shiv's falling in love too fast?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am very happy that shiv has fallen in love with anandi. He's a sweetheart and will shower her with the love that slimebag jagya never gave her.
I dont see that there is any set formula for falling in love, and i do realize that people fall in love sometimes just by sitting next to each other in a plane for a couple of hours and 'clicking'...
but at the same time, I dont see any reason for shiv to have fallen in love with her so fast ...
yes, she runs a school, yes she is a good person, yes she is a sarpanch and has her own identity, yes her family is very very nice, yes she is respectful to her elders and very helpful and sensitive and also a home maker to the core ...
but somehow it seems to me that shiv had some image in mind, and he decided that anandi is a good fit with the image because she fits all the characteristics of his laundry list... rather than falling in love with anandi the person first and slowly coming to realize that these are things he respects about her.
The way they have shown it is as if some HR executive coined up an attributes list for a job role specification and then he recruited anandi as the best fit. 😕. So tomorrow if he meets someone else with the same characteristics, he could (potentially) fall for someone else exactly like her.
I really wish he had articulated some sort of 'x' factor about anandi's uniqueness which she and only she can fit.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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he is just attracted...and when ashi tells him...his reaction was .."WHAT"
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i am sure he wont accept that easily that he is attracted...being in love toh durr ki baat😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ya he is attracted. We know that ashi track is shown to introduce to his feeling in to extent to make him realized about his liking towards her. nothing much expected from this track. So chill he is not in love yet..

Edited by DonIsback - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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so u want Shiv to see Jhalak dikhlaja were anandi will be in hot skimpy clothes then only he can see that so called X factor...oh man..i disagree wid u totally
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Tinoo,
you make simple issues so complicated, oh God!
Fact 1 (quoted by you): There is no formula for falling in love
Fact 2: Love just happens.
We have may have expectations from our life partners 😆 but that doesn't mean we fall in love with just anyone. For example: I may prefer that I want my partner to be good-looking. Does that mean I start liking every good looking guy? NO!! ( I know this from personal experience 😉)
Now why ? I can't explain, because love is something that happens from within. There is no logic. Its just happens. You never think and fall in love. 😆. So you may meet people who meet your list, but it is possible that you may not fall in love with them.
Even before Shiv articulated what kind of girl he wants, he was feeling attracted to her. Yes the grand Jhukaav episode 😡 😆. Did he sat down with his list and cross-checked Anandi, and then started staring her? No!
So relax it is love.
True love is being with other person at any cost, adjusting to the other person and not dumping them just because you found someone else. He shouldn't quote any USP of Anandi, rather be aware of her shortcomings, and inspite all that like her. And unfortunately sometimes you come to know about other's shortcoming only by staying with them 😭. If shiv's love is real he will stay with her at any cost. 😊
Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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muje aisa lag raha hai thoda sa jaldi hai woh anandi ki har sachchai ko jan le uske baad woh pyar mein gire.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Teeya

muje aisa lag raha hai thoda sa jaldi hai woh anandi ki har sachchai ko jan le uske baad woh pyar mein gire.

Ya Teeya I agree 👍🏼. He just started getting attracted. He doesn't know the whole story. He needs to know her pain and difficulties before confessing his love to her. I think this is where my favourite charcter DS is going to come in 👏. I am sure she will propose to Shiv for Anandi and play the cupid. I am sure DS will open many chapters of her to him 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Falling in love has some stages unlike the street dogs..
1. KNOWING:
Collecting data regarding physical, psychological, financial info...social n cultural background, likes dislikes etc.,
2. LIKING:
after initial assessment, & tune in check up with own priorities n likes, one takes genuine interest & starts liking the person.
3. WANTING :
When liking gets pronounced,the desire to keep the person with oneself to ensure continuous happiness through out the life..
4. PROPOSAL :
The desire makes many wonders like trying to impress the person , supporting the person come what may,trying to show how beautiful life wd b with oneself,& finally conveying the proposal .
When everything goes smooth the concept of love takes life...

Love means sharing life...



Shiv is in the stage of liking , not loving...
Edited by sreevask - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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in this show all go in system so shiv is just appreciating anandi ,he is not in love later he will be shown in love so it is gradual not fast i see and yesterday it was nothing special love shown don't worry tinnoo i like the way it is ☺️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: avantikasharma1


Hi Tinoo,

you make simple issues so complicated, oh God!
Fact 1 (quoted by you): There is no formula for falling in love
Fact 2: Love just happens.
We have may have expectations from our life partners 😆but that doesn't mean we fall in love with just anyone. For example: I may prefer that I want my partner to be good-looking. Does that meanI start liking every good looking guy? NO!! ( I know this from personal experience 😉)
Now why ?I can't explain, because loveis something that happens from within.There is no logic. Its just happens. You never think and fall in love. 😆. So you may meet people who meet your list, but it is possible that you may not fall in love with them.
Even before Shiv articulated what kind of girl he wants, he was feeling attracted to her. Yes the grand Jhukaav episode 😡😆. Did he sat down with his list and cross-checked Anandi, and then started staring her? No!
So relax it is love.
True love is being with other person at any cost, adjusting to the other person and not dumping them just because you found someone else. He shouldn't quote any USP of Anandi, rather be aware of her shortcomings, and inspite all that like her. And unfortunately sometimes you come to know about other's shortcoming only by staying with them 😭. If shiv's love is real he will stay with her at any cost. 😊



But he doesn't know her well enough at the moment, does he? And, you're correct, too many people rush into a relationship without thinking. That is why love marriages often fail.

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