Are CV's reviving Gauri's character? - Page 8

Originally posted by: BajiraoMastani

can some one think how the story line should move?

as with the current status I dont see Gouri will ever realise her faulta

She is a kind of girl who even forgot now that she has lost her child

so my question is how will gouri get punished?

If Jagat will leave her ( I am sure which will happen shortly) she will not fill bad

she will mingle will Dr33. why CVs dont want to punish her

please give your views

"Forgot that she lost her child" but how can you say that? Is she supposed to burn in that memory forever?😕 Gauri doesn't need to get punished for anything before Jogia does.

Don't worry... Both r punishment 2 each other... Rab... Err... Yamraj ne banadi jodi... :)
Hence they can't live without / escape from each other...

science she passed her exam is it ever shown she remembered her miscarriage?

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Not every wrong deed is an evil deed😆 EVIL is a very strong word in my dictionary hence I seldom use it. Gauri has done WRONG but she is not EVIL. I dont intend to search every BV post to find where I said she is wrong 😆 One point where I think she went wrong - blaming Anandi all the time and shouting at her. I don't believe Anandi is responsible for anything. I also really didnt like her idea to ask property from Singhs. I want her to stay away from them. However I understand Gauri's ingrained resentment towards the Singh family - due to past traumas not yet healed. Still some of her accusations on them were over the top but I dont like Singh family much either so won't say too much on that.

I dont believe my logic is illogical. I have simply viewed Gauri from another angle and put myself in her place and said now if this were happening in real to me what would I be feeling and what would I have done. But thankfully I am not the only one on the forum.😊

Originally posted by: BajiraoMastani

science she passed her exam is it ever shown she remembered her miscarriage?

a girl who lost her child will remember atlease once in her happyness also.

and secondly jogiya is getting punished from the day he got debared.

He still remembers his family ( he said to gauri that because of you I lost my family ). I dont mean his punishments should finish now, I also dont mean that it was ok to say that to gauri but he is getting punished .

Also dont you think once that gauri has done wrong to Anandi? dont you think that she has to payback for that?

How is he getting punished? It was HIS choice not to complete MS and completely his own choice not to do a job here. SO where's the punishment? Gauri was probably wrong for screaming at Anandi and blaming her for everything but I reckon the miscarriage was a punishment for that. Rest I can understand why she dislikes the rest of the Singhs so she shouldn't get any punishment for that. Dadisa never did either so why should she

I have seen all the discussions about joint accounts and seperating finances from a marriage and cringed several times but chosen not to speak. However, I guess I thought I may as well throw my 2 cents in

Originally posted by: cloudz

I have seen all the discussions about joint accounts and seperating finances from a marriage and cringed several times but chosen not to speak. However, I guess I thought I may as well throw my 2 cents in

As someone who IS married and has been for 3 years, there is no 'yours' and 'mine' in a marriage - a marriage is defined by the words 'us' and 'ours'. Mind you a few years ago I too was of the thought that I would never want to depend on my husband or ask him for money and believed that each person should be independent. I absolutely still agree that each person in a relationship should be independent and I definitely continue to be independent with a great job and a salary that could well sustain not just me but a household. HOWEVER i have realized that a joint account in no way takes away that independence. My husband and I believe that everything we earn whether it may come from his paycheck or mine is part of our combined earnings - one that we use for our life together and one that we put away for our future together.

When we bought a house, there was never a discussion of who had earned and saved how much over the past 2 years - it was about what our savings account had and what that meant in terms of the house we could afford. I can't even fathom having a discussion about 'contributing' a percentage towards expenses, a house down payment, a mortgage anything. When a marriage is about sharing a life together, how can you seperate an entire portion of life from it and call it 'mine' and 'his'. While there was a point in my life when I believed having my own money and making a call on how it's spent and not looking at what my husband earned was my way of being 'independent' i laugh at those thoughts now. Because after getting married I realize that a couple is one entity in every way and can be so while maintaining their own identities and independence

As for the earlier discussions that non-indians laugh at the thought of joint accounts, i have several caucasian friends who do have joint accounts with their spouse (some married, some even in de facto relationships) - and while some of them may maintain a smaller seperate account for discretionary spending, the majority of their earnings are combined. I have never regretted our decision to combine our banking because i have never felt like I couldn't spend money like I did before marriage even with a joint account. There is just more thought now on how a stupid impulsive expenditure could impact our future savigns and what we want to achieve - and that is never a bad thing. The only time I wish I had a smaller discretionary spend is when I want to get the hubby a gift and don't want him to see it show up on the credit card account ;)

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

"Forgot that she lost her child" but how can you say that? Is she supposed to burn in that memory forever?😕 Gauri doesn't need to get punished for anything before Jogia does.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

"Forgot that she lost her child" but how can you say that? Is she supposed to burn in that memory forever?😕 Gauri doesn't need to get punished for anything before Jogia does.

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Funny how we've all drifted off topic here back to the same old arguments😆 Fact is, no one's opinion is going to change so no point discussing it a million times😆

SRKLuvr : I am new member of this forums.. But i am following this forums since very long thing..

I have some question for you(I know many have asked u this and you have always given some stupid justification and felt u have won):😆

So now Keep your self on Gauri place and answer below question

1) Would you have married a married man😕.
2) Would you had married a married man who had married you in childhood and left you saying only ananadi is his bhendni😕
3) Would you have remember selective childhood trauma forgiven you parents and hated Jagya's family for everything😡
4) Would you have said so much negative thing to the person because of who u have all this degree and mumbai life and if she is right in what she did you is she taking all the measure so that Jagya should not come to know abt her visit 😡
5) Would your friends insulted you and break their friendship with you when they came to know abt you true character😳
6) Would you have asked money from the person who you said so much stuff to the person for funding you eduction. How would your conscious allow you to tell your beloved husband to ask for money from his parents for "Humara Hospital" . It should have been for "Tumara Hospital"😲

Actually tried of writing now ..🥱

I know i will get lot of good justification from you.👏