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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Jagya has a tenacity to survive in all adversities. His anger and selfish nature however will become his undoing in future. Despite Shiv's reprimands he will not learn much from this incident.

From his early childhood he has shown how he manipulates people and situations to his advantage. He has used others unconditional love for his own benefits. And he has never flinched while taking others for a ride,whether for his education or for his marriage with Gauri. In all situations he has only looked for his personal gains and interests and walked roughshod over others feelings.

I think he will continue to do so simply because old habits die hard. But, he is stubborn so I believe, he will at least finish his studies and be a successful doctor. His personal life with Gauri perhaps will not be smooth sailing as both of them are unforgiving and headstrong,though professionally he may excel. I would like to see him successful at least in some areas of life. But,he has to mend his ways which given his nature will be difficult for him.

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akvats01

@akvats01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

divorce can end a marrige, But a relation can not be ended.

Once you know som ebody and impact of people on you life, that can never be removed.

There is only one direction : When you know some one you can not e stranger again. Its only the form opf relation changes, Relation exsists for ever.

Neither Jagya , nor Aanandi can be able to remove it from their memories, and Jagya will definetly be in more truouble, coz now he knows its broken. A had accepted this long back, but J has to go through a new phasecoz he always used to think that A can not live with out him..

This relation will pinch J now. and when Gauri will speak against A, that will also push him into A's memories.

But it is better for them to keep this changed relation untouched, Do not try to be friend, its better to leave it here.and leave it alone.

I know A will never get back. She is so strong. J will also become very loenly , though with Gauri, coz Guri dont understand him a bit. Gauri ko usake liye fursat hi nahi hai..

But Aanandi will get an understanding partner and friend. I am happy for A.

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tvchick2006

@tvchick2006

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: moonriver
hey tinoo...you are right about the ex wife coming back and the resentment the current wife would have. But here I was imagining a situation where Jagya and Gauri have separated and Anandi brings them back together. Its the biggest realization for both Jagya and Gauri that the person they willingly hurt the most reforms their lives. Of course if they are together and are suffering Anandi has no role to play...its just a point of view:)...the biggest blow here is for Jagya and Gauri who will be left dazed for the rest of their lives...

Unfortunately, gauri is so insecure she will not like Anandi helping a bit and gairi's mom will instigate her more. As someone mentioned in this post, the way Anandi became strong and independent, the right way to manage jagya's position is by letting him see himself where he went wrong and becoming a better man, father, son and husband. His process should be self-realization no through series of women who act like his mother.

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akvats01

@akvats01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: moonriver
hey tinoo...you are right about the ex wife coming back and the resentment the current wife would have. But here I was imagining a situation where Jagya and Gauri have separated and Anandi brings them back together. Its the biggest realization for both Jagya and Gauri that the person they willingly hurt the most reforms their lives. Of course if they are together and are suffering Anandi has no role to play...its just a point of view:)...the biggest blow here is for Jagya and Gauri who will be left dazed for the rest of their lives...

being too good is also tooo bad. some times. I am so deeply hurted seeing her pain in SBB today. Why she should still bother about them and spend her time and energy to bring them together and make them realise how good she is for them. there is no need. Could they not see it till now, that they would see it later.

She should leave them, and should not turn back to see what happenes to them. She should see her life, her work, her aims her happiness now. her activities, her relation ship with shiv and her family.

No mercy, No compassions, No hate, No Complains, No contact... Nothing

Both of them are self sufficient, can earn, Only two and can take care of each other.they should now learn to stay together on their own, or elase seperate. No need to A to again return to this couple, who has harrased her till core. Should leave them and just leave them.

Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago

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