I have to agree with you, jiya25, much as I don't want to! I really hope he doesn't propose to her for quite a while, else he really will get a massive bhashan... She needs lots of time and lots of experiences with him to really learn to trust him and start thinking of him in that way. Otherwise it'll be like a bolt out of the blue and she'll go all, "HOW DARE YOU - I THOUGHT YOU HAD RESPECT FOR WOMEN!!!!" on him. 😲
Then again, building on the comparison someone brought up in another thread... Darcy had to propose twice before Elizabeth accepted, and there was a world of difference between her opinion of him the first time and her opinion the second time. While Anandi certainly doesn't hate Shiv at the moment, he's just a work colleague to her right now and I don't think she would consider him a 'friend' as such. More like someone with the same aim as her - Jaitsar ki unnati - with whom she is working towards a common goal. So her anger wouldn't be because she thinks he's rich and snobbish and generally horrible (like with Elizabeth and Darcy) but because she simply does not expect him to trespass the professional/personal boundary. Later, once she has reconciled herself to that idea through a lot of thinking, and a lot of him proving his worth to her, she'll be a lot more receptive.