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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: elasingh

I m sure Gauri will become a wonderful bahu once she becomes secured in her position as wife and bahu.

really?? she will never be a good bahu coz she is taking the relation as a challege,she has contempt for them in her mind and it will nto go away if they accept her, even then it will be finally accept hkia and g ki jeet n simita ki harr!! dnt u knw g character yet??
and y shd they accept her? even with a divorce , g is still a live in relationship till they get married again, she dsnt automatically become a wife or bahu🤣!! and it is always uptothe family to accept or not there is no complusion!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

I m sure Gauri will become a wonderful bahu once she becomes secured in her position as wife and bahu.

Yes and the Singh family will think she is so wonderful and a better bahu than Anandi. She will make adrak wali chai for Dadisa and challenge Sumi to a cooking competition.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: elasingh

I was not being sarcastic. Ok family ke saath fit hona secondary hai. Apne pati ke saath to theek hai na. Itna kaafi hai.



Bold@ for this type of attitude today there is old age homes. agar shaadi kiya hai toh har member ke saath thik rehna padta hai . I mean each and every member is important, which husband will like if his wife donnot like his family or vice versa. Regarding Gauri becoming a good bahu that too comes with a condition that if they behaved nicely towards her then she would also have been good. Why cannot that be unconditional. Agar use ulta kar de ki agar Gauri ne patience or samajdari se kaam kiya hota toh use Jagya ke parivaar accept kar lete. Even after receiving bad remarks from them if she would have acted well behaved and lovingly then they would have been compelled to change their views regarding her. No one can say what one would have been if the situation is different but alteast try to change the situation according to ones favour . However it depends on ones positive and good thinking and also maintaing relationship with each and every member understanding their mentallity which Gauri lacks. So according to your version if Gauri is showered with love only then she will love others otherwise who cares type attitude.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhach

Singhs have never behaved from their heart with Gauri in a decent manner..they always considered her something a very bad girl who hooked their son...I am sure given the warm and love that singhs gave to Anandi , if showered on Gauri..She will be a very obedient and lovely DIL... Every family would like to have such a DIL...after all she is MS, very hard working and and a succesful professional...with all the analytical abilities...



Jagya has loved her a lot but in return what did she say to him.. You have not done any thing for.. I have done every thing for you.. when she has not lost any thing her manuplicative parents her career .. But jagya coz of have lost every thing.. so even if singhs give her all the respect and love so one day due to something if they scold her she will badmouth them for sure... she is worse as human.. she never listen to the person in fornt of her before jugding some as she did yesterday with jagya and this was phele kyu nahi bathaya kama kah ittha bol deliya mene
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jagya has loved her a lot but in return what did she say to him.. You have not done any thing for.. I have done every thing for you.. when she has not lost any thing her manuplicative parents her career .. But jagya coz of have lost every thing.. so even if singhs give her all the respect and love so one day due to something if they scold her she will badmouth them for sure... she is worse as human.. she never listen to the person in fornt of her before jugding some as she did yesterday with jagya and this was phele kyu nahi bathaya kama kah ittha bol deliya mene

she put all the tauntrum on jagya due to jagat behaviour..:tumne mere parivar ko ceena//' "tumne mera use kiya" so she taunt her back thats it...when it comes to gauri and jagat relationship they fight for one day and tomorrow they are again together ...remember the yesterday episode how jagat put his hand over gauri when she was sleeping with him...so thats what they love each other but jagat is not able to adjust with her downfall...

gauri was more happy than jagat for his ms...to kal ko kya vo uske parivar ko psand nhi kregi jb usey pyar milega...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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gauri is good human being...she is adjusted in her professional life...trying hard to adjust with jagat also...in case of singh family she never got love from them...even challenge betwen sumitra and gauri was due to sumitra not gauri...give love to her she will also give...sometimes even her sacrificies are called selfishness...

singh family cant give love to gauri like anandi coz she is with them from 17 years...even if gauri tried she got all abusing words..so thats changing her behaviour

dadisa wording always remain so wrong not only toward gauri but also ashima...jaise sb kuch anandi hi h...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhach

Singhs have never behaved from their heart with Gauri in a decent manner..they always considered her something a very bad girl who hooked their son...I am sure given the warm and love that singhs gave to Anandi , if showered on Gauri..She will be a very obedient and lovely DIL... Every family would like to have such a DIL...after all she is MS, very hard working and and a succesful professional...with all the analytical abilities...


even dadisa in the start did not behave warmly wid anandi even she made her burn her books, got her out of haveli wen she was young and wen adult anandi went to jail for stopping gulli's child marrige she made her live alone in kothari, but after all this anandi never garnered any ill feelings for dadisa. but if the dadisa wud have done to gauri we wud have needed earplugs for avoiding her kyun kyun and shouting.

so for gauri will only be gud to those who are gud to her the moment they turn against her (like shivani. bade papa) she wud think ill of them. and i don't think the girl having dis kind of mentality can make a gud DIL.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elasingh

I was not being sarcastic. Ok family ke saath fit hona secondary hai. Apne pati ke saath to theek hai na. Itna kaafi hai.

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I don't think it is enough to fit in well with only the husband. This is India...your marriage means you have got wedded to the whole family & social circle. If you can't adjust with the family, things are going o be uncomfortable. And as girls are the ones who enter new, the responsibility of adjustment is more on them.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhach

Singhs have never behaved from their heart with Gauri in a decent manner..they always considered her something a very bad girl who hooked their son...I am sure given the warm and love that singhs gave to Anandi , if showered on Gauri..She will be a very obedient and lovely DIL... Every family would like to have such a DIL...after all she is MS, very hard working and and a succesful professional...with all the analytical abilities...



I doubt whether professional success & analytical abilities are very high on the list of essential qualities of a good DIL. A readiness to adjust, accept family traditions & rules, and a desire to keep the family together is more what families generally look for! professional success is an added bonus of course!

Gauri ki MS degree ka kya karenge Singhs? Is she going to come & run their hospital? Forget that, she didn't care for the health of Badimasiji...what good is she as a doctor? If you can't use your education & training to help family first, then being successful in treating strangers has no value

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhach

Singhs have never behaved from their heart with Gauri in a decent manner..they always considered her something a very bad girl who hooked their son...I am sure given the warm and love that singhs gave to Anandi , if showered on Gauri..She will be a very obedient and lovely DIL... Every family would like to have such a DIL...after all she is MS, very hard working and and a succesful professional...with all the analytical abilities...

I like your post as I accept it as the joke 👏

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