersible that this mistake will be his undoing. The upcoming track will surely show him in more pain, tougher days, separation from Gauri, maybe even seeing Anandi happily married with Shiv but I do hope towards the end Anandi and Jagyas friendship comes to the fore and she puts his life back on track (needless to say with Shivs backing) and shows Gauri the true meaning of a life partner...


I agree with you about this being very emotional moment for both J and A. While I am very much interested in seeing where J goes from here I dont want their paths to cross each other.

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