will anandi be compromising with her self respect?

We all anandi fans have long wanted anandi to move on and it seems th fulfilment of desire is imminent!
Had always wished anandi severes all kinds of ties with that slimy ,filthy,stinky,animal in th guise of human..and this soon may happen.
But one thing comes to my mind.jagat(hate naming him even) spate out th venom instigated by his MIL,against anandi...this pacified gauri,brought solace to her heart and more importantly proved a final blow to JA's relationship which had expired long back!
Now as anandi(only if she does) decides to move on,stop calling thm or complies to gauri's DOs n Donts,wont it convey a msg that anandi had been in need of this dose by J...that she was expectant of his return and has now stopped expecting it after he himself asked her to stay away frm their lives,ths openly!
Anandi herself has put her self respect under question!

Yes, it would have been nice if she had disengaged herself a lot earlier and just maintained a clinical relationship with him, if at all she had to have one.

Yes tinoo...breaking all the ties now,at this point of time,is though needed ,but will strenghthen gauri's n her dumb mother's allegations!

Anandi has done nothing to compromise her self-respect.

self respect -- I believe that is when we stand for our own values and principles -- that is when we earn our own respect and that is what is called self respect.

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think when you get suckered a second time it does lead to a certain falling in your own eyes.

I believe people in love tend to keep certain things aside to a certain extent till the moment of 'enough is enough' arrives(this doesn't mean she wants him back). When they reach their tipping point then only do they get back to their senses. Anandi has finally reached her tipping point! She never cried her heart out when J left her..or even when G conceived. She was found dumb struck in those situations not knowing what to do...She passed through different stages feeling sad for her plight, then she was shown boosting herself...then she was shown sitting alone and crying in loneliness wondering why J left her?
Of all these J continued talking to her as a childhood friend and she reciprocated his friendship. Hence i don't find it as a question of Self-respect when it comes to her behavior with J.
But i do doubt her quotient of self-respect when she stays silent listening to G's horrendous screams. Again that could be b'coz Anandi is too matured and knows that there wouldn't be any point trying to explain things to a mental zombie!

If you ask a crow to shut up - will it stop crowing ?

I still think it is nice if we read our surroundings and opt out of a situation ourselves before we are thrown out of the situation by another individual. It just leaves us with a feeling of dignity.

Originally posted by: hooked

Anandi knows and understands this and hence does not get down to Gauri's level. There r quite a lot of times when A has had enough and has soundly told her off. But G has selective amnesia and a very loud repetitive whine. I know I would bang the phone down on Gauri in these moods as that wud really really piss her off.