sumitra slaps jagya - Page 9

Originally posted by: vasu.avantika

@pink - leave out the personal attacks please😆 I have read everything - even if I havent seen it on the screen I know what she did.😆 Nobody is forcing any views down your throat you are new to this forum since 2-3 weeks you don't even know me😆 Besides I responded to Manasi only, who nicely asked me some questions😊 But I'll ask one thing😆
Anandi really is not missing anything in life except a husband. She has absolutely everything else! And I find it funny that some people say we do not blame Gauri for breaking anyone's home because Jogia himself broke his rishta with Anandi before Gauri even knew he was married. Yet you are saying she broke his home. Did Gauri cause pain to Anandi by marrying Jogia first or did Jogia cause pain to Anandi by telling her he loves someone else? When he had already broken his rishta with Anandi before her knowing then how does that make Gauri a home wrecker? How home wrecker when there is no home left to break in the first place?😆

gauri falied to her bit for saving anandi's life!! kam se kam wo to jagiya ko bhagaati ... aisa to nahi tha usse koi nahi milta? she was yougn beautiful with bright prospects! but she married jagiya anyway to extract revenbge jiska saraa bhoj ek innocent ladki ko uthana pada ... the very same one who had comforted her at the time of her fake marriage to jagya! which i would have done if i were in place of gauri. sirf pyar hi sab uch nahi jindagi me. concious bhi uch hota hai.

haan gauri ek home wrecker hai kyonki usne ek baar bhi jagya se yeh nahi kaha ki jagya tumhari biwi to bahut acchi hai tum uske saath aisa kyon kar rahe ho maana ki tum use chod kur tum mujhe paana chahte ho pur main anandi ke saath anyaye nahi kar sakti.

initially even i had a LOT OF SYMPATHY FOR GAURI. i expected her to show jagiya his place by rejecting him. but i was flbbergasted to see what she did.

Kinda feel like putting my two cents here.

Granted that Jagat broke the relation with Anandi as he knew he was married yet he pursued Gauri, but the fault of Gauri starts when she found out he was married and still ended up being with him. For me if i was in that position no amount the guys saying he no longer loves his wife etc etc will make me want to go with him... if he can leave a girl after being married to her for so many years, he can leave me to. I cannot be with someone knowing i have ruined another person's life, because what's to say if i went out of the picture that the couple didnt reconsile in the end and fall in love all over again.

And yes lets just say Bhairon paid for her education as a means of removing his guilt, fine whatever, did she suffer from it, if it gets her so much then why did she never say she wil pay back every single penny he has given? why is she now wanting her husband to get share of the property, on the one hand she doesnt want her ehsaan and on the other hand she wants her husband to claim ownership.

And unfortortuntely this is another facet of Gauri, i cant say this isnt gauri and who she was before she got married is the actual gauri, this is the Gauri as she has always been, even when she was little, it was all about her and what she wanted and what was going to happen to her life, i can accept one and ignore the other, she is very insecure because she makes herself feel insecure, because she knows in her heart what she has done and is doing is wrong and she will pay for it. Otherwise why is she constantly fearing anandi, if she indeed thought her love with Jagat is Sacha no amount of Anandi talking meeting with Jagat would change those feelings.

But yes Gauri has been through trauma, but for how long will we admnoish what she is doing and blame her torment and the pain she went through, she is not a child anymore and is accountable for her actions. When she does it its fine but if Anandi does it all hell breaks loose.

Gauri is confused and rather then going back and forth she needs to leave Jagat and assess her behaviour and make a sound decision, either she wants the family to leave them alone or she wants contact with them, gauri is not a child and should not act like one

sanya tum "ghar ghar ki kahaani" movie dekhna usme rishi kapoor anita raj se shaadi kurna chahta tha anita raaj ko pata tha yeh shaadi shuda hai anita rishi ko mana kar deti hai ki main aapse shaadi karke aapki biwi ki zindagi barbaad nahi kar sakti .rishi use bahut convince karne ki koshish karta hai pur anita nahi maanti hai.

"she is very insecure because she makes herself feel insecure, because she knows in her heart what she has done and is doing is wrong and she will pay for it. Otherwise why is she constantly fearing anandi, if she indeed thought her love with Jagat is Sacha no amount of Anandi talking meeting with Jagat would change those feelings"

this reminds me of macbeth again and again. gauri's fear is like macbeth seeing the king's ghost everywhere even thoh his deed is hidden from the world in hsi heart he knows he has doen wrong and will hae to pay dearly for it.

@Illyria, 100% agree. How long u sing the song of this childhood trauma song. Every adult is responsible for their action. If compare the trauma of Anandi, who hd to sacrifice everything for family, but still rewarded with cheating, with the Trauma of Gouri, who was saved from being a victim, thn its nothing which can justify ur all evil things. Yes may be she hd to suffer some taunted by some stupid villagers, so Anandi was also taunted for being left by her husband. These taunting can be some psychological effect for short period but it didn't effected her career. Whn they left village, she left behind all her past and moved on on her life and got Wht she wanted. Thn why her past is started haunting her now. In fact NOW SHE IS HOUNTING HER PAST. and instead of avoiding her past which is so traumatic, she is running after tht. First by marrying with Jogia, thn Ashurwaad mission, thn constant visit to Jeitsar and whn everything is settled as per her wish, like TRUE LOVE back to her pallu, without asking divorce, possible legal status, thn why again suggesting to blackmail for property? If she can live happily away from past, why to haunt it? And this Wht is real and unreal Gouri is just funny. The real Gouri is only Wht hs been shown by CVs. No one know her personally to claim tht the real was before marriage or after marriage. We can't justify becoz she assume this or tht and so she is innocent. If she can't think properly, if she create a illusive world around herself and make real life of people living in real world, thn there r other places for such people. 😉 😉

Originally posted by: hooked

That's a good thought ! Maybe the suggestion wud work at JT times - We can all check for today's Slap-o-meter for Jagya. But people shud have the option to slap more than once. 😆

If at all there is such thing my nanima will be sitting infront of laptop all the time and slap him non stop. she hates him so much. She keeps on going on and going with her shapnardh to JAGA . she resents them with all her heart and when ever i show him some funny pictures she feels really happy. If at all their is a slapometer then nanima will be first!