Shiv DOES NOT deserve a NO

Hi everyone,

I feel that Shiv does not deserve Anandi's NO. Jagya never gave Anandi the respect she deserves. He never treated her as a human being with heart and feelings, let alone as a wife and friend. But he had received tons of respect and understanding from Anandi for a long time.

Shiv, on the other hand, always treated Anandi with respect, and always stood for her. Shiv's character was designed so well by the CVs, he is the ideal husband type of a person. Shiv is also like the grandson Dadisa always wanted and never had. If Shiv says Yes to Anandi, that shows that he is also broad minded. But if Anandi says No, Shiv will break. That is so unjust and just not right.

At the same time, I do understand that Anandi needs more time to accept another marriage and husband. In my opinion, the best course of action would be that Shiv agrees to marry Anandi, but requests the Singh parivar to keep it a secret till Anandi is able to heal and is ready to move on. Eventually, it would be great to see that Shiv's family and Anandi's family come together and get them married off. That way, Anandi's belief in arranged marriage and elders will be upheld.

Let Jagya create a scene at Jaitsar and Shiv stand for Anandi. This will increase Anandi's respect for Shiv and slowly will blossom into liking. Does anyone agree with me?

The last thing Anandi needs is someone who keeps secrets from her and treats her as a fragile feeble being. The best thing Shiv can do is be upfront with her and get her to see herself as a woman worthy of love, convince her that he loves her, and that she cares for him as well.

I agree that Anandi does not like/want people who keep secrets from her. But, at the same time, Anandi is emotionally disturbed, in that she is not ready for marriage yet. Also she has just started to realize that Shiv is the person that is supporting her while Jagya did not. What would be the best course for CVs in such a situation? I think it is best that she doesn't hurt and push away a nice person like Shiv.

Shiv is strong enough to handle a NO... he will be hurt, but understand that she herself if hurt and react accordingly.

he dsnt deserve a no. but i think anandi will nto automatically agree she will need persuation.

Yes, Shiv is the only person who can persuade Anandi (more so through his actions).

I am a girl and in my life I have seen a lot of my girl friends waiting/wanting/loving the wrong person, when the right guy never gets a chance. Eventually, and since this is real life, the right guy moves on, the wrong guy also moves on and the girl is left alone.

sad ... rest assured shiv will nto move on. i see anandi running and stopping shiv and confessing her love to him in total filmi style haha dont worry.

aanandi needs a pushover to realise her love for shiv. if sumitra is there then she can do it but as she is not in the show i want bhairon to do that role.

How ever they do it I hope they don't drag it by getting Jagya involved.I hope he doesn't cause any grief before Anandhi and shiv and both families are together in one sense.