Sometimes I feel bad for Gauri

Page

Luvchoc

@Luvchoc

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

Dinbhar hospital mein kaam karne ke baad if a woman has to comply with husband's demand of unplanned party that too when she has to wake up early the next morning, then this is very torturing. And what is wrong if the wife asks her husband to help her in keeping the tray and if he has ti remove the wine glasses. Big deal. Is mein itna footage khane ka kya hain ki he was staring at Gauri with blood-eyes and feeling insulted. There was no fault in Gauri requesting her friends to wrap-up early. If she had created a scene and shouted at her husband for calling friends over without consulting with her and had misbehaved with the guests tab Jagya ka table ko laath marna samajh mein ata. But this time she was being understanding and he was being a snob. Ek toh biwi ke paiso se party upar se usi ko ankhe dikhana and no helping attitude at all. ewww.

Gauri is being a stupid that just to win a baseless challenge she is ready to endure all this. Being a parilikhi akalmand ladki she should through have thrown Jagya long long time ago, at least when Shivaniji told her how stupid Jagya is. But jo hota hain achche ke liye hota hain. Ab jab usne Jagya ko Anandi aur Jaitsar se dur le jane ki ziddh banali hain, AnSh can live happily ever after.

But I feel bad ki AnSh ki khushi ke liye Gauri has to pay. I think she should leave Jagya after AnSh marriage and marry someone better.

Quote

Frequent Posters

731627

Suspended

Posted: 13 years ago

well it is not unplanned party for gauri .gauri already knew it .gauri jagat and friend already discuss about party one day before in sng canteen

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

tinoo

@tinoo

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

when i decide if i want to feel bad for someone ... i really see whether it is owing to controllable circumstances that they are in a bad state or uncontrollable.

it seems to me that gauri's problems in her life are all of her own doing and that she has had many self-destructive tendencies. Marrying someone like jagat itself was a big mistake ... when you marry a carrot seed you cant expect that he will bloom into a cauliflower husband.

All these scenes that you see are just fall-outs of the bad decision to marry someone who had cheated her for five years... not only that he cheated her ... but while cheating her, he really didnt have any game-plan to marry her or have any long term future with her ... its not like he had worked something out in his head that he would leave anandi after his M.S. or something... nor had he thought about how gauri would feel when she realized that he had lied to her for a total of 8 years because he knew she wanted marriage ... and he knew that his relationship was heading for a dead-end.

so when he disrespected her from the beginning in such important matters... his disrespecting her now is just inconsequential.

I dont feel bad for gauri. She had enough red flags right from the beginning... Jagat's current behaviour does not come as a huge shock to her.

Quote

Asha

@Chytra

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Marrying someone like jagat itself was a big mistake ... when you marry a carrot seed you cant expect that he will bloom into a cauliflower husband.

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
🤣

Quote

Blukitten

@Blukitten

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

How to feel bad for someone who is hell bent on destroying herself.😕
Gawari has chosen her current life...and good for nothing egoistic MCP...all for a winning a challenge.

Quote

-Ray-

@-Ray-

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

ok. lets just say there is nothing wrong in asking ones husband to help her in house hold work .

But Gauri is not paying for what asking J to pass the tray or wrapping up the party early, she is paying for

1)breaking a home ( yes she is equally guilty of breaking Anandi's home, she shud have dumped J nd come out of heir relationship when she came t know J was married ) ,

2) she is paying for challenging a mother to keep her son away from the family and many more.

Its always said what ever u do u wll have to pay for that in this life time. That's exactly she is doing.

Let me tel u Gauri kinda characters r basically selfish , today she gives her operation more importance than what her husband wants, tomorrow she wll keep herself priority over her own kid .

And I m not favoring J by saying all this, I dnt care what the reason is for their fight but they truly truly deserve this .

Quote

Nazneen

@SiriuslySujal

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Luvchoc
Dinbhar hospital mein kaam karne ke baad if a woman has to comply with husband's demand of unplanned party that too when she has to wake up early the next morning, then this is very torturing. And what is wrong if the wife asks her husband to help her in keeping the tray and if he has ti remove the wine glasses. Big deal. Is mein itna footage khane ka kya hain ki he was staring at Gauri with blood-eyes and feeling insulted. There was no fault in Gauri requesting her friends to wrap-up early. If she had created a scene and shouted at her husband for calling friends over without consulting with her and had misbehaved with the guests tab Jagya ka table ko laath marna samajh mein ata. But this time she was being understanding and he was being a snob. Ek toh biwi ke paiso se party upar se usi ko ankhe dikhana and no helping attitude at all. ewww.

Gauri is being a stupid that just to win a baseless challenge she is ready to endure all this. Being a parilikhi akalmand ladki she should through have thrown Jagya long long time ago, at least when Shivaniji told her how stupid Jagya is. But jo hota hain achche ke liye hota hain. Ab jab usne Jagya ko Anandi aur Jaitsar se dur le jane ki ziddh banali hain, AnSh can live happily ever after.

But I feel bad ki AnSh ki khushi ke liye Gauri has to pay. I think she should leave Jagya after AnSh marriage and marry someone better.

I do agree with you on some level. Then again, she did make the choice to marry Jagya AFTER knowing the truth... that he was married and had lied to her. Had she left him then and there like she should have, I would have had absolutely nothing against her.

That said, Jagya is a twit, and I feel kind of sorry for Gauri that she didn't realise what a chauvinist he was before marriage. And now she's kind of phasaave-d herself, because if she leaves him, she loses to Sumitra. I don't think she's evil, and I do think she will eventually reform, so I do feel a little bit sorry for her when Jagya acts like a git. Mixed with amusement that the couple are getting their just dues...

Quote

Asha

@Chytra

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

What is happening right now is what she called for or may be i should say yelled for!

When we take a decision , it is a taken point that we have to face the consequences. I can't go seeking mercy when I did something cruel and not mending my ways after that. So not sometimes, all the time i feel she will get to taste her medicine.

I may have some remorse when i see her repenting for her deeds. What sympathy does anyone expect for a girl who pushed her illegal partner to blacken his innocent and victimized wife and get away with it??.😕

Quote

akvats01

@akvats01

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

But unfortunately she does not feel bad for herself. She is still running to win her challange, She still want to shout at her husband and expect him , not only to understand but also to support her as well..

She is still not capable of taking ny step to change the situation, either to change the situation between her and J , Otherwise its her own choice to be in this..

If she really regret for what she has done in life, and she take steps to imporve the sitution what ever is possible now. I may support her to atleast doing the least for betterment

But she can never regret, because she never believe that she have done any thing wrong..

The moment she would relaise , what she has commited and what she has paid for her false rightneous, she would to change situation

Edited by akvats01 - 13 years ago